Compatibility...

Just in a general sense would this be a good match-up upon first glace?

Me:

Sun Gemini

Moon Virgo

Mercury Taurus

Venus Aries

Mars Gemini

Asc Libra

Him:

Sun Aries

Moon Scorpio

Mercury Aries

Venus Taurus

Mars Aries

Asc Taurus

I'd like to see the whole charts or at least post your birthdates so we can draw them up ourselves, but at first glance it looks nice.

Suns and moons are compatible by sign, Mars signs are compatible, his Mars/Sun are in the same sign as your Venus, if they are conjunct that would be even more harmonious. There's a possible Mars/sun double whammy since your Mars might sextile his Sun, as well.

Posted by AriesIntrovert16
I'd like to see the whole charts or at least post your birthdates so we can draw them up ourselves, but at first glance it looks nice.

Suns and moons are compatible by sign, Mars signs are compatible, his Mars/Sun are in the same sign as your Venus, if they are conjunct that would be even more harmonious. There's a possible Mars/sun double whammy since your Mars might sextile his Sun, as well.

From the chart I did...Mars was unaspected, so that may not be so good.

Mine is May 27 1985 3:00 PM Thousand Oaks, CA

His is March 31 1983 8:00 AM Santa Ana, CA

If your Mercury is conjunct his asc, you might have a bit of an intuitive vibe with each other, you might value each other's opinions, and maybe even have similar thoughts/opinions.

Whose Mars is unaspected?

Posted by AriesIntrovert16
Whose Mars is unaspected?

I'm not sure it didn't specify whose Mars it was. It was a composite "partner" chart I did through Astro.com

I see a nice Venus/Mars conjunction in your 7th house and his 12th, very nice and definitely points to attraction on both sides, but maybe he wasn't as aware of his attraction to you right away. Mars is sextile mars, you two might have a certain drive that is similar or complementary to one another. Moon trine Venus seems sweet, possibly very affectionate. Moon sextile moon, very good, I've noticed that having compatible moons in synastry shows up more frequently in long term relationships than compatible Suns. Which you also have.

Posted by AriesIntrovert16
I see a nice Venus/Mars conjunction in your 7th house and his 12th, very nice and definitely points to attraction on both sides, but maybe he wasn't as aware of his attraction to you right away. Mars is sextile mars, you two might have a certain drive that is similar or complementary to one another. Moon trine Venus seems sweet, possibly very affectionate. Moon sextile moon, very good, I've noticed that having compatible moons in synastry shows up more frequently in long term relationships than compatible Suns. Which you also have.

It's interesting, but he is VERY difficult to read so I was unable to tell if he was attracted one way or another (still kinda unsure). He moves slooooowwww though. Maybe that's the Taurus in him?

I see a very close Mercury/Chiron/Asc conjnction. You might find yourselves healing/hurting one another as you communicate with one another. I see he has Chiron in the 1st, he might be very insecure when it comes to his looks regardless of what he actually looks like. People might have bullied him due to a physical ailment. Your Mercury on both of those placements could help him get overcome those past issues.

Posted by AriesIntrovert16
I see a very close Mercury/Chiron/Asc conjnction. You might find yourselves healing/hurting one another as you communicate with one another. I see he has Chiron in the 1st, he might be very insecure she it comes to his looks regardless of what he actually looks like. People might have bullied him due to a physical ailment. Your Mercury on both of those placements could help him get overcome those past issues.

Wow ok that part is actually spot on. So specific and rings very true. Thank you! He is quite resistant but still initiates conversation every single day so it's hard to read his intentions.

Yeah, with Venus/Asc in Taurus along with 3 12th house placements, he is probably very slow to move and very secretive/private/shy at first.

Posted by AriesIntrovert16
Yeah, with Venus/Asc in Taurus along with 3 12th house placements, he is probably very slow to move and very secretive/private/shy at first.

Any advice for my best approach here? Just patience? I have Venus in Aries so...