Courting a long distance gemini pt.II

This topic was created in the Gemini forum by wunderboywonder on Monday, October 14, 2013 and has 2 replies.

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@wunderboywonder
12 Years

I went back to school this past weekend and spent a good portion of the weekend with her, taking all the advice that you guys gave into consideration. It only strengthened my initial gut feeling.... I am completely consumed by my attraction to this woman. Its so intense right now, I'm actually kinda bothered by it. I want this person in my life, maybe forever.

Here's a question: she talks about marriage and children A LOT.... very casually, but on a pretty frequent basis and without provocation. Is she feeling the same way about me as I feel for her? Is she trying to feel me out as far as my values as it pertains to family? If she is mentioning it to me, does that mean that she's me as a potential mate? Is it an age thing (she's 33)? Gem girls, do you talk like this to people in everyday conversation? I think i'm losing my mind....

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14 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by wunderboywonder
I went back to school this past weekend and spent a good portion of the weekend with her, taking all the advice that you guys gave into consideration. It only strengthened my initial gut feeling.... I am completely consumed by my attraction to this woman. Its so intense right now, I'm actually kinda bothered by it. I want this person in my life, maybe forever.

Here's a question: she talks about marriage and children A LOT.... very casually, but on a pretty frequent basis and without provocation. Is she feeling the same way about me as I feel for her? Is she trying to feel me out as far as my values as it pertains to family? If she is mentioning it to me, does that mean that she's me as a potential mate? Is it an age thing (she's 33)? Gem girls, do you talk like this to people in everyday conversation? I think i'm losing my mind....

Im 34 and yes this is what we do if we are trying to see what youre about. If a woman talks about something like that either the guy will vanish or youll stick around which makes us even more curious. The only time I mention kids/marriage is when Im seriously considering him as a long term potential knowing hes not scared of it. How old are you? And what does her full chart look like?

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@wunderboywonder
12 Years

i'll be 35 next month

her chart looks like this:

Rising Sun/virgo
Sun/gem
Moon/aquarius
Mercury/cancer
Venus/cancer
Mars/virgo
Jupiter/virgo
Saturn/Virgo
Uranus/Scorp
Neptune/Sag
Pluto/Libra