Gemini's Rant Post!

Hello my fellow twins! I thought I would make a thread for us to rant, complain, whine, about what ever is bothering you.

Today there was this guy in front of me who was being just an asshole when I was driving into work. Needless to say an 18 wheeler cut him off and of course this guy is in a huge Ford 350 EXT with his damn dog in the back. So he starts giving the finger while slowly creeping along side the trucks passenger window. Uncouth. Ok I get that I live in Texas but do you have to be so cliche? I had a big problem with the dog being in the back of the truck. Yes dogs love to have the wind in their face and whatever but that is truly unsafe for the animal.

Second rant.

There is someone on this page who I think is a fake or some type of imposter and just to set the record straight it is NOT waterboy. His pictures are probably fake. In his mind all the ladies love a guy that works out and shit, so let me rope a few unsuspecting females in. I can't stand this guy. He's just disgusting. Always talking about tits and ass it's like the man never get's any. I hate his posts and it takes just about everything in me not to slander his trashy ass into pieces. I'm about to give him a piece of my mind. It's like some old guy sitting on the forums trolling for younger girls anyone at that matter. When men talk about sex constantly that's a tip off to us females that your ass isn't getting any. So sit the fuck down and shut the fuck up.

Ok who is next? 🙂

The last 15 miles or so of my commute to work are up a windy, steep, two-lane road. I'm just wondering: WHEN did it become okay to creep along in front of people for mile after mile (yes, 15 of them) without PULLING OVER to let people (who are actually doing the speed limit) pass? Was my momma the last one to teach common courtesy? I appreciate that "Flatlander" tourists might be freaked out by the road, but, folks, if you look behind you and notice that you're leading a parade, it's time to get the hell over and let people make it to work on time!

Hum kinda pissy we have two lurkers on our board who won't stop whining. Pisces and an Aries. I dislike them both. GET OFF OUR BOARD WEIRDOS! Geeze you think it would be cool if someone had something decent to say instead of showing how much of a loser they are or how desperate they are. Sorry totally not feeling these two guys.

Annoyed today up at work when I am completely finished with a deadline and someone comes back asking for corrections even though it's been closed out already. Seriously?

my phone screen whited-out and i had to buy a whole new one. tried to change over the sim card and customer service was convienently closed. so i had to get a new # and do the gruling task of giving it to everyone. not to mention all contacts were lost AND had to fix all settings, replace bookmarks AND lost touch with everyone for days..... *sigh* now it's going to take forever to catch up........

haha! actually, i have been having a fantastic time! and that will continue into this week as well. the phone thing was really all the bad i've had this past week... well, other than the whole, been with the aqua for a year and i still haven't been introduced to his relatives (other than his son), nor any of his friends. i know it's my issue. he claims that i'm not ready to handle them yet and my claim is i won't really know that unless i try. lol! i guess it's the curse of having a sensitive soul or he's really the one that's not ready for fear of me getting hurt. i've heard some horrible stories... lol! so, i'm thinking it's more of the latter.

thanks Earthy! yea, that's the plan so far. otherwise, i really couldn't be happier! and if it's possible to be happier, i challange the universe to bring. it. ON!!! :}

Totally crabby right now.

I really hate it when people live by double standards. Do as I say but don't do as I do type thing.
Especially when they expect all your attention on them when they are around but when you are they give you none and then don't understand why you are mad. Or it's a man that is interested in you but clearly you are NOT his priority, so you walk. And he is like I don't understand?!?! Really? WTF you know?

Not a Gemini but I'm pissed off at one. I fucking hate him & love him. I want to kick him in the face & run him over with my car. Then I wanna make love to him & kiss him. I think I will be mad at that bastard forever. I tend to hold grudges so I think I won't ever talk to him again. Stupid little shit...but I still love gems!

@Earthy - Thanks for posting that video I got all sad 😢
That's ok though just how it feels sometimes you know?

Thanks Earthy!!! I know you know, lol. Yes...I hate that I love him. I know I'm gonna talk to him again. I'm just so mad at him, well we're mad at each other. Well whatev...I don't care. Geeze...that was totally bi-polar! 😛. No wonder...

wishing i could flippin' post... been trying for DAYS......

omg! it worked!!

Oh my god....

Ok lately I am so, so, so short tempered. I guess it's the combination of school, work, etc. Things started getting crazy last week due to our software going down, so that put me behind work, which put me behind in school work cause I had to stay late, etc.

Then just people in general being around me or their presence is annoying the shit out of me. There is this one Taurus who seems to have taken a liking to me and normally I would be like excited about it, but I'm not. He won't ever shut up. I see myself getting annoyed and hoping he will leave or we get disconnected over the phone.

People could be walking by my desk and they annoy me. Irritated doesn't seem to do it justice. Not sure what's going on with me but...yeah.

My rant is a short one, gotta go to work kind of boring, wish i had a strong sex drive which is lacking and I wish I had a sexy girfriend. Does this qualify as a rant? Wish I didn't have so much time on my hands, wish it was dark and and I was sleeping. Mood will improve eventually.

