"I hate myself...I love myself...I just can't control myself...—"
My question is this...
How many people in your opinion do these above statements refer to...?
For an entity to refer to itself as "me" and "I" suggests that there must be two differant entities in question...it's logical...think about it.
If "I" were to hate, love or not control itself it would surely refer to itself as "I" not as "me"...they are two differant things...!!!
So what now does this tell me...—
Well personally it does a lot to explain to me why I believe we live falsly within society because of our will to gratify our physical senses.
Our minds or the "me" watches tv, reads magazines and begins to think that the right clothes and makeup is what it takes to get the perfect husband...so the "me" lives in "society" a false world...a rude, heartless, money driven, pointless existance that is by it's nature in an ever downward spiral through desire...!!!
Now all we have left is the "I"...so how do we explain that...!!!
The "I" is who you really are. The "I" is your connection with God...your soul.
The "I" is the reason you know you cannot lie to yourself. The "I" is the reason you know that no matter how much makeup she wears or which designer designed his clothes they should have no outcome at all in your choice to see that person as attractive for if it does then you are attracted to those clothes or that makeup not that person as they are...the way they were born!!!
Durrie, Let me first start off by saying that I find you very mentally stimulating; I think it's great that you pose such profound questions/posts.
Here's my take on things... I feel that we're an extension of God and that he has placed us here to carry out a specific duty and has set us on a certain path to fulfill that duty, but along the way things begin to happen. Starting out on this journey we were pure and authentic, however as we began to come in contact with environmental influences they began to contaminate our thinking as well as our self-image. (Parents, teachers, neighbors, t.v.,drugs, etc.) So now, not only are we searching for our purpose in life, but we're also trying to get back on the right path to finding our authentic-self so that we can be received back unto God.
Now-a-days you really have to know who you are, and what you are because if you don't the world is going to define it for you.
I agree with you Rare-Gem...durrie is very mentally stimulating! I also agree with your post about life and us humans....what has happened to us is called, "domestication." We came into this world in the pure form of love. Could it be that all that has and is happening to us is meant to only for us to discover this? Maybe all of this domestication is a shell that has covered our true being and now we are to chisel that away to get us back to our true selves. Life is a process of discovery and we are here to LIVE....living is everything isn't it? The good, the bad the ugly or however one chooses to perceive the challenges that enter into his path.
I seem to find myself taking off the layers of the past to reveal the new me...sort of like going through a re-birth. This is fun and exciting and so full of surprises!
Just thought I would throw my thoughts out there in cyber-land.
"Oh God, to have reached the point of death only to find that you have never lived at all." ~Thoreau
Personal Horoscope & today's Special Message for: Aries on Oct 9 2002 Provided by : Free Zodiac Astrology, Love Poems and Daily Horoscopes You may be feeling a little reckless now. You are unlikely to have a great deal of patience and may not want to go along with the plans of others. This is a time to invent, to do things in your own way, and to honor your own creativity and originality through your actions. This time may be spent trying to iron out the wrinkles in a close relationship. Your partner may be a source of disappointment when their behavior falls short of your expectations.
-------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Maitreya's Special Message for you Today: Realities that can never be changed? Can we ever change them? How to make a decision on changes of life? Saying yes or no to turns & changes? - 5
We the people of this planet, on any vibrational rate or frequency level, have to face certain realities. Those realities are known to us, ingrained in each living and transforming cell of our system but the functional part of our soul, that is mind gets into delusional modes, creates illusory realities and personal truths. These states of our mind, allow us create some truths that we start believing. Many of these illusions, delusions, and unreal truths are programmed by artificial educational systems, pseudo-religious & rigidly structured social political belief systems since thousands of lives that we have lived. Whether we change or keep the same vibratory frequency of our spirit energy, - which is our true essence, our true reality [the only real one indeed]; in this life, we are trained and programmed to believe things which are non-existing realities. In other words, they are mere fantasies and even though they are tangible thoughts they are not essentially real. These non-real entities and beliefs become our personal truths and we expect others to have the same truths. Each entity and frequency has its own personal truth. We not only believe in all these given personal truths we force them into our lives and try impose on others by expecting them to behave as per our truths.
