Gemini woman and how they act

Hypothetically speaking and if you had this I goal experience please share. How do you Gemini woman act around guys you like more than a friend in a party scene vrs s guy you see just as a friend?

If you had this initial experience please share*

If I like a guy i'll be very giggly and i'll try make him laugh and be a little minx around him and flirt with him and touch him more as for a guy friend i'd just be plain goofy and silly and not at all sexy haha

OK and it depends on other things in your chart as well. The girl im referring to is both a sun in Gemini and moon, then a lot of water aspects dominate her chart. now as for me i am a sun in Sagittarius and moon in Gemini with water placements in my chart as well. Furthermore, indecisiveness does not exist in my realm lol. But to make a long story short me and this girl are finally back from our winter break of college and talked that whole day about bumping into each other that night. Eventually, we did, and i was so happy to see her but its also hard to read me. At the time, i was in a game of beer pong and she had walked in, said hi and went about her business. Later i went to find her, found her and gave her my undivided attention. I don't know what the case is, i notice her interacting with other guys in a loose manner but around me shes so reserved and shy ( there's other parts to our relationship that i do not wish to include right now), but she reads me well. I was upset because i did want her to myself the whole night but eventually i came back to reality that it was people she did not see as well that she may have wanted to see. Long story short does the description i have given for her interacting with me versus another guy i saw her with indicative of anything?

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"But would have taught you how wanted I am by other men." what do you mean by that? And I didn't expect to sit there but damn come over give me a hug or something but the more I reflect on th situation her actions weren't odd or not acceptable.

This shit just keeps confusing me lol

I'm very attentive, flirty, affectionate and trying to initiate things with guys I like and will not be looking else. Whereas I will be attentive, not flirty or sometimes I come across that way with my banter because I'm kind, but I will be looking at other guys on the scene.

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I have a pretty mean sense (dry, sarcastic) of humor at times, so if I like a guy, I will make fun of him or insult him a lot in a poking-fun kind of way (This works well with every sign but water signs, they are usually much to sensitive to handle me). It's playful and immature, but I really can't help myself. The more I like, the more I push. If a guy can't dish it back to me, then it probably isn't meant to be lol. The basis of my relationships are founded on jokes and pranks. Capricorn, Aquarius, Sagittarius, and Gemini men are good matches for me in the humor/wit department. I know Leo men like a bit of a challenge as well. This isn't to say that I can't be serious when I need to be! I just love to laugh, sense of humor is so important to me.

If I only see a guy as a friend, then I try my best not to ruffle his feathers to avoid presenting myself as a "challenge" or "hard to get." I'm usually super sweet and kind, friendly and talkative. I'll ask him questions about his job and studies. Eventually if I go into best friend territory with him, I am extremely blunt and real with him. My best friend is a Sag guy and we talk on the phone all the time. We call each other "hoe" or "hooker" or "dumbass" at the end of sentences sometimes and it's really just a term of endearment.

I never understood the stigma of gem women being "flirty" or "giggly" when they have a crush. I would never describe myself that way, and if that EVER happens, I can assure you that it is not consciously done lol.

You sound like a Sag! Do you have many Sag placements?

When I like a guy, I ask them a lot of questions, touch them, tell them they are manly, touch them some more, bat my eyelashes. I just turn into a complete girly girl.

I'm surprised by this logic

When you are a friend you act as lover ,being sweet nice

when you are in loyove u are just distant,shy ,making jokes?


LOL

Yeah that's the thing! I just want to know why she sometimes freezes up around me! I want to know a load of things lol she also said gets a vibe from me that i come off as a player which is why she still hasn't committed to me. I'm all over the place right now and I know it she just threw me off last night. I can admit for the first time ever I got a little jealous when I saw her talking to some other dude lol.

For me i think it should be the opposite !

Any pointers on how to get her past that point. H

I wish I knew. She told me many things, she hesitant to move past this threshold which would make our bonding stronger. Maybe because for one I have something of a metro style when I dress. Real classy and I am from New York but then again I have like a street swag too. I'm athletically built. Tattoos I don't know if she feels unworthy. I have a nice car. My grades are above normal so are hers. I wish I knew the exact reason

Sounds like she is reserved bcuz there is no trusting foundation yet. Sometimes it takes awhile to trust. I go reserved too, and then I observe. Really, it could have been your body language that threw up the player vibe. Believe me, she watches you and how you behave with others, when you're not looking.

