aries and gemini similar?

im a gemini rising and aries sun and ive found it rather difficult to decipher the aries behaviors from the gemini. they're quite similar actually and you'd expect a really outgoing personality (which i am) but it didnt come out until the last few years. just wondering what you all thought.

aries:
independent
impatient
energetic
bold
leaders
self-centered
confidence
courage
impulsive
opinionated

gemini:
social
charming
straightforward
outgoing
youthful
spontaneous

i really just find all this the same

Where's your mercury? Are you a talkative? 🙂

Similarities/Differences from observations;

1) Both get bored easily but the difference is; Aries moves in a straight line towards their temporary goal, Gems move in many different directions towards their goal (may say Gems don't appear to have a particular goal). If in a circus, Aries will be the fire eater and Gem will be juggling while unicycling on a tight rope at the same time...show ends and they both out of there fast!

2) Due to Gem juggling, they don't get personal...Aries focusing on one goal, they get very involved...hence Aries will want to lead it and Gem wants to offer ideas while doing other things. So Gems can delegate and Aries wants to take on everything...

3) Due to Gem not getting too involved, they can offer detachment and different POV views as an objective observer, Aries is very involved so can offers POV but sometimes not as objective as Gem...both signs in a room can spin off some really wild ideas 🙂

Aries and Gems will run into each other a LOT! Sticking together's something else as both are impatient, very social, energetic and spontaneous - very good friendships possible.

I was friends with a Aries girl for a lot of years, like 18 years, since she was 14. Man, it was a heck of a friendship,but it did end, sadly last year. She is currently in prison, and if she would have had her way, I would be there too. FOR REAL! She interfered with my relationship w/Aqua male and took things to another whole "dangerous" level. The times we had, the fun, the people in all the years, but let me tell ya, now that was a force NOT to reckoned with, major difference, I dont ever want harm or pain to folks, i would rather move on to the next situation in life an have fun and be light and carefree, her, she would hold you down until ya last breath was gone and get up and do it again! LOL!


No, it was not all bad at all, when she was younger that is when the relationship developed, but as she became a adult and had her own children, she turned from one of the best people i ever knew, into one of the worst, but drug use and involvement on her part played a huge part of that, and she now resides in a prison for it. SAD to see such a good mom go bad, but, she made the choice too to have her life go that direction.

BS, that is B.S> for real.


Dang, if i went in to detail, you would not say that.

I hope you ment that w/some humor behind it, cause i left no stone unturned for attempting to help her.

This thread explains so much about my affinity for Aries men....

But for the record, if I have to be in the circus, 1) keep me away from clowns (they're creepy), and 2) I want to be one of the trapeze performers for Cirque Du Soleil. I love their costumes, makeup and talent. (Well, that, I'm lousy at juggling.)

I think scorp will clash with aries and gemini anyway 😉

I thought the venus affected who, what, why and how a person loves - i.e. their behaviour in romance, beauty, etc... so don't think it's personality - her sun, rising and moon's more a factor I think in personality...

I've noticed that Gems and Aries do have some similar traits. One trait that an Aries is not is a leader. I have an Aries bf and she is so wishy washy about her decisions, she always needs to have everyone's else opinion before she makes up her mind. I often wonder why I'm still bf with her since she is toxic, and often negative and I just can't stand that. We've been friends since childhood and she was not like that at all. Then adulthood came and BAM she made some choices that I believe have made her this way (depressed and a biotch). And YES I have tried and tried to advise her on changing her ways but they are STUBBORN! It's like my opinion doesn't even matter. WTF is wrong with me that I'm still friends with her lmao!!

BS: I understand your feelings about wanting to help a friend. But as I've gotten older *clears throat self-importantly* I've realised you can only change one person -- yourself.

If the Aries woman wanted to self-destruct no one can stop her. Not even a good friend. It's like when your husband or wife is an alcoholic. You can't stop them from drinking -- if you think you can, it's called being co-dependant.

I've noticed that both Aries and Gem like attention. But if you ignore them, the Gem shrugs his or her shoulders, whereas the Aries usually has a fit. I guess I'm just aware of this because my former Aries boss and I occasionally run into each other, and he goes nuts if I act casual towards him 😉

I have a fit... and i'm being ignored by an aries... yupp pretty nice. LOL

It gets old after 10 mins though LOL

Gem is the leader in alot of this relationship and Aries in other aspects, but its a good relationship as long as one does not try to drown the other, talk about clash of the titans, MAN O MAN O MAN, but, it can be a wonderful relationship IMO, mine was for years.....to bad her life turned and i had to deal with the loss of the person I knew....she was wonderful!

Like aries are the infants...Gemini's are the children of the zodiac ....

I've come to sympathize with Geminis because they are commonly misunderstood and undermined

Just like 2 other signs.......erm beginning with A ?

"Just like 2 other signs.......erm beginning with A?"


Huh?


Yeah. WHAT?

I've come to sympathize with Geminis because they are commonly misunderstood and undermined

1) Aries

2) Aqua

Well Aqua's overmined really 😉 but commonly misunderstood

Two choices: make friends with the lovely gents on the Aries board, or join the ranks of the Bi-. :-)

well I do say that aries & gemini are similar in many ways.. jus a different element that rules over them.. but like my friend dats a aries.. we've been cool for 3 yrs & we know each other 2 damn well.. but both signs are the jack of all trades so we tend 2 do somethin outright crazy but i guess that's the thing bout both signs.... They say Aries are the fastest sign in the entire zodiac.. well if anything i'm not mad since we geminis have 2 be the 2nd fastest sign in the zodiac cause no one can really keep up with us but an aries defenitly can... then maybe a Sag.. But aries & Gemini has a lot in common i believe as to why we attract each other so much🙂