How fast typical Gemini get emotionally invested

Why's there no delete, i botched the title.

anyway....Gemini's how fast do you get infatuated ? and how fast can it disappear?

I'm wondering cause I know you are the spontaneous, exciting, fast, tons-to-do types.

My experiences with Geminis is that they aren't attracted to everyone. Even though they are easy-going & can adapt to any personality or environment, they are still inwardly picky.

B/c they aren't easily impressed, it's quite hard to get their attention consistently. BUT when they actually are attracted to you/once you've caught their eye & match their standards for someone they can see as more than a friend, they REALLY REALLY like you!

It's almost like they're thinking, "Oh thank GOD I finally found someone that tickles my fancy!" Which leads them to attach quicker, as most people do when they've finally found that rare gem out of a stack

Problem is, what they are attracted to may be traits that are shallow. But b/c Geminis trust their own instincts & trust that if they like you, there must be something special about you, it's a lot harder for them or anybody to convince them that they had poor judgment. Ugh Geminis hate that b/c it's so embarrassing especially since most people depend on Gemini for their logic & ability to usually escape shallow/short-term/dead-end situations!!! lol

And that embarrassment with self will lead them to break things off & fall out of love/lust just as quickly as they fell in love. It's almost like they slip away in the night.

anyway....Gemini's how fast do you get infatuated ? (remember, infatuation is different from love)...just a little FYI to consider.

*********Very quickly if the guy is handsome, has a cute smile and exudes a natural confidence. Most important, however, is can he carry an intelligent conversation and hold his own in a give and take chat?

and how fast can it disappear?

*********Very quickly if the guy can't converse enough to complete a full sentence without choking and freaking out. I had one date with this type of guy. He was nice looking, but when confronted with a female who was assertive, he became a total wreck. He got up and to go to the bath room. I got up and and drove home. LOL When my Black Lab can converse with me more intelligently than some dude, there is a serious problem.

Thank God I'm married and don't have to go through the dating game insanity anymore!