geminis biggest turn ons and turn offs?

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Geminis dos and don'ts?

Thank you 🙂

turn ons:
bitchy scorpio chicks who go thru their phone, email, wallet, pockets looking for something to accuse them of so they can start a fight.
extra point for sleeping around with other guys


turn offs:
horny aries chicks who want to get INTO their (GemGuy's) pants ONLY and can't remember the password to their own phone let alone anyone else's for spying purposes.
further points deducted for being megaorgasmic and giving great head and awesome care packages

YES:

Intelligence, sense of humor, confidence, assertiveness, integrity, respectful, caring and compassionate


NO's:

Lazy, self absorbed, weak in spirit and mind, cunning, cold, and deceitful.

Turn Ons: Someone that knows what they want and go's for it, someone that can talk dirty into my ear (not too rude, just describing things that they want to do to me), someone that looks me in the eye like they want to devour my soul, someone funny and intelligent that can take a joke, someone that is into spiritual things and has an open heart, someone that wants to possess me but also allows me my freedom, someone that just trusts me.

Turn Offs: The opposite of all the above, and someone that is too aloof (leave that to me), bad hygiene, someone that is not on my team or flirts with my friends, or agrees with anyone that puts me down in anyway, someone that comments on girls pictures on Fb all the time, anyone who is boring and not able to do something without a lot of thought.

PS. Im new here! Hi ya'll 🙂

I like:
Funny n charming ppl
Love, passion, caring, loyalty
Smart, quick witted

I dont like:
Too sensitive ppl
Slow, boring, always serious
Ego, cold

Likes:
Sense of Humor
Gentleman
Forward/Takes charge
Good Hygeine
Healthy/takes care of their body

Dislikes:
Lying
Cheating
Disrespecting me
Not communicating with me (I don't wanna try to guess how you feel. Tell me!!)

turn on: intelligent conversation interspersed with humor, wit, cleverness, etc.; sense of style , not selfish in bed, good with children, great manners, smell good, educated (not necessarily in the traditional sense, slightly aggressive

turn off: Anything opposite of the things I mentioned above and add being loud and whiny/complainer. If there's a problem work it out don't whine about it to everyone who will take a minute to listen.

One thing I hate, that can make me turn against someone I actually like very fast is lack of proper communication..we are Geminis and we communicate. If people are slack with their communication it pains me to the point I may turn against them and cut them off..

Nothing makes me angrier than when someone is meant to contact me at a certain time and they just dont bother. This woman I met on Sunday said she'd call me in the evening on Monday and she still hasnt. I know women dont communicate well at first, but if you said youre going to do something and you dont do it then what can I do?

I used to get all worked up when people didnt call or text me when they were supposed to, but now I wont call them. Its easier to just cut them off. And usually when they do remember or care to reach me, I am so lost to them they dont realize it and I just freeze them out. I dont even explain why, but lack of communication is a relationship killer for me. Am I the only one who feels this way?

Oh yea, communication is essential. If my texts are ignored, or phone calls not returned, I am done.

I don't care how busy someone is, you can spare 30 seconds of your precious time to let me know you can't make it, can't talk, or are simply just thinking of me.

If I'm not worth 30 seconds of your time, you aren't worth one second of mine.

Has to be a full on physical/mental attraction for me to be hooked - I don't care what you do, if all your traits/qualities can just blend into that.

Intelligence, depth of the soul, Sincerity too.

And a freak between the sheets 😛

So hard to find to hard to let go.

Turn Offs:
Anything opposite to the above. Narrow mindedness. Not good in the sack. And disloyalty!

Posted by geminidream
Likes:
Sense of Humor
Gentleman
Forward/Takes charge
Good Hygeine
Healthy/takes care of their body

Dislikes:
Lying
Cheating
Disrespecting me
Not communicating with me (I don't wanna try to guess how you feel. Tell me!!)

YUP

Nobodies perfect but I'd have to say that I just want someone who wants me just as much as I want them. I have a big heart.

Just don't be lazy, deceitful, secretive....I can deal with stubbornness just as long as you can admit when you're being too close minded.

I don't want someone who has to find stuff for us to do all the time in order for us to get along...we should be able to sit at home in silence and be okay with it, or go out to the club and dance all night.

No clinginess of course, but I hate when my bf always goes out to bars and stuff and never invites me. Like, I will cock block him or something....if that's how it is then break it off my friend.
I want someone I can do business with and make money with.
Not someone who will take my kindness as a weakness ( although I have been a HUGE pushover lately) trying to work on that.
I want someone who will support me in whatever I choose to do even if I change my mind a few times. Have faith in me.


SCREW YOU MOM

omg reallynicearies person i love to get into my gem guys pants before i even remember to turn the stove off

Turn ons:

Intelligence (If someone knows random trivia or a cool fact that's very attractive to me)
Sociable
Fun
Independent
Good sense of humour (I'm talking sick and twisted)
Will try anything in bed (And I mean anything)

Turn offs:

Stupidity
Boring
Ignorant
Condescending
Deceitful
Clingy

biggest turn off = broken promises

good:

intelligence...very important..doesn't mean one has to have a phd or like that..but know what's going on around you and in the world...be able to hold a good, decent conversations besides celeb gossiping and just mundane stuff..read books...always up to learn something new

a sense of humor...a must...even situations are dire one must know how to enlighten up moods and be able to find something positive or fun to laugh at..this is a good spirit...things still can shine in the pit darkness...sarcastic is fine, twisted and dark, even wicked is fine...or even better

daring attitude...up for adventures, something one has never done before..be it either physical activities or just food, movies, books, etc. ...yes, open to try new things in bed counts, too

good conversations

a good sense in fashion...a plus

loves varieties



bad:

always being serious, too uptight...it's good to know when's to be serious but all the time is no fun...who doesn't know how to have fun and enjoy things

boring talks..always about secular, mundane, monetary, just social pleasantries...which lack humor, sharp intelligence or unique views on life... capitalistic, materialistic...both themselves are not bad things, but it depends on how you broach those subjects &.

dullness...repetitive things

one who with a knows it all attitude and very self righteous...preaching (they think they're better and even the best, and I might not say much about that but inwardly I just laugh at them..the reason why I do not give them any words, because I know they will be wasted, fall on deaf ears and I do not plan to waste my time and words on those people...or I might speak sometimes, when I think I have had enough and just give them some punches..at last)...yes, be on one's high horse is a big turn off

also one who seems cannot accept people who are different from themselves and always try to *correct* or *fix* those different folks...very annoying indeed..again, condescending attitude and self righteousness...a very bad combination


what else..?
I think I need to think again with more time...and may come back again on this thread