These truths are never interpreted by us for lack of time to evaluate our life. We take them for granted. By the resistance to accept the real reality or what is out there, we create great misery for us. We suffer incessantly. We wail and grieve for being cheated, getting ripped off, used, wasted and we blame this, that and anyone who appears to be the cause. People appear horrible, rigid and seem to manipulate us and we want to change them. There are so many things we want to change. We are filled with almost all negative feelings and we enter into rage, hopelessness, despair and angst. Every person deals with hurt in a different manner by any available mean or channel to release. Many kill this internal pain and suffering by emotional cosmetics like alcohol, drinks, drugs, foods, poisons and other ways to self destruction. All this works temporarily but there is no solution. Others keep stuffing with non-releasing dead emotions believing that their anguish, misery or martyrdom may change something. But nothing ever changes and we continue with our perpetual intents of changing the world. Why?
Let us face the reality. Some things will never change. Some people will never change. Some realities cannot be your personal truths even though we consider those fantastic ideas as real. If we do not accept the essential reality that nature of things is never changed or altered, we will continue to make our selves miserable. The change that comes from within, from the core of nature is possible but that takes place far beyond our control. If nature of a thing or person has to change, it will change on its own organically. We may be a factor of change but not th
Wow Freebird...that was truely inspirational...thank you!!!
There is much correlation between that and what I was trying to get across in my origional post, but something just as great has dawned on me from the above and the replies to this post on the misc board.
The reality is that you need to recognise and accept you are actually an unworldly being in essence. Once you do that it is as the above says...you become very happy healthy and wise through your association with that nature because that is the actual you...!!!
While it is true that my realisation of the "me" and "I" has undeniably proven to myself that I am actually a soul and not essentially a human I realise now that that was my realisation and it need not work for everyone else..."good things come to those who wait"...!!!
Live and let live...!!!
Thank you freebird for that truely inspirational piece.
This planet, Earth surely is a remarkable place isn't it? When we have questions and we are open, they come to us as if it were "magic". Everyday is like this if we are open to life... YES! LIVE AND LET LIVE!!!
YOU are so very welcome. I am glad that I was able to help you today as YOU have also helped me. 🙂
Rare Gem...you are very kind thank you for your comments.
I posted this topic on the misc board and then after much consideraation, the Gem board because Gem's have that open mind and thirst for knowledge...a strong sense of free and open emotionless debate which I was hoping to tap into and with you and freebird I can see I have achieved that...!!!
Yes...you think like I do in that you believe in the "oneness" of all...that we are all connected...all part of God that is true and your thought that we have a duty on earth is also true...our duty is to serve God...pure and simple...anything else is serving ourselves...!!!
Now when you think about it...that doesn't mean you can't have what you want in life because by serving God you actually serve yourself...remember the connected "oneness"...!!!
You see, that contamination of our self image and thinking you speak of while on that path to our God given duty is very real and is only contamination through our very own choice...that is God's gift to us through physical life...freedom of choice...!!!
We have the choice to serve and satisfy ourselves or we have the choice to serve and gratify God and hence indirectly serve and gratify ourselves. When we choose to serve ourselves it is because we are more interested in the physical state, gain and being than in Godly state and being. This binds us to the physical world through our own choice because we prefere that state...that is our choice and we are hence damned into the eternal but fair cycle of life and death of which physical life is a part of.
We serve ourselves by means of gratifying our senses as part of a false world made of physical mediums. Think of it like this...
You have many household things that bring you as Rare_Gem or Freebird much pleasure...your favorate TV show...your favorate arm chair to watch it in etc... Those things please Rare_Gem and Freebird...they do nothing for your soul so they do nothing for God and hence you need to pay pennance for your sins...
The simple process I have outlined above is know as karma.
Realise what and who you actually are and live accordingly...that's all there is too it.
For everything there is a process, but it is not until you understand that process that you can understand what something is or how it happens...
Magic, miracles, illusions...these are all things that the human mind doesn't understand so it creates a word for it and names it that thing to satisfy it's false sense of superiority...!!!
Let's keep sharing our thoughts...this is very stimulating indeed...thankyou freebird!!!
Will you tell me what you know about this person, Maitreay?
"Magic, miracles, illusions...these are all things that the human mind doesn't understand so it creates a word for it and names it that thing to satisfy it's false sense of superiority...!!!"
Magic is an illusion and destortion and trickery. Miracles are not. When they happen to you or if you listen to others who have experienced a miracle, you would know they are for real. Miracles happen when there are no logical explaintion as to how or why they took place but they do!!! Healings etc...how does that imply a false sense of superiority when it is unexpected?
Very, very interesting topic going on here.... I THINK that we all are pure LOVE...underneath it all that is. We are learning to get back to that state.
Quote from durrie, "Realise what and who you actually are and live accordingly...that's all there is to it."
