Vulnerable Gemini

Vulnerable Gemini

So my Gemini & I were discussing some things he was going through & he was very emotional. This was the first time I've ever seen him cry. I mean cry like a baby. I felt for him & was really shocked because I've never seen this side to him before. He would always try to conceal his true feelings & suppress his emotions. I wiped his tears away, gave him plenty hugs & kisses, & comforted him until he calmed down. He told me he didn't know I cared so much about him.
I view him from such a different perspective now & I feel like we grew alot closer in that moment. *sigh*

Have any of you fellow geminis expressed that level of emotion to a S/O? If so were you trusting of them enough to display such feelings? Did that make you feel closer to the person? Also is it hard for geminis to even cry in the presence of someone else?

I'm so happy that you finally took that step and reached out😉

"Have any of you fellow Gemini expressed that level of emotion to a S/O?"

I'm in a cusp with Gemini and also I have a Gemini Moon..I have days that I'm more emotional than others. So yes I do express my emotions with my Virgo and it makes the bond that we share so much stronger..Its a very intense moment for me when I do.

" If so were you trusting of them enough to display such feelings?"

Well if he cried and he said the things he said to you its obvious he trusts you enough to do so...If he did not he would of just kept it to himself..Real you have to understand one thing, the fact that he reached out to you and was willing to tell you the things he did says a lot about his trust and feelings for you.He did not have to tell you anything, he obviously did it because he cares. I will tell you this, if for some reason he thinks you are not taking him seriously, the will be the last time you see that part of him.

"Did that make you feel closer to the person?"

Definitely very close..At least I do even though I'm not a full blown Gemini but like I said I do get emotional at times. I can't speak for all Gems but when my Gem side comes out and I open up like that I feel the bond becomes so much stronger.

"Also is it hard for Gemini to even cry in the presence of someone else?"

Yes it is for me, but then again I'm somewhat stronger because of my Taurus sun..But to be honest with you I have never seen a Gem man do that unless they totally felt 100% close to a person, Gems usually put up their walls when it comes to showing their emotions to just anyone.

I hope things work out for you, I know we have talked and I always try and give you the best advice I can. I Know you love this Gem, he needs you right now, be there for him as a person and once that is figured out, you need to work things out in benefit of the relationship. He is a good man.🙂 And you are a such a loving person🙂 You deserve each other.

Awwww thanks TBG, I appreciate that. I do feel like we've made our bond stronger & I am going to be there for him. I couldn't abandon him. I take his emotions very seriously because again he never expressed such vulnerability & I wouldn't ever take that for granted. I just was really taken back that he opened up to me. I definitely view him differently.

Have any of you fellow geminis expressed that level of emotion to a S/O? If so were you trusting of them enough to display such feelings? Did that make you feel closer to the person? Also is it hard for geminis to even cry in the presence of someone else?

Yes, it's usually only my SO who gets to see me cry. Or, if I get emotional in public, it's because an SO is driving me nuts and I've temporarily "lost it" enough to freak out in front of other people.

i have really strong emotions and will cry in front of anyone. even if i'm extremely happy. lol! so, i might not be the best example... but i've known many gems that won't just cry in front of anyone unless there's been a certain level of trust built.

Thanks for your responses guys!!!