How do you deal with a broken heart—

I'm curious as to how other Gem's handle a breakup/broken heart! I over analyze, search for answers, cry , and sulk for a really long time. I'm a super sensitive Gemini always have been because I put my heart in everything I do. I love extremely hard. I think that's were I go wrong. I just don't want what one person did to mess it up for every other person who comes along.

Posted by sillykim123
I'm curious as to how other Gem's handle a breakup/broken heart! I over analyze, search for answers, cry , and sulk for a really long time. I'm a super sensitive Gemini always have been because I put my heart in everything I do. I love extremely hard. I think that's were I go wrong. I just don't want what one person did to mess it up for every other person who comes along.

Always think not everyone is the same, I love hard too but Im very selective who I give my heart to, Im Loving to all I come across to a degree, I live love! I am love! 🙂.. When I find that person its the purest love I have so yes it cuts deep if that is abused, luckily I have only fully given my heart to one person..

What I tend to do nowadays when feeling broken hearted, Im kinda like ok then, I walk away.. during this time i will spend much time on my own,, I intellectualize, analyse, churn it over and over until i exhaust myself mentally, no one knows apart from my best friend how i feel inside but even there i spend my time on my own, I will then reflect on what i did wrong to allow it to happen, because usually we are just as responsible, I will force myself to allow that pain rather than doing everything I can to avoid it, see I came to the conclusion, tears are water, water cleanses 🙂 if you allow your heart to break wide open then you really think about stuff, all the horrible anxcious feelings wash away once youve taken responsibility and made sense of it all, for me im then able to grow from this, I heal quicker and can move on, I find when you have those horrible anxcious feelings you are feeling them because youre avoiding coming to terms with whatevers making you feel bad, youre feeling them because youre keeping it all inside rather than facing it and letting it out (this is why to allow your heart to break wide open, I refused this for a long time) it has to come out somewhere so it comes out physically, its that feeling that fogs decisions and choices, I cant stand it but i now know how to deal with it which enables me to move on real quick now, about 3 months ago I was feeling this a bit, last year was really bad, but Im SO happy now, OVER IT! I dont need anyone to give me happiness, people are more attracted to me than ever, I give good love all over the place, Im loving me too! I am in a place where I can choose rather than need someone... I hope this helps,

Yea I like to be alone too. I also like to workout. I've never understood this but I can walk for hours and just think and cry! How do you let your heart break open? It's going to be along time before I get over this becuase I was still getting over another breakup beforw this too! I still have some resentments from the first breakup and now dealing with this one!