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This topic was created in the Gemini forum by morrissey on Sunday, January 28, 2007 and has 10 replies.

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@morrissey
20 YearsGemini

get people mad at eachother and make them fight (with words not physically) just for my entertainment... I know that's bad but it amuses me. Is this some kind of Gemini trait or something? I also like to argue/debate over things and prove my point all the time. Then when I'm wrong, I'm like, "Ok, whatever!!!"

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@morrissey
20 YearsGemini

Haha i hope so!!! and by "making them fight" i don't mean like really bad yelling, just a small argument where everything is okay afterwards.

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@a4_gemini
20 Years500+ PostsGemini

"I like to get people mad at each other and make them fight verbally just for my entertainment..."

I USED to be an EXPERT at that shit...but people grow up. Though, it WAS humorous when the "people" were girls ...*cat hiss* (no offence ladies). Dude, patches of hair missing(PISSING-FUNNY!!), titties popping out of shirts(SEXY!!), and sometimes the fake hair/real hair would be on the ground or fence & people would take it home as a souvenir(SENTIMENTAL VALUE-ABLES!!)....ohh..GOOD TIMES!!...am i right?

" I also like to argue/debate over things and prove my point all the time. Then when I'm wrong, I'm like, "Ok, whatever!!!""

Im not TOO certain that ALL the geminis does that, but I do that often with my co-workers. When they come to me with there wrong-ass / retard opinions, I can not HELP but to respond with the FACTS!!(ex: ""No child left behind" is finally coming as break-through support to students that reside in homes and areas that are 'below the proverty line/ blue-collar'"...THAT IS TOTAL SHIT!!). However, when im wrong...I just admit to being wrong and pass on with my day.

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@GemGirlNVirgGuy
19 Years

i like to debate for fun where no one is offended. i don't like to debate if someone gets hurt like debating with a loved one.

i don't like having two people argue over soemthing i said.. but naturally, when i say soemthing it does get two parties at conflict. totally sucks bc i feel bad about it

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@Freebird
21 Years1,000+ Posts

Well....that explains the behaