Gemini girls do you get along with aries girls?

Hello I'm new here and an aries girl 😄

I would like to ask the lovely gemini girls out there if do you have any problems to get along with aries girls?

I would also like to ask the aries girls if they ever had a problem to befriend gemini girls?

I befriended a gemini's boyfriend, who btw seems to be a scorpio, and on the 1st day he presented her to me. I said "hey" and she did not answer. I can really see when people lie to me or simply do not like me. When I pretend not to be looking at her I can see that she puts an angry face.

Anyway. The problem is now we are in the same class( her boyfriend, me and her). And if I do any oral presentation she turns very cocky and finds any single mistake to put me down. And I am not over reacting. Even the professor said to her that she did not understand her criticism and that it was not logical.

Honestly! People always say we aries like to be the center of the attention. And I do agree with that. The way we dress can be quite special and our laughter is quite loud. But from my impression gemini can be very jealous of other people. Specially in what it comes to grades and looks!Geez!

(Her boyfriend seemed to be allured by me a bit - BUT THAT'S NOT MY FAULT! BESIDES HE'S NOT MY TYPE)

Anyway, anyone willing to help me?

Thanks 🙂

I have lots of aries ppl in my life. My sis and my boss to name a few. I get along with them just fine, but I have to take breaks from them every once in a while. 🙂

Sounds like the gem has some issue. Which is something she needs to work out for herself. Give her some time to work it out. If it continues, ask her if she's ok and if there's anything you can do to help.

Hi Miss Lissa

OP, just curious....what other female signs would upon meeting you, would embrace you when they sense or know that their boyfriend finds you alluring?

Posted by gemeliorist
Hi Miss Lissa

Hi Gemeliorist. 🙂

gemeliorist: YOU ARE RIGHT! However I think the guy was quite discrete and only showed it once when she was not present. Unless she had an instinct of course.

Though this story is indeed confusing. And I must say that I also feel that it's slightly my fault. Because after a few weeks I "met" ( she did not say hi) she added me on Facebook. And due to my impulsive nature I decided not to accept it. Because I felt it was "fake". At school she smiled at me only when her boyfriend was present. But as soon as I did not look she looks to me with a devil face :/


LittleStar: Hello! What is it about us that turns you off? Our blunt nature?

it's not about being right, just another perspective. you don't really know him or her. She being his girlfriend should know him better and maybe his behaviour changed, or maybe he said something to her that gave her cause to be suspicious.

Maybe she thought about her reaction to you and decided that she didn't have to be insecure and tried to add you to facebook...maybe she still goes back and forth with her thoughts and acts on them....just a thought.

Posted by gemeliorist
Hi Miss Lissa

OP, just curious....what other female signs would upon meeting you, would embrace you when they sense or know that their boyfriend finds you alluring?

I was going to say this.. The Gem picked up bad vibes from this female, now she is trying to paint a pic of her being a certain way when reality that Gem is picking up some vibes. I'm NEVER wrong when I get those feelings from another woman. She might be overly criticizing you but it sounds like the real problem is the you are doing something that makes her question your intentions with her man. That's what I'm guessing..

Posted by xugarspicegilr123
gemeliorist: YOU ARE RIGHT! However I think the guy was quite discrete and only showed it once when she was not present. Unless she had an instinct of course.

Though this story is indeed confusing. And I must say that I also feel that it's slightly my fault. Because after a few weeks I "met" ( she did not say hi) she added me on Facebook. And due to my impulsive nature I decided not to accept it. Because I felt it was "fake". At school she smiled at me only when her boyfriend was present. But as soon as I did not look she looks to me with a devil face :/


LittleStar: Hello! What is it about us that turns you off? Our blunt nature?

LOL Another slight...

Posted by WateryGem

Posted by gemeliorist
Hi Miss Lissa

OP, just curious....what other female signs would upon meeting you, would embrace you when they sense or know that their boyfriend finds you alluring?

I was going to say this.. The Gem picked up bad vibes from this female, now she is trying to paint a pic of her being a certain way when reality that Gem is picking up some vibes. I'm NEVER wrong when I get those feelings from another woman. She might be overly criticizing you but it sounds like the real problem is the you are doing something that makes her question your intentions with her man. That's what I'm guessing..

