I've known this gemini male for 6 years going on and nothing has ever transpired, because he's always had a relationship and we live about 3 hours from each other. I should also mention he's one my best friends brother. I asked her if it would be okay that we talk and she said yeah she didn't care. So anyway we've been flirting for the last few months on Snapchat and this past Sunday I drove 4 hours to see him. He took me out to eat when I got there and helped me with my hw when we got back to his house. We both had a few glasses of wine and one thing led to the next and we slept together. Mind you I've known him for 6 years, this was our first time we actually hung out 1 on 1. After we slept together he asked if I wanted to see where he grew up and showed me using the google maps. We talked about how I'm going out to California for my 25 to see his sister and his birthday is in June too so he promised he would come out there and spend his birthday too. Next morning I had to leave to make it back for work and he told me to text him on the way back and I did. He texted me and I didn't respond immediately so he texted me again to make sure I made it okay. He told me he enjoyed my company and I asked him when I could see him again. He said he wanted to come to my city and I asked when and he said maybe next weekend. I said ok. That was Monday and I haven't talked to him since. He posted a photo on Snapchat Monday after our conversation and I sent him an emoji on snap chat and he just opened it. Didn't respond. We didn't talk everyday in the first place, so idk why I thought sex would change anything. My male Gemini friend stated that if he were interested in me his responses would be longer. I'm one to typically cut people off, however this situation is different because he's my best friends brother. I'm a cancer so naturally I overthink and rarely go with the flow as much as I'd like to. I'm a cancer sun, and Aries moon. He's a Gemini sun and Aries moon.
Gemini Males??

It was a mistake to drive to him.

Posted by Wanderlustcancerian24I'm confused. I keep reading "he" ("He's my best friends brother) ..and then you say, "I asked her" never mind....it's a guy.
I've known this gemini male for 6 years going on and nothing has ever transpired, because he's always had a relationship and we live about 3 hours from each other. I should also mention he's one my best friends brother. I asked her if it would be okay that we talk and she said yeah she didn't care. So anyway we've been flirting for the last few months on Snapchat and this past Sunday I drove 4 hours to see him. He took me out to eat when I got there and helped me with my hw when we got back to his house. We both had a few glasses of wine and one thing led to the next and we slept together. Mind you I've known him for 6 years, this was our first time we actually hung out 1 on 1. After we slept together he asked if I wanted to see where he grew up and showed me using the google maps. We talked about how I'm going out to California for my 25 to see his sister and his birthday is in June too so he promised he would come out there and spend his birthday too. Next morning I had to leave to make it back for work and he told me to text him on the way back and I did. He texted me and I didn't respond immediately so he texted me again to make sure I made it okay. He told me he enjoyed my company and I asked him when I could see him again. He said he wanted to come to my city and I asked when and he said maybe next weekend. I said ok. That was Monday and I haven't talked to him since. He posted a photo on Snapchat Monday after our conversation and I sent him an emoji on snap chat and he just opened it. Didn't respond. We didn't talk everyday in the first place, so idk why I thought sex would change anything. My male Gemini friend stated that if he were interested in me his responses would be longer. I'm one to typically cut people off, however this situation is different because he's my best friends brother. I'm a cancer so naturally I overthink and rarely go with the flow as much as I'd like to. I'm a cancer sun, and Aries moon. He's a Gemini sun and Aries moon.
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Don't be the pursuer