Well yeah I guess but she didn't say that until after our Christmas break which is bizzare. Up until that but she cited that the feeling of butterflies and comfort exist within her every time she's around me. All of sudden this comes out.

I'm sure she feels both... lol! We are in a constant battle with our conflicting emotions.

Maybe, after the winter break she felt ready to tell you.

Yes she does all of the above which I notice so I guess it is up to me. Gemini woman don't liked to be tied down so I was told so going about that process, how should it be done? Just asking even though I know but it doesn't help to ask.

Hurt*

Well the deep conversations are common.

Sounds good though.

I met some Gem girl (32 yrs) online, and we talked fine, exchanged numbers, and she agreed to meet me. It was Sunday, and the date was sealed for Friday. She said that if something comes up, she will let me know. Today is Friday, she didn't let me know that something come up, but she ignored my message, and until now, no answer from her. I find this strange for a Gemini girl from my experience, especially that she's 32.

So lame, and without respect, no comment. Her Ascendant is Cancer, so she has the same Sun sign and Ascendant as my Gem friend, which is very attracted to me, and who will never do something like that, so I don't get it. Maybe some of you will say that it has nothing to do with astrology, it's just a person, but still, I find it strange. Either is she so immature, or in the meanwhile she met some other guy from the site, so she decided to ignore...if that's not the case, then I don't get it cause Gem's are curious, and love to meet new people...

Sometimes I ask myself is that all there is with Gemini woman. There curiosity and meeting people

Well, in my case, that last girl was maybe fake...she told me that she is Gem, but in her profile I saw that she is Libra. Also, she lied about height, and anything else...what she said, and what's on her profile do not match. But maybe she isn't any of that. That profile is fake, 'cause I met many Gem girls, and neither was acting like that, or lying, and it was easy and effortless to set up a date. And what's interesting, there was always that magnetic chemistry, which is why they always chased me after the first date, and was sending me many messages, flirting a lot, touching me, etc.
But yes, as Sags also, they like to meet many new people. Other placements plays big role too, but yeah, they like it. 🙂

And about my Gem friend which is taken, I observed some time now, and noticed that she always flirts big with me, tease me, plays with her hair non stop, her torso is always matching my, her crossed leg is always pointed at me...all those obvious signs.
Ofc, I always tease her too, and I just can't resist, even though she's taken, I sometimes put my hand on her legs and squeeze it while joking...I just like to touch her. We always go somewhere alone, and talk non stop about everything.
With other Gems, it was always like that too, only difference was other placements...if it wasn't good, then it will quickly start, but quickly end too. And if other placements matches too, then it lasts big. 🙂
All in all, I do prefer Gems...adore their intelligence, independence, sense of humor, all those teasing and flirting... 😄

And yeah, I noticed that she stares at me sometimes pretty long while smiling, and when she was at my place because we were working on some project together, while she was writing something, I watched her pretty long too, and when she noticed that, she got shy, I could see the blush, and it was cute, so she laughed. Also, she said that she's rarely so comfortable around someone like she's with me. I would say, pretty natural and effortless connection...never dull moments...

Also, many people think that we are together, 'cause, we're always sitting next to each other, always go somewhere alone, and use some tactics to escape some Cap guy to follow us, even though he is a good friend. She often offered me help, and it's not difficult for her to do any thing that I want or need. And at the beginning, when we didn't know each other, she was always near me, and she first started by offering help to me. She said that because of her good intuition, she noticed that I'm normal and all that, but I knew that it was because of attraction. And on one occasion, when she was next to me, we felt some strange and pleasant energy, some warmth, I was like sun or something...she laughed also, and liked it a lot. 🙂

As a Cancer I am jealous of Gemini Sun/Pisces moon people. They make so much money and can pretty much live the rest of their lives just being dicks to people while maintaining a level of genius that makes them immune to a mob ganging up against them lol.

Well is this little bubble space that I always keep around me no matter what. If I was digging the guy, I'd let him into that space, or I'd invade his space. Lol. I'd do anything to touch him. I'd pay attention only to him.
If I was really really into him I'd probably ask him to go elsewhere where we could talk more, or if we could leave and get a platonic bite to eat lol

With a guy friend, he'd do his thing, I'd do mine. Depending on how good the guy friend is I might talk to him about the guy that I'm eyeing. Or as somebody stated above, I would be goofy I wouldn't even try to be sexy.
Gemini Sun, Sagittarius Moon, Gemini Venus, Leo Rising.