@Saturnlady
10 Years
How to avoid posting here...
If you feel he could play, he will.
If you feel, he is not honest, he isn't.
If you feel, you are not honest, he will feel it and won't be honest,too.
Any other tips?
No they aren't
Posted by boxcarmirnta
No they aren'tWhat happened to you? I missed you 🙂
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I'm always here!! 🙂
getting rid of gems is the easiest thing on earth
Either you just say NO, and deal with your own things.
If this does not work, say 'marry me' and start questioning all of his moves, check his phone lol.
Plus laugh at him and his motives. Ughh..they hate that.
Removing their masks are painful for them. If you love them, it is painful for you, too. Be strong.
Posted by LonerLoop
Psst...something you guys should know. Yes, Geminis can be cocky sometimes but.....
😉 😛
I cried T_T stop diz drama , i begggg you
Posted by LonerLoop
Psst...something you guys should know. Yes, Geminis can be cocky sometimes but.....
😉 😛
+100000000000000000!! 😄
Posted by LonerLoop
Psst...something you guys should know. Yes, Geminis can be cocky sometimes but.....
😉 😛
I cried T_T stop diz drama , i begggg you
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yz plz ^^
Posted by boxcarmirnta
No they aren'tWhat do you mean?
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Disagreeing with op.
Posted by boxcarmirnta
No they aren'tWhat happened to you? I missed you 🙂
I'm always here!! 🙂
Good 🙂 That Gemini idiot still hurting you, or you got rid of him for good?
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He's just straight up ignoring me... He supposedly "hates" me... Haven't done anything to him. Same ol shit.
The person I could always count on is a gem. A friend. He has virgo placements, though. But when he helps we always laugh.
oh, and we are 36-40 yrs old. but when he was 30, it was the same.
I wish everyone to experience smth like this.
Posted by boxcarmirnta
No they aren'tWhat do you mean?
Disagreeing with op.
were you the one who nagged her bf when he told you openly that he wanted space? He got angry for your nagging ways and then you were busy and he cut you off, right?
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Nope. Sadly mistaken
Posted by boxcarmirnta
No they aren'tWhat happened to you? I missed you 🙂
I'm always here!! 🙂
Good 🙂 That Gemini idiot still hurting you, or you got rid of him for good?
He's just straight up ignoring me... He supposedly "hates" me... Haven't done anything to him. Same ol shit.
What's his Mars and Venus in.— I don't get why he is holding a grudge for so long.. Gems don't EVER do that.. he probably found a new Eye Candy.. That HAS to be the only possible reason why, especially if you haven't done anything wrong. Your better off without him anyway. He's childish and a lot of Gemini men are.. I always tell'em to stay away from them.. but nobody listens to the GEMINI
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He just hates me dude.... Can't figure it out. He works 80hours on the farm. He doesn't have time for someone new. He said he just wanted to be alone, like a pouty little baby. Venus is gem and Mars is Aries. Ours are very compatible.
Posted by Saturnlady
Plus laugh at him and his motives. Ughh..they hate that.Removing their masks are painful for them. If you love them, it is painful for you, too. Be strong.
I was going to troll this thread, but the bolded part made me freeze cause it hit me hard in the feels.
I think we quite often try to mask our inner core fears with our esoteric and aloof behavior. It can be painful when someone confronts us with those feelings and tries to peel the layers of the masks off.
Fear takes courage to face, it doesn't make it easier when someone enjoys your struggle with it and rubs that shit in your face. It would make me feel more contained and push that person further away.
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See I'd rather hear the real stuff. Thanks.
Posted by boxcarmirnta
No they aren'tWhat happened to you? I missed you 🙂
I'm always here!! 🙂
Good 🙂 That Gemini idiot still hurting you, or you got rid of him for good?
He's just straight up ignoring me... He supposedly "hates" me... Haven't done anything to him. Same ol shit.
What's his Mars and Venus in.— I don't get why he is holding a grudge for so long.. Gems don't EVER do that.. he probably found a new Eye Candy.. That HAS to be the only possible reason why, especially if you haven't done anything wrong. Your better off without him anyway. He's childish and a lot of Gemini men are.. I always tell'em to stay away from them.. but nobody listens to the GEMINI
He just hates me dude.... Can't figure it out. He works 80hours on the farm. He doesn't have time for someone new. He said he just wanted to be alone, like a pouty little baby. Venus is gem and Mars is Aries. Ours are very compatible.
What's his Moon? Yeah, he's weird..
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Yeah what @lonerloop said.. I'm not the op though apparently I've commandeered this post though haha I like his Virgo moon.
Posted by boxcarmirnta
No they aren'tWhat do you mean?
Disagreeing with op.
were you the one who nagged her bf when he told you openly that he wanted space? He got angry for your nagging ways and then you were busy and he cut you off, right?
Nope. Sadly mistaken
Is there a chance he thought you were playing him for the fool?
