gemini hot and cold help me guys to decide what to do

i met this guy on tinder and it was a total chemistry on the first date we had so much in common but second date he cooked for me flirts with me and tell me he has commitment issues not one month is over i dont know if im gonna ask a question or leave him reason is first he acts sometimes cold, and because he dont talk to me too much on emotional side it left me hanging which i hate 3 days ago he exploded we got comftsble already he left me his apartment keys and wash my cloths once so when i washed his clothes i add his to mine, he left and when he arrived he yell at me when he found out i add some of his dry cleaning stuff to what is not i felt i was a maid when he was talkin!it hurts me deep inside lost my heart and all i think was to go out he didnt say sorry and just play like cool it got sorted it out coz i didnt make it a big deal but i was left hurt inside next day he stop messaging me the way he should be i left him and didnt reply last night i decided to end and do NC to him than to have a conflicting behavior towards me second he makes me guess which place i am i like him soo mych he talks about going on vacation with me travel and meeting my parents which is i dont know if hes real saying it or just making me fall hard.this morning he went back on his sweet words again checking on me i hate it he makes me crazy he dont think of my feelings and i dont want to think about it but it seems he take me because he knows im.into him too much but i dont know if hes serious or what, i dont know bit confused still to what i will do

dear im a sagitarrius dec 17 fire signs i read its oppositr but we have a lot in common were dating exclusively he asked for that one time i told him date other woman so you will know what you want he kinda said to me its not a nice thing to say babe he said that if you gonna tell me that forget me so i felt he was serious and thinking he will change was trying to connect his issues things to know why he is afraid but its seems like im pulling an answers he dont talk much on his feelings, i did his laundry coz i was happy doing it to help him i know wrong moves but i just got carry when he did mine last time.

we slept already yes...it was soon actually got carried by all his actions never had a man who cooked for me and treated me special so i risk doing it.

he was the one initiating the meet up for all past dates never i ask him about when we gonna meet i always make sure it comes from.him...so what shall i do.? leave dont reply anymore sent a goodbye message im so confused

so ill open the status of the relationship dont want to appear as needy—and i dont know last time i found some receipts from a bar where he went out he didnt kmow that i see it, but when.i asked him he goes deny about it i dont know my gut says to stop felt his cheating at my back

Posted by dimples368
so ill open the status of the relationship dont want to appear as needy—and i dont know last time i found some receipts from a bar where he went out he didnt kmow that i see it, but when.i asked him he goes deny about it i dont know my gut says to stop felt his cheating at my back

You met him on tinder. You need to lower your expectations and emotionally detach. It's been like a month and your already terming it a 'relationship'.

You put his dry cleaning in the washer machine?



I have found that when people act like a dumbass .. they get treated bad. If you are groveling on the floor for his approval, then you're going to get kicked.



And that's not sign related, it's sensibility related.



If you don't want to pick yourself up and have some pride and honor, and so would rather wait on his approval of you .... then your suffering is self inflicted, therefore not worthy of the pity you seek.

so i started ignoring him for 5 daya he waa like bluntly talk yo me straight that hey your ignoring me— you keep making excuses fot not seeing me , i met him again and he started telling me that he go hurt of my actions, actually was trying to build a deeper connection to him but i hate it for he keeps holding the answers he was cheated for his 11 yrs gf so i dont know what happen he dont want to talk about it i tried to be less availble and hes the one always initiating the contact ,, i am really puzzled what are his feelings for me coz he talked leas on his emotions are gemini really like that!!..

Posted by dimples368
so i started ignoring him for 5 daya he waa like bluntly talk yo me straight that hey your ignoring me— you keep making excuses fot not seeing me , i met him again and he started telling me that he go hurt of my actions, actually was trying to build a deeper connection to him but i hate it for he keeps holding the answers he was cheated for his 11 yrs gf so i dont know what happen he dont want to talk about it i tried to be less availble and hes the one always initiating the contact ,, i am really puzzled what are his feelings for me coz he talked leas on his emotions are gemini really like that!!..

You sound really desperate and pushy. It hasn't even been a month and your trying to dissect his feelings toward you. It hasn't been long enough to develop strong feelings. See him, date him, get to know him. Chill out.

You met him on Tinder.

Done.

good to see dimplez is back

Posted by dimples368
so i started ignoring him for 5 daya he waa like bluntly talk yo me straight that hey your ignoring me— you keep making excuses fot not seeing me , i met him again and he started telling me that he go hurt of my actions, actually was trying to build a deeper connection to him but i hate it for he keeps holding the answers he was cheated for his 11 yrs gf so i dont know what happen he dont want to talk about it i tried to be less availble and hes the one always initiating the contact ,, i am really puzzled what are his feelings for me coz he talked leas on his emotions are gemini really like that!!..

Sounds like you're the in between. He may be attracted to you, but his heart may be elsewhere. Sounds like a rebound. A month? Seriously? Lol.

i dont know his the one handing the keys to me for he said that he felt comftable with me he is plaaning to go with me on a vacation trip on november...is this a good sign —? for 10 days we go na be on a island i did cool for him as an exhange of what he does to me every time i go there never initiated a contact everytime i gave his space and he is always the one has to say hi 3 days ago i was there and became quiete i felt he become a bit senstive and asking me what am i thinking telling me to talk to me...well im just analyzing him coz theres another guy waiting who is an opposite of his personlaity

Just leave him. You two aren't getting along now, what would you think from years on if you manage to still be together?