First of all just because you've been married w/kids doesn't mean a thing in this case. There are plenty of gay men who have families. If it makes you feel better approach him about it. However, if you naturally look or have fem qualities or attributes you may want to alter your appearance (a bit). Change your hair or whatever... cause i'm sure he wont be the last to say/think or try and spread such a rumor/gossip. That to me is GIRLY.. Good Luck and update us.

I am feeling so down in the dumps. Not sure what it is but ive been feeling like this for a while now. Looking forward to getting out of this slump soon!

Oh, I simply ADORE a man with feminine features. And long, curly hair? ALL about it! All of my partners have had long, gorgeous hair that any female would kill to have. Don't change a thing, BC!

Lol @ being annoyed at the mere presence of people or when they walk by your desk. I'm like that too sometimes. Thought I was the only one with that issue lol.

Yes, that's me. I don't like how it squished me sideways to fit into that avatar box, though! At least I look normal in the full-sized pic on my profile. Guess this is appropriate to say on the "rant" page!

Alright. Well I guess it's my turn to post again. With the stars aligning the way that they are recently I don't believe most of us Gem's are having the best of times right now. There seems to be a huge shortage of like decent/eligible people around me. I'm like wow where did everyone go? Most of the crappy ones I got rid of and I realized how all of them were not right for me. Since then not much has come through the door. Found myself a bit lonely.

The only ones that are coming around (and at an alarming rate) are Scorpios. Why me...*sighs*

I kid you not in the last two weeks six Scorpios have showed up. Randomly like out and about, through friends, I could be minding my own business and here one comes stalking me through the book isle at Barnes and Nobles. All of them were November 2-14th. Why me?! 😢

Continued:

There is this one Aqua that I like and well he's busy running from me. One day hes all nice to me the next cold turkey. I know that Aqua's can be really good for us Gem's but I haven't had much luck in the last year or so with them. And I sure as hell am NOT going to chase any man.

The Scorpio thing though. Im starting to wonder what is going on. Does anyone have this problem? It's become so much that I started to look at something about me in general that might be attracting them. Maybe its just our cheery Gem selves?

Geminicandlelight - Awe! Someone remembered all those crazy posts I made about my infamous Scorpio. Actually for once no. That is completely over. Nothing ever changed. I wasn't on the receiving end of anything so I finally just left after trying to give more than I should have. So jealous! I wish I had an awesome Leo to hang out with! But yeah they are approaching me in droves. It's starting to become a little creepy. Six in two weeks? I mean? What am I doing?! Is it my perfume? My clothes? Whats going on here! I should live in a bubble in my house! LOL!

I am going to freakin drop-kick this new Aqua coworker. Sooo manipulative, so arrogant, so bossy, so impressed with himself. It seems I'm the only one at work who's not allowing myself to be manipulated by him (if you think you're "All That", I'll definitely go out of my way to let you know that you are NOT), so he has begun to try subtle ways of making me look bad in front of my boss.

Why doesn't anyone else know what he's doing? Don't they FEEL his dominating energy? Don't they HEAR the disingenuousness when he laughs? Don't they SEE that his eyes aren't showing the same thing that his lips are saying? Aaaarrgh!

To top it off, I found out that he was fired from a former job for stealing clients, and that they had to change the locks after he left because he was sneaking in after hours and stealing supplies. No one else at my current workplace knows this, and I really don't see how telling anyone is going to either hurt him or help me.

Fucker! All I want to do is go to work, do my job competently, have a few laughs, go home and forget about it. Why should I have to watch my back all the time? Who does this guy think he is? He's been there less than a month, and is already being dominant. I am NOT one to be dominated! This cannot end well, and I don't know what to do about it. I feel I have no one to talk to, and so I have to write about it here just to release some of the anger.

No offense to the lovely Aquas who hang out on this board. I don't think he's a jerk because he's an Aqua. I just think he's a jerk who happens to be an Aqua.

PM, that is a beautiful story. Thank you for sharing it!


You know, I am usually extremely compassionate with people, and give them the benefit of the doubt. That's why this case was so different. I just felt that something was WRONG, and, as usual, secondguessed myself. Since it seems like I'm the only one at work who feels the way I feel, I started thinking maybe I was just being strange. But, just about an hour ago, I spoke with someone who has known this man for years and had my feelings confirmed.

She said he steals, he takes clients for his own business, he lies, he manipulates. He has been fired for inappropriate touching and for cussing out superiors. He grew up very wealthy and respects no authority (especially from women). He has been institutionalized twice, and roommates have armed themselves out of fear that he might hurt them.

I was advised to deal with him immediately, for my own good and for the good of the company, because things are only going to get worse. She told me to have my employer call his last employer (he probably left her off of his resume) and ask for a reference, because she knows about everything I just wrote. I'm trying to figure out if there is a diplomatic way of doing this.

Wow, poor Gems. We are not having a good time...

I'm having a shit night. Absolute shit! Idk why I always have to ruin things when they seem to be going so well. A man wants to show me his love and make me happy and I have to find an excuse to not accept it. I was hoping I lost the habit but it showed its ugly head yet again..