I cut off my Taurus when he tried to make me jealous. My ego walked in and dumped him. Just like that. No explanations. Nothing whatsoever.
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I never tried to make him jealous though he may have felt like a fool I dunno.... He assumed I did something I did not... Ignore him, when my phone was actually dying. He refused to have any real communication after that.
Posted by boxcarmirnta
No they aren'tWhat happened to you? I missed you 🙂
I'm always here!! 🙂
Good 🙂 That Gemini idiot still hurting you, or you got rid of him for good?
He's just straight up ignoring me... He supposedly "hates" me... Haven't done anything to him. Same ol shit.
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Is this your boyfriend? @box
Posted by boxcarmirnta
No they aren'tWhat happened to you? I missed you 🙂
I'm always here!! 🙂
Good 🙂 That Gemini idiot still hurting you, or you got rid of him for good?
He's just straight up ignoring me... He supposedly "hates" me... Haven't done anything to him. Same ol shit.
Is this your boyfriend? @box
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Was once...... Strangers now. Still love the guy..
Posted by boxcarmirnta
No they aren'tWhat do you mean?
Disagreeing with op.
were you the one who nagged her bf when he told you openly that he wanted space? He got angry for your nagging ways and then you were busy and he cut you off, right?
Nope. Sadly mistaken
Is there a chance he thought you were playing him for the fool?
I cut off my Taurus when he tried to make me jealous. My ego walked in and dumped him. Just like that. No explanations. Nothing whatsoever.
I never tried to make him jealous though he may have felt like a fool I dunno.... He assumed I did something I did not... Ignore him, when my phone was actually dying. He refused to have any real communication after that.
I think this is a culmination of other factors in play. It is not a single factor,IMO. Looks like there were some trust issues... Geminis may not voice their feels/emotions when we feel vulnerable, all goes down at one go when a switch is flipped. I believe we make major decisions based on minor triggers more than on major events...
And BTW this is Instant K. I forgot my passwords...
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Yeah I hear that. Sound advice my friend. He has major trust issues he cannot get past.
Posted by boxcarmirnta
No they aren'tWhat do you mean?
Disagreeing with op.
were you the one who nagged her bf when he told you openly that he wanted space? He got angry for your nagging ways and then you were busy and he cut you off, right?
Nope. Sadly mistaken
Is there a chance he thought you were playing him for the fool?
I cut off my Taurus when he tried to make me jealous. My ego walked in and dumped him. Just like that. No explanations. Nothing whatsoever.
I never tried to make him jealous though he may have felt like a fool I dunno.... He assumed I did something I did not... Ignore him, when my phone was actually dying. He refused to have any real communication after that.
I think this is a culmination of other factors in play. It is not a single factor,IMO. Looks like there were some trust issues... Geminis may not voice their feels/emotions when we feel vulnerable, all goes down at one go when a switch is flipped. I believe we make major decisions based on minor triggers more than on major events...
And BTW this is Instant K. I forgot my passwords...
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Yup. It builds up, then we say fuck it and you get an earful. All smiles Til that final button is pushed.
Posted by boxcarmirnta
No they aren'tWhat do you mean?
Disagreeing with op.
were you the one who nagged her bf when he told you openly that he wanted space? He got angry for your nagging ways and then you were busy and he cut you off, right?
Nope. Sadly mistaken
Is there a chance he thought you were playing him for the fool?
I cut off my Taurus when he tried to make me jealous. My ego walked in and dumped him. Just like that. No explanations. Nothing whatsoever.
I never tried to make him jealous though he may have felt like a fool I dunno.... He assumed I did something I did not... Ignore him, when my phone was actually dying. He refused to have any real communication after that.
I think this is a culmination of other factors in play. It is not a single factor,IMO. Looks like there were some trust issues... Geminis may not voice their feels/emotions when we feel vulnerable, all goes down at one go when a switch is flipped. I believe we make major decisions based on minor triggers more than on major events...
And BTW this is Instant K. I forgot my passwords...
Yup. It builds up, then we say fuck it and you get an earful. All smiles Til that final button is pushed.
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He would constantly explode at me for tiny little things.. He had anger issues
Posted by Saturnlady
Plus laugh at him and his motives. Ughh..they hate that.Removing their masks are painful for them. If you love them, it is painful for you, too. Be strong.
I was going to troll this thread, but the bolded part made me freeze cause it hit me hard in the feels.
I think we quite often try to mask our inner core fears with our esoteric and aloof behavior. It can be painful when someone confronts us with those feelings and tries to peel the layers of the masks off.
Fear takes courage to face, it doesn't make it easier when someone enjoys your struggle with it and rubs that shit in your face. It would make me feel more contained and push that person further away.
+1
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The person i knew pushed me away to the other side of the universe, indeed.
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...bad things about this sign?
GEMS are good friends.
Gems ARE good friends.
Gems are GOOD friends.
Gems are good FRIENDS.
and that's it