So, let's say we are LOVE...all of our choices will be based from this place of love rather than from FEAR (false evidence appearing real). Can you imagine the wonderful times that we will be creating for ourselves and all of those we encounter?
"Will you tell me what you know about this person, Maitreay?"
I will tell you what I know, but I want to hear what your impressions of him are? Or what he represents to you!
This hits close to home because I had a friend that named her son this in 1982 and has since renamed him Matthew after a lengthy discussion on this 'Maitreya'.
I enjoyed your last post.
I always love what Durrie has to say! Sometimes its out there pretty far, but it is always intriguing!!! Thought provoking! Scintillating. OOpps, better stop there!
How about explaining your point? Put it into context. Relate 'life' or experience or a story that gives some rhyme to your reason? Is that asking too much? Can we get friendly here. I'll tell you mine and we can get to know each other on a more personal level. All I get is a bunch of data and general info and nothing to relate it too.
I am not sure if we are talking about the same person as your spelling of the name (Maitreay) is different than the spelling that I have (Maitreya). I do not know anything about this person yet. I just thought his/her message was very interesting. I am willing to learn though and I will do some exploring. I have found that we can never really know someone no matter how much exploring we do. So much is hearsay or gossip..only the specific person involved would be the one I would need to speak with. Anywho....I would love to hear what you have to say about what you heard or would this be judging? In the scheme of life, does it really matter? Just thinking here.
Life, life and life...it is so darn simple and we create it to be so hard for ourselves sometimes. Oh, to be a child again!
I am going to do this today, live in a childs free mind but use the wisdom of my years here.
I see your point SusyQ but how do you think miracles are differant...in what way—
Healing...is merely a process...the reversal of the process of getting sick...so then why do you think healing is a miracle but not getting sick...—
In the same way I can make water from oxygen and hydrogen. I can also make oxygen and hydrogen from water...it's a process that I understand so it's a process I can do...
Show that process to an ignorant man who is bound by his mind and he will call it many things...a miracle is one of them.
This is truely an inspirational thread for me...I love to share with you all and I believe it is God's will...
Freebird if I may I would like to share my thoughts with SusyQ even though she asked you the question...
"authentic self"...this I would understand to mean the real me as Rare_gem said. It is the realisation of what I actually am in essence...what I am made of and where I come from.
Now SusyQ...try imagine the vastness of the all omnipotent he that is God and how he is inside of everything...wordly and unwordly alike...now you see why Freebird says what he says...
"Life, life and life...it is so darn simple and we create it to be so hard for ourselves sometimes. Oh, to be a child again"
This is very true Freebird...but I wonder why you wish to be a child again...is a child not ignorant...is a child not dependant on his physicality in terms of his mother and father for his safety as a child...—
A child is young as an adult is older but your soul...your soul has no age your soul is a constant...it always was and always will be...as is God.
Be careful what you wish for Freebird...your wish may just come true...through the grace of God...!!!
I was saying that I wish to be a child again because they are so simple, they just "do" and they just "be". They have not (depending on the age) been domesticated to the point of loosing their freedom to act and be who they are without judgements or wondering if they are accepted. They are so loving, free with their emotions, so real...do you see what I am saying? Do you have children? They see the wonder in life, they create from their heart. I could go on and on. No, children are not ignorant...where did that come from? How can someone just starting out in life be called ignorant? This is the process, to grow, to learn. Maybe your definition of ignorant is different than mine. None of us really know anything...and if we think we do, than we know nothing. One who knows it all has no room to learn. If a child is ignorant, than we all are ignorant till the day we leave our bodies and we all are in a constant state of growing. Not sure that we can measure knowledge or should we even use that label. We just are what we are at each given moment in life. Simple.
I do understand about the soul, there is no age. Our bodies are our instruments for use on this planet. Our bodies are gifts to us for us to take care of. Notice how some people take better care of their cars than their body?
Durrie,
I so love wishing for things as they do come true! The power of feeling through our thoughts.
"I see your point SusyQ but how do you think miracles are differant...in what way—"
Durrie,
Are you serious?
One is real and the other is an illusion or fake, right?
Maybe healing was a bad example for you.
"authentic self"...this I would understand to mean the real me as Rare_gem said. It is the realisation of what I actually am in essence...what I am made of and where I come from"
God says he knew us before we were in our mother's womb. Which meant he knew exactly how we would handle things. He knows our mind and heart before we were a seed and picked us, as Freebird implied. There is nothing to get back to. Just keep on going forward. Enjoy life and let it unfold naturally and not try and force love. Your heart either loves and acts accordingly or it doesnt. Free will is ours and God wants us to love him because we just do not because we have something coming or we are trying to get something for it. I just love him, and either it goes, I will always love him.
