Gemini flirting?

This topic was created in the Gemini forum by username on Sunday, February 12, 2012 and has 4 replies.

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@username
15 Years

So,this gem has an aries boyfriend that lives on the other side of the country. the guy, a college acquaintance, is
a training doctor so he hardly have time for her.

The flirtatious habit of this gem is unbelievable. i've been to parties, clubs and dinners with her. her sole
attention is always on me but when i make a move, she will laugh it off and back off for a while.
she touches and she doesn't reject any of my touches as well.

last weekend, we went to a friend's house, we ended up spending the night there because we were there till late.
we slept in the same bed. she told me she's hot and sweaty. ask me to feel between her thighs. -_- (i did it but in a cautious and dubious virgo-ish way and then re-treat because i wasn't sure if this is one of her games).

she described how she misses her boyfriend.

she then asked me to scratch her back, after previously scratching her back herself a couple of times.i massaged her back,she told me i have soft hands. i took a chance, gently massage all over her body while she keeps her back to me.
she then turns around and placed her leg on my thigh, i made a move.

GUESS WHAT? she re-treated, giggled and turned the other way. she told me not to do what i can't handle. GEMINI,GEMINI,GEMINI!!!!. that was it for that night. all my other attempts failed.

Now,Valentines day is coming and she's been messaging me on Facebook and calling me. right now, i'm confused. please help

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@westside
15 Years1,000+ PostsGemini

here is something you can do so that it is a win-win situation for you

ignore her

if you want her for whatever purpose, she will cling to you like no other when you act like she does not exist. if you understand that she is a whore and most likely bat shit crazy, then you will have just dodged a bullet my friend.

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@westside
15 Years1,000+ PostsGemini

lets get real now. this girl has a boyfriend and she slept in the same bed with you while teasing you. that shit is not flirting. and her being born under the sign gemini makes no excuse for that behavior.

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@username
15 Years

Thanks guys,

i've just never seen such behaviour before., given that we are not teenagers.

i've been limiting my conversion with her for a while now, hopefully she'll get the message.

@westside, if that's not flirting. i don't know what you call it. This is my third experience with a gemini. it's like they don't know what they are doing sometimes. the last one, we went to the gym together. you will not believe what we did. At the end of the day, it's all normal to her. maybe they see a virgo as innocent and gentle.

oh well, lesson learned, i'll just have to be extra careful.

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@GemStar05
14 Years1,000+ Posts

LOL! So funny! Yes she is messing with you; she loves the attention and you gave it to her. I'm not saying it's right for her to do that--lead you on, however. I'd do like someone above said and ignore her. Most Gemini's hate to be ignored; it'll drive her crazier than she already is!