For the most part I agree it's a difficult pairing, Cancer and Gemini however if you have Gemini energy/ are more airy or fiery and the Gemini has some water I think it's a beautiful match ❤️
What are your placements and his?
What are your placements and his?
Posted by Moonbutter
For the most part I agree it's a difficult pairing, Cancer and Gemini however if you have Gemini energy/ are more airy or fiery and the Gemini has some water I think it's a beautiful match ❤️
What are your placements and his?
Hey thanks for the response! I've heard it's a little difficult, i've only had gems as friends, but I thought this one may be different given the circumstance that ive known him for so long and am good friends with his sister.. Anywho below I posted our charts. I believe his is accurate, but i didn't know the time he was born...
My Chart:
Sun- Cancer 3°33'
Moon- Aries 21°04'
Mercury -Cancer 26°40'
Venus- Cancer 6°38'
Mars- Taurus 7°28'
Jupiter- Virgo 8°50'
Saturn- Aquarius 17°54'
Uranus- Capricorn 16°33'
Neptune- Capricorn 17°58'
Pluto- Scorpio 20°31'
Lilith - Aquarius 17°22'
Asc node- Capricorn 0°38'
His chart:
Sun- Gemini 18°20'
Moon- Aries 10°14'
Mercury- Gemini 24°37'
Venus- Gemini 24°42'
Mars- Pisces 11°00'
Jupiter- Taurus 21°20'
Saturn- Capricorn 0°05'
Uranus- Sagittarius 29°30'
Neptune- Capricorn 9°23'
Pluto- Scorpio 10°13'
Lilith- Virgo 2°50'
Asc node- pisces 18°46'
Posted by notsosurePosted by Wanderlustcancerian24Yeah, sex doesn't change feelings. There's your mistake, if that is the reason you had sex with him. Lesson learned, sex just gets you sex.
I've known this gemini male for 6 years going on and nothing has ever transpired, because he's always had a relationship and we live about 3 hours from each other. I should also mention he's one my best friends brother. I asked her if it would be okay that we talk and she said yeah she didn't care. So anyway we've been flirting for the last few months on Snapchat and this past Sunday I drove 4 hours to see him. He took me out to eat when I got there and helped me with my hw when we got back to his house. We both had a few glasses of wine and one thing led to the next and we slept together. Mind you I've known him for 6 years, this was our first time we actually hung out 1 on 1. After we slept together he asked if I wanted to see where he grew up and showed me using the google maps. We talked about how I'm going out to California for my 25 to see his sister and his birthday is in June too so he promised he would come out there and spend his birthday too. Next morning I had to leave to make it back for work and he told me to text him on the way back and I did. He texted me and I didn't respond immediately so he texted me again to make sure I made it okay. He told me he enjoyed my company and I asked him when I could see him again. He said he wanted to come to my city and I asked when and he said maybe next weekend. I said ok. That was Monday and I haven't talked to him since. He posted a photo on Snapchat Monday after our conversation and I sent him an emoji on snap chat and he just opened it. Didn't respond. We didn't talk everyday in the first place, so idk why I thought sex would change anything. My male Gemini friend stated that if he were interested in me his responses would be longer. I'm one to typically cut people off, however this situation is different because he's my best friends brother. I'm a cancer so naturally I overthink and rarely go with the flow as much as I'd like to. I'm a cancer sun, and Aries moon. He's a Gemini sun and Aries moon.
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um no I didn't think that. But thanks *thumbs up*

Posted by Wanderlustcancerian24No problemo girl 🙂 I wouldn't necessarily recommend Gemini for you though because you are quite watery, but if the Gem has at least water placements then maybe. This Gem Not watery enough for a water sign.Posted by Moonbutter
For the most part I agree it's a difficult pairing, Cancer and Gemini however if you have Gemini energy/ are more airy or fiery and the Gemini has some water I think it's a beautiful match ❤️
What are your placements and his?
Hey thanks for the response! I've heard it's a little difficult, i've only had gems as friends, but I thought this one may be different given the circumstance that ive known him for so long and am good friends with his sister.. Anywho below I posted our charts. I believe his is accurate, but i didn't know the time he was born...
My Chart:
Sun- Cancer 3°33'
Moon- Aries 21°04'
Mercury -Cancer 26°40'
Venus- Cancer 6°38'
Mars- Taurus 7°28'
Jupiter- Virgo 8°50'
Saturn- Aquarius 17°54'
Uranus- Capricorn 16°33'
Neptune- Capricorn 17°58'
Pluto- Scorpio 20°31'
Lilith - Aquarius 17°22'
Asc node- Capricorn 0°38'
His chart:
Sun- Gemini 18°20'
Moon- Aries 10°14'
Mercury- Gemini 24°37'
Venus- Gemini 24°42'
Mars- Pisces 11°00'
Jupiter- Taurus 21°20'
Saturn- Capricorn 0°05'
Uranus- Sagittarius 29°30'
Neptune- Capricorn 9°23'
Pluto- Scorpio 10°13'
Lilith- Virgo 2°50'
Asc node- pisces 18°46'
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Posted by MoonbutterThat's real rich coming from you sis
Don't be the pursuer
I didn't read but hunny save yourself now and run.

Posted by bkbella86What you mean?Posted by MoonbutterThat's real rich coming from you sis
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