Well since I have no one else to talk about it with right now, here goes
Yesterday my Aqua guy revealed some things about his ex and their relationship even though we AGREED to not open up the EX files anymore and it hurt my feelings. He was trying to explain that I have nothing to worry about and why he;d never go back with her but it turned out to work against him.. without realizing he told me about all the things he did for her and bought her and she took them for granted bla bla.. but now all I can think about is how un-special (is there a term for that? like worse than ordinary) I feel knowing he's done the same exact things for someone else before while all along I felt like he did them because I inspired him .. It just completely killed the mood and ruined my day but I didn;t let him know because I didn;t want to upset him. All day today I was thinking about it and what do u know she came up AGAIN in a conversation about a rare skin condition she has, and he made the mistake of repeating to me two times how beautiful she was regardless ..... ugh. I've seen her pictures on fb but he doesn't it.. believe me she's got nothing on me and I'm very confident in myself. But that irritated me so badly. Like adding insult to injury. We were on the phone so I made my exit as soon as I could and he noticed my tone of voice and seemed worried but clueless.. I don't know what I hate more; the fact that he was stupid enough to go into such details about his previous relationship or the fact that I feel like a selfish immature and jealous child who must have all the attention to myself (which I do have all his attention right now) but for reason I can't any sleep now over it.. Did I finally find smth to pick at and try to run away because its been so good so soon? Do I have a valid concern ? Is it okay that I don't feel so special anymore? I guess we all know that our partners have had other lovers before us just like we did but it's different when you actually hear in detail the things that they and did and felt for others.. Do I even know what I'm talking about? Im just so tired. But i can't sleep. I feel like giving him back all his presents because it pisses me off knowing she has almost the same things... ughhhh. What;s the cure for disappointment, anyone?

Gems - I just read this and to be honest I would be just as upset. I am also a Gemini (as you may know) but even to remove my sign and look at it as a female it upsets me too. Funny enough I had this same kind of conversation the other day with someone that was trying to flirt with me. I knew his reputation and it proceeds him, almost everyone knows it. I cannot tell you how much it infuriates me when someone casts a net and just hopes to catch whatever it may be and give you canned responses. Anyone it doesn't matter who. So you can be sure that same thing he just told you he told someone else 15 minutes ago. Needless to say I raged and mauled his face off.

*Sigh*

I really feel for us right now Gem's. Everyone here in this thread. I don't know about anyone else but I am having a terrible time lately. I know the stars aren't aligned for us right now and its causing some major issues.

Normally I have several guys I talk to chatting, flirting, having a good time. There is NO one right now. So its uber lonely. Having thoughts about my terrible Scorpio ex. The only guys that are coming after me are ones that aren't suited for me like more Scorpios but they are super unfit. As in jobless, mentally/emotionally/financially unstable, rude, uncouth, etc.

Raged on some friends last night for not listening to me and it just feels like people are purposely ignoring me. I didn't say much just hung up on them. I'm not in the mood. Of course here they come apologizing more than I appreciate, but I am not in the mood right now to accept it from anyone. I tell them Im still pissed and that's that.

Does anyone know exactly whats going on right now? I know someone posted it earlier. About mercury being in retrograde? What else is happening? Anyone? Im really trying to figure out why we are having such a hard time. Would yall post that information again?

Posted by feb16aqua
Hey Gems...I hate when they do that. I don't want to hear about my bfs exes at all...only to torture myself. Anything he tells me I end up obsessing about and resenting him for. This is not the way to be! Those people are in the past and the past is the past. This is what he told me. They are long gone.
I know how you feel though and it sucks.

Exactly my thoughts. They're in the past for a reason so why bring them up? I torture myself too because I looked them up on FB and went through their pictures and tried to imagine him with them.. sigh. Today I avoided him for the most part and hoped he'd think I was just busy but he figured me out right away. He text me: I think I said smth you didn't like last night and I want to apologize for brining up the past but can you tell me what it is you didn't like so I can make sure to not make the same mistake twice? But I can't... ugh I have too much pride to admit it too 😢

@ Xin, I think we have two very different situations at hand but I can totally sympathize. I can also relate to missing the attention from different guys all at once. It's been pretty quiet for me lately too except for this Aqua guy that has made himself completely available to me and I think it scared me..

It's definitely a weird time for us right now because I'm not seeing eye to eye with a friend either and today I argued with my mother. Wonder what else I got coming..
Take it easy my dear gems

Gems - Yeah I know everyone is experiencing something different but it's like my powers of communication went completely out the door and I am speaking an alien language. With that said I've just stopped talking all together and just started sulking. Hiding out for a little while.

Ps. Nothing wrong with hiding out for a while dear.

^
There are plenty of women who like a feminine looking dude, you just have to find your type. And it seems you may have already. Btw she might be into astrology and wants to read up on your personality, maybe that's why she asked about your birthday.
But that's strange that a woman wants to spoil you like that, lucky you. Is she older than you? Enjoy it while it lasts. Who knows maybe you guys will end up being soul mates 😛 Gems and Sags usually despise each other but sometimes they end up loving each other like crazy