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I have sat him down and basically asked him what he wanted....he says he wants a friendship first....and if something develops well then ok...only problem is that HE crossed a line...he knew how I felt about him and crossing that line to me made it worse....and I told him. I didn't want to waste my time or his, he was fine for about 1 month, couldn't ask for a more sensitve and caring person and about two weeks after that he royally pissed me off because all along here I am paying all this attention to him, spoiling him, Jesus even hand fed this man!!!! Totally spoiled him...which he enjoyed immensely however, when it came time for him to reciprocate.....well, nothing.......I called him on it and that's when he apologized for "crossing the line" since then I have blown him off, don't want to talk to him and he keeps coming around and sooner or later I always fall.....we both know that we are extremely attracted to each other...too much fire....I mean I have even thought about looking for another job just to get away from him...maybe I am just be obsessive...don't know....

Sammie,
All I can say to you is see things as they really are not as you want them to be. Also, everytime you take him back you're saying to him that they way he's treating you is acceptable. He convinced you of an illusion now you see for yourself that it doesn't really exist. So do you keep believing in a lie or do you move on—

No way....I have moved on.....I guess the only thing left is next time he says something or hints at something, I just royally go off and show him the famous Scorpio temper we are known for...at this point I don't care if I lose his friendship..

Just ignore him - it will be more effective on a gemini than yelling at him.

Cortica, you are soo right...that's the one thing I know that bothers him....I don't know why...he even told me once that he prefered that I fight, throw something at but not ignore him...I just don't know how and why I let him get to me so deep.....someone told me that was bound to happen between a Gem and Scorp

Sammie,
What friendship, one does not treat a friend in such a manner. I also think it's best if that you should leave him alone completely; like he never existed. (Hey, we gems do it all the time.) Screaming at him won't teach him a lesson, actually it will let him know that he still has a hold on you, cause why else would you act in such a way?
Look, everything happens for a reason so try to figure out what it is that you're suppose to take away from this experience and learn from it. Life is too short and precious, so please live it to the fullest without any regrets...

Pain is inevitable, suffering is optional.

true on that rare gem most of us can be such d✨kheads but once you give us a cold shoulder then that's when you got us beat..

how old is this topic? FACKIN' 'ELL

Since you are or were friends anyway might as well cross some lines intimacy wise, but coming from the same work place is rather corny it says something of you in the sense that you'd rather be on home turf when it comes to a potential relationship instead of getting out there to find someone compatable. Cliche no?? Coworkers in love and dating.