I do know that magic is done by a magician, and it is an illusion and distortion of the eye and the mind and is done intentionally to deceive. It his a pre-meditated act. A miracle is not.
Durrie,
I will write you what I know about Maitreay when I have some more time.
SusyQ...*durrie giggles with delight in knowing you ment no harm*
SusyQ...my dear friend...Never feel the need to apologise for an action when you know for yourself that your action was not malicious in origion...think about it...what have you to appologise for..what a waste of energy is that...—
Right, now back to the magic vs miracle thing...I am dead serious...they are no differant...
When Jesus turned water to wine and stone to bread what was he doing...performing miracles...NO!!! (well yes and no really because)
Let me explain...
To the ignorant who do not know the process to change water to wine or stone to bread he was this amazing massiah who performed "miracles"...but... To himself and others like him on that plain or level of metality and existance he was merely following a simple process to which he knew the inns and outs of.
That's all there is to it...how is that so hard to understand...—
Freebird, my dear friend. Yes indeed we are interpreting the meaning of ignorant differantly here...let me explain myself...
Ignorant to me means one who knows not what he or God is...God is everything God is Omnipotent.
You are thinking of the word innocent...and yes I agree a child is innocent. A child is innocent to the ways of society and human life untill his brain and physical soroundings start to manipulate him and grow this false identity he identifies with and his mind.
Freebird...even your name suggests the struggle within. You wish to soar like a bird but your mind tells you you can't and you trust your mind so you that is the only reason you can't nothing else...it's as said to SusyQ...learn the process and it is possible...it's that simple.
How do you learn the process...that's also simple...learn who you are and hence what you are capable of...!!!
"Right, now back to the magic vs miracle thing...I am dead serious...they are no differant...
When Jesus turned water to wine and stone to bread what was he doing...performing miracles...NO!!! (well yes and no really because)"
Well, I like to see anyone part the read sea, walk on water, etc. I'm not talking about pulling a quarter from behind your ear or a rabbit out of the hat. How about giving sight to the blind with the a touch of his hand etc...
Thanks for your explanation...sure appreciated it.
I am puzzled by something you did write however, "Freebird...even your name suggest the struggle within." Now, how do you know I am struggling? Just because I chose that name says I am struggling? why can you not feel that it suggest I am free? Judgement? Now, Durrie, you really are just "assuming" here as you really do not know. I do know the real story though because I am living it. I am truly free. Now you may wonder free from what and what is the definition of truly—? it is only important to know that I know I am free and very happy.
I am also so glad for your imput and growing with all of you on these boards.
Maitreya is not a person per se. Maitreya means "The World Teacher" in the Buddhist culture. The World Teacher for Christians is known as Christ. In all the different religious cultures they each have a name for their "World Teacher" who will once again come down to earth for the 2nd coming.
All these cultures are talking about the same person, same concept. And that there is just one Universal Teacher. He/She is just known by different names. What "Freebird" posted was a message about the Buddist beliefs. I read the same website.
Suzy Q, I apologize for my sarcasm earlier. What I mean when I say authentic self is that that's the person that God created you to be. In route to fulfilling your life's purpose here on earth, you'll come across people who will label you as being one thing or another. They ( society) will condition you to believe and concentrate on superficial things (worldly possessions, success, power,cars,etc.) that have nothing to do with your actual purpose here, thus making it more difficult for you to stay true to the REAL (authentic) you and carry out your TRUE (God's reason for putting you here) purpose.
"God says he knew us before we were in our Mother's womb... ...He knows our mind and heart before we were a seed and picked us." Yes, that's true, but he picked us to do what is my question? I'm sure it wasn't to walk around aimlessly in the world. Why did he being God take the time to make physical beings when we could've stayed one with him spiritually and remained sinless?
You are misinformed on the subject quite frankly! Do a little more investigating.
"In recent years, information about Maitreya's emergence has come primarily from Benjamin Creme, a British artist and author who has been speaking and writing about this event since 1974. According to Creme, Maitreya descended in July 1977 from His ancient retreat in the Himalayas and took up residence in the Indian-Pakistani community of London. He has been living and working there, seemingly as an ordinary man, His true status known to relatively few. He has been emerging gradually into full public view so as not to infringe humanity's free will. As a modern man concerned with today's problems, Maitreya has worked on many levels since 1977 to prepare humanity for His outward presence."
