Figuring out the next step

Hi Gems!

Need your insight on this certain situation. I'm a Libra-Scorpio Cusp (Oct. 24), and the boy I'm currently puzzling over is a Taurus-Gemini Cusp (May 26).

We've hung out for a few months, have gotten intimate. (But not too much!) The thing is, he went away for around 2 weeks or so, and in that space of time, I've been getting some mixed communication signals. He keeps on initiating conversations but doesn't want to talk, after repeating this process for 3 times (on different occasions), I just gave up then and let him be.

So, now he is back from his trip. Things have even gone blurry. (to me at least) It seems like we've become estranged. We had a non-direct fight, for reasons I don't understand much. I think it has something to do with "relationships or lack thereof (lack of feeling from me to him)" (all via status messages in ims) I tried to reconnect and in a somewhat roundabout way, apologized to him. It seems to be going okay.. a bit of a challenging struggle for me.. but not that bad.. continuous improvement hopefully. I'm trying to convey with my words and deeds that he is important to me, as I'm not that expressive in the first place.

His social site, indicates that he's in love with a girl and probably with unrequited feelings of his love. When I try to ask him about it.. all I get are answers that are no answers. Before, when we were together, he always sings to me bits and pieces of songs that contain words he cannot say for either it sounds cheesy without a tune or merely an expression of his current feelings. So, now when I'm near to him, he sings of love songs. Including the "I love you" lyrics..

My question is.. when Geminis say "Don't fall in love with me", does this translate to the opposite?

I'm kind of at a lost at the moment. Help? Thank you! 🙂

Posted that question in Relationships and Astrology as not to stray from the subject here..........

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"Don't fall in love with me", does this translate to the opposite?


Not when i say it, because the feelings are not mutual when i say that and i dont believe they ever will be mutual, which since i own and control them with ability, i will not feel that way about that person i said that too.......sorry the answer is not what you want to hear..........

gemmigemmigemmi,

Thank you for your lengthy inputs! It is quite spot on. I think for us Libra-Scorpio Cusps.. we are a bit lagging in generating outputs, as we tend to overanalyze and critically debate within ourselves. (It's not a healthy way of living. I know 😢) However, when we reach to a certain conclusion, the tenacity of investing ourselves in a relationship is all consuming.

The only thing right now that is holding me back from him would be, that he told me before, not to fall for him for it would be the end of whatever we had. (or not having right now 😢 ) The fact that we're teammates also poses a challenge if things go haywire. I am torn right now between telling him that I love him and would want to go further or maintaining the status quo.

Right now, I'm planning to talk to him to clear the air.

If I could find him that is..