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Well if you say you are never wrong, perhaps that may be the case. But in my case.... it's not me the one who is interested, it's HIM. We all know how scorpios have this tendency to cheat. I feel that he was interested, but not ME. The guy is fat, ugly and too feminine for my taste. Why is it that even if I don't show interest she feel threatened? Maybe because the guy is the "easy" one. She should be angry with and not with me anyway.

Thank you

She probably is picking up that energy of her bf with his interest of you, which will probably make her not like you. LOL Your best bet is to try to befriend her but you shunned her when she tried to add you on social media. That probably would have let her feel that you aren't a threat to her but it's her man.

Posted by WateryGem
She probably is picking up that energy of her bf with his interest of you, which will probably make her not like you. LOL Your best bet is to try to befriend her but you shunned her when she tried to add you on social media. That probably would have let her feel that you aren't a threat to her but it's her man.

The problem is that after all she has done I can not simply befriend her. I feel it's fake. Anyway, his boyfriend started to avoid to speak with me. And I stopped talking with her boyfriend (to see if things get balanced). This does not really make me sad. What really bothers me is that I have to endure her irrational criticism. She clearly can not separate work/college and personal life.
The funny thing is when we see the "villains" of disney in this article:
http://www.simplysunsigns.com/2014/02/disney-villains-negative-sun-sign-traits.html<BR>
Gemini happens to be Cinderella's stepmother. When we see other Cinderella's movies the Cinderella's stepmother pretends in front of Cinderella's father that she is a good wife, mother. When Cinderella is alone she changes and transforms into an awful human being. Deep inside, she is jealous of Cinderella and will do anything to surpass her (investing on her real daughters to achieve that task)

Putting the boyfriend thing aside, and this is the first Gemini girl that I come across. I feel that perhaps SOME Geminis can be quite jealous of others. This girls wants to be first in the class in what it comes to grades. When someone takes better grades than her she gets angry, but doesn't show it directly. She is not hardworking, though. To achieve what she wants she manipulates one of the top students in the class in order to help her study.
The only thing that is good about her is that she does not cheat during the exams.

As for the rest, I feel Gemini really have self-confidence issues and feel specially threatened by Capricorns.

What do you think about my interpretation?

Posted by LittleStar
I think you are nuts.

Perfect example of somoene who doesn't know how to argument.

I am simply giving my opinion on what a BAD gemini could be. Aries could be bad too (Cruella De Vil haha)

Posted by LittleStar
^ perfect example of why I don't like Aries in the last post there.

Oh I see. You just can not handle any kind of criticism. Maybe my friend Taurus was quite right when she said that GEMINI people can be sensitive, and are not tolerant of those who hold different point of view.

Thank you very much for your writing. It's good to get to know you 😄

OP Ram is competing with the Gem.
Even though Gem actually has the man, in-spite of being so "alluring."

Now OP Ram wants to pick fights with DXP Gems because she can't get down and dirty with her opposition like she really wants to.

End Story.

Lol@ this thread. Why would you even come to the gem board with this? How did you think it would go? I agree with you though. I've been in a similar situation like yours. It was pure drama, but I ended it. Just mirror her actions, but the best thing to do is to ingnore her. A Taurus man told me that the universe always works things out. You really don't have to do or say anything.

And if the gem really had the "man" he wouldn't be showing interest in the ram.

Posted by Noreallynow
Lol@ this thread. Why would you even come to the gem board with this? How did you think it would go? I agree with you though. I've been in a similar situation like yours. It was pure drama, but I ended it. Just mirror her actions, but the best thing to do is to ingnore her. A Taurus man told me that the universe always works things out. You really don't have to do or say anything.

Posted by Noreallynow
And if the gem really had the "man" he wouldn't be showing interest in the ram.

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We are talking about a Fire/Water/Air triangle.
It's a mess and won't be that deep to begin with.

In the Rams mind the Scorp is attracted to her.
Just because a guy might think a woman is attractive does not mean he is interested.
But him being a typical male, may see her as something to fall back on.