Actually it is you who is misinformed SQ. Your taking his work literally and totally missing the meaning of what he's saying. Here is the meaning
>>WHO IS MAITREYA? -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- He has been expected for generations by all of the major religions. Christians know Him as the Christ, and expect His imminent return. Jews await Him as the Messiah; Hindus look for the coming of Krishna; Buddhists expect Him as Maitreya Buddha; and Muslims anticipate the Imam Mahdi or Messiah. The names may be different, but many believe they all refer to the same individual: the World Teacher, whose name is Maitreya (My-TRAY-ah).
"God says he knew us before we were in our Mother's womb... ...He knows our mind and heart before we were a seed and picked us." Yes, that's true, but he picked us to do what is my question? I'm sure it wasn't to walk around aimlessly in the world. Why did he being God take the time to make physical beings when we could've stayed one with him spiritually and remained sinless?"
He wanted our love. The only way for us to prove it was to seperate us and give us free will. He could have kept us, but how would he have known if the love was real or if it was not. We have to come to him and show him. He doesn't want it if it isn't for real! Would you. No! He is no different. He wants our uncondinitonal love!
You are not wandering aimlessly. There is only one you and one me and we are all here for his pleasure. Apparently you are doing exactly what it is you are to do for now. Whether that is being a good mother or a sister or a brother or a teacher or a nurse or a student, it doesn't matter. "Just do it" like the Nike commercial says. WE are all made for specific tasks. Some are harder than others.
You know all this stuff is in the bible if you would open your heart and read the love letter he wrote to you.
"They ( society) will condition you to believe and concentrate on superficial things (worldly possessions, success, power,cars,etc.) that have nothing to do with your actual purpose here, thus making it more difficult for you to stay true to the REAL (authentic) you and carry out your TRUE (God's reason for putting you here) purpose"
Yes, I think that is exactly what God wants us to do. To take ourselves to the limit mentally and to do things that are phenominal. Such as rockets to the moon, open heart surgery, organ transplantions, cars that go 200 miles an hour etc...power, energy, build. I think he is fascinated by what man can do and build, and sad at the same time at what he can destroy. I think he will let us go as far as we can. Like I said just watch. Look what you have witness in your lifetime and wonder!
I know he is just thinking why? Why can we be so good and so damn evil. You know when he destroyed the world he left what was the cream of the crop...Noah and his family. Yet within the best of his people there was evil. Ham is son who had sex with him mother, and from there it started all over again. Everything evil a man can think of he will do. If God was to take that out of man, we would not have free will and thus we would be like robots and he wants our love he wants our TRUE LOVE not to have us be made to love him. He is a jealous God!
There is so much to this and it really is hard for me to write. Alot easier to speak about it, but I hope this helps.
Well then what is the inspirational message posted today from Maitreya. I'm not gonna fool around with words. If it isn't a message from Jesus Christ and you'll find his message in the bible then it is from the false one. Your gonna have to do better than that slick!
"Those are not the teachings of Jesus Christ and that is who I am calling God".
First I'd like to say that Jesus Christ never taught a day in his life. As a matter of fact he was just a normal guy. Actually he was a thief and that's why he was crucified. There was nothing special about this man at all. He was a commoner like everyone else of that time.
The Bible is nothing but a fairy tale written by men who were not only creative but had a really bizarre sense of humor IMO! I'm sure you're well aware of how many times the Bible has been re-written thru the ages? And each time it became more and more embellished. And of course the Roman Catholics needed something symbolic when they came into power so they adopted the book to brainwash the upcoming generations.
If you want to read something that IS TRUE take a look at David Wilhey's book "The Divine Cosmos". He was kind enough to put it on the net for all to read. Do a search and you'll get to the site with the book. The book will put to rest any Universal questions you may have and will even put the Jesus Christ theory to rest.
What did you get spanked too hard in perochial school!LOL! Did the nuns take your toys from you— LOL!
"I'm sure you're well aware of how many times the Bible has been re-written thru the ages? And each time it became more and more embellished"
No, let's here about it.
Where were you when the bible was written or when this part of history, and that is exaclty what is history, was taking place?
You have nothing, and no research for your information! Just an opinion.
The bible is the most well preserved document in history. Why do you believe other ancient history and not this? All ancient history has been re-written over and over again! So, do we just disregard all of it?