But forget all that crap.
Another shiny object has just been noticed.
Let's talk more about the universe working things out.
I agree with this.
I often find that if I just move forward with my plans things tend to go my way.

Posted by LunarMaiden

Posted by Noreallynow
Lol@ this thread. Why would you even come to the gem board with this? How did you think it would go? I agree with you though. I've been in a similar situation like yours. It was pure drama, but I ended it. Just mirror her actions, but the best thing to do is to ingnore her. A Taurus man told me that the universe always works things out. You really don't have to do or say anything.

Posted by Noreallynow
And if the gem really had the "man" he wouldn't be showing interest in the ram.

We are talking about a Fire/Water/Air triangle.
It's a mess and won't be that deep to begin with.

In the Rams mind the Scorp is attracted to her.
Just because a guy might think a woman is attractive does not mean he is interested.
But him being a typical male, may see her as something to fall back on.

But forget all that crap.
Another shiny object has just been noticed.
Let's talk more about the universe working things out.
I agree with this.
I often find that if I just move forward with my plans things tend to go my way.

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I agree with everything that you said. I've been in a fire/water/air triangle. I know exactly how it is. I had someone tell me that a guy wanted her, because he looked at her. *blank stare* lol...smh.

@Lunarmaiden- I have had men tell me that I'm WAY too paranoid with women b/c of what you describe. I can sense when a woman is trying to step into my territory. With a man that I was very deeply connected to, I predicted each woman that would end up messaging him or come on to him. I haven't been wrong, yet.

I can sniff a snake out, VERY quickly. I have told men, never make another woman think she can have you, that is something I don't tolerate. Reasons #109090098908 I don't date flirty men.. 🙂 LOL

you know what, my dad is flirty with my mom but she is the ONLY one he is like that with. I need to find one of those!!

Posted by WateryGem
@Lunarmaiden- I have had men tell me that I'm WAY too paranoid with women b/c of what you describe. I can sense when a woman is trying to step into my territory. With a man that I was very deeply connected to, I predicted each woman that would end up messaging him or come on to him. I haven't been wrong, yet.

I can sniff a snake out, VERY quickly. I have told men, never make another woman think she can have you, that is something I don't tolerate. Reasons #109090098908 I don't date flirty men.. 🙂 LOL

you know what, my dad is flirty with my mom but she is the ONLY one he is like that with. I need to find one of those!!

This is off topic and deserves a thread of it's own but I will continue.

I have found Gems to be extremely sensitive and insightful.
Having a water moon makes your sensitivity even more acute.
Does your sensitivity lend itself to predicting when things outside of relationships will happen.
Like sensing when a telephone will ring or "knowing" when things will happen?

Being in deeply connected relationship will magnify this.
Sometimes partners may not be aware of just how in tune they are.

What are your parents signs?

I dont blame her for acting the way she does. She doesnt know you to trust you..lol. You are friends with her boyfriend or trying to be friends with him...no girlfriend is going to like that. That has nothing to do with her zodiac sign either. Even though I am a Gemini as well. I think you should just back off.

I get along with most Aries, except for one who is a relative of mine. That is because she acts fake and snobby though. She is the only Aries that I dont get along with though.

Posted by LunarMaiden
OP Ram is competing with the Gem.
Even though Gem actually has the man, in-spite of being so "alluring."

Now OP Ram wants to pick fights with DXP Gems because she can't get down and dirty with her opposition like she really wants to.

End Story.

Exactly what this is. I dont think she wants to piss the Gemini off either. She should back up, especially since the girl's boyfriend has stop speaking to her now. Then she comes on DXP saying that Gemini's have self-confidence issues...lol. It's not our fault that the girl doesnt like her. She could have been an Aries just like her..and the girl still would not have wanted to be her friend. Why can she not see this? Lol.

Most girlfriends do not wanna be friends with a girl that is befriending her boyfriend. Sometimes girls/women try to get be friendly to the girlfriend to get closer to their boyfriend. Just sometimes. However, I really do not blame the girl. It has nothing to do with her being jealous of you. Dont flatter yourself.