Why don't you read Lee Strobel who is one of the best legal and journalistic investigators there is, give evidence for the bible. He was hard core atheist until he started uncovering the truth. Piece by piece. The book is titled 'The Case For Christ' Scientists and Ph.d's from all over the world and theologians have all contributed to this book! You think I give a treetrunk about David Wilock who the treetrunk is he?
So That it Saggie, is that the best you got? the bible was one huge conspiracy? Damn, even Oliver Stone isn't that stupid!
Let me conclude here, some 30 year old from New Jersey has figured something out that brilliant scholars and theologians haven't done for hundreds of years? But you got it all down! Wow! What is it you do you do for a living?
Hello all...good to share with you again...thanks for your comments.
O.k so while I don't belive that Jesus Christ was our saviour I do believe that the bible was writen by men who knew Jesus and were his deciples. Jesus Christ walked the earth once that much is real...why else would man choose to document time on earth by his death (BC & AD) if that were not true Saggie...—
To my mind this is who Jesus Christ was and why... Jesus Christ came to a realisation...he realised his true self and that is that he is essentially a spirit a soul...NOT a human body!!!
Through this realisation of his he was able to perform these miracles of his SusyQ...not because he was special or the son of God...we are all the children of God.
You see...he realised he was a spirit/soul and we all know that the spirit world controls the physical world and this is why he was able to manipulate the physical world as he did...ie. change water to wine...stone to bread and yes...even walk on water and heal the sick because these are all "physical" things that exist only in the physical world.
Look...I don't expect anyone to see my point here but if I were to leave you with one point it would be this...
Know that you are all you ever need in life when you listen to your heart...!!!
"why else would man choose to document time on earth by his death (BC & AD) if that were not true Saggie...—". That is a very good question and definitely worth looking into. Oh and I get you point very well.
As for SQ comments I have no respect for people who are narrowed, closed-minded relgious zealots who hide behind a "comic book"! She'll never find her "authentic self" will she now?
Saggie you are entitled to an opinion that much is true but why do you feel the need to express here when you know full well that it is going to hurt somebody...
Yes I agree that no offense should be taken in the face of ignorance but then you don't know 100% that Jesus was not a man on earth or that he was the son of God so then why...why do you choose to be the cause of others pain and grief.
Yes they might be foolish in their beliefs (which I am not saying by the way) but never believe ones soul is damned...that is the biggest ignorance of all...!!!
How dare you say someone will never discover their true selves...that is pure ignorance...!!!
Yes they might need like another ten lives before they come around but that is their progression...that is their status in the bigger picture...Ignorance should be forgiven not mocked or any other stance taken toward it...!
You are a clever open minded man Saggie...please I know you don't care for makeing enemies but you are and very quickly through you quick toungue and slow mind...
When did the use of A.D. and B.C. begin? A.D. is an abbreviation of the term anno Domini, Latin for "in the year of the Lord." The concept of A.D. is thought to have been first used in the 6th century by Dionysius Exiguus, a monk. This era began with what most people think was the year of Christ's birth. (Some historians now say that Christ was born from 4 to 7 years earlier.) The term B.C. for "Before Christ" has been in use since the end of the eighteenth century. Neither of these two eras start with a year numbered as zero: 1 B.C. is followed immediately by A.D. 1.
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well what is it in us gems that makes our guys so possessive and jealous all the time? when i was dating a scorpio guy he would always tell me that i was a big flirt and he he said he couldnt stand it. well he didnt thats why he had an intimate relations
My question is this...
How many people in your opinion do these above statements refer to...?
For an entity to refer to itself as "me" and "I" suggests that there must be two differant entities in question...it's logical...think about it.
If "I" were to hate, love or not control itself it would surely refer to itself as "I" not as "me"...they are two differant things...!!!
So what now does this tell me...—
Well personally it does a lot to explain to me why I believe we live falsly within society because of our will to gratify our physical senses.
Our minds or the "me" watches tv, reads magazines and begins to think that the right clothes and makeup is what it takes to get the perfect husband...so the "me" lives in "society" a false world...a rude, heartless, money driven, pointless existance that is by it's nature in an ever downward spiral through desire...!!!
Now all we have left is the "I"...so how do we explain that...!!!
The "I" is who you really are. The "I" is your connection with God...your soul.
The "I" is the reason you know you cannot lie to yourself. The "I" is the reason you know that no matter how much makeup she wears or which designer designed his clothes they should have no outcome at all in your choice to see that person as attractive for if it does then you are attracted to those clothes or that makeup not that person as they are...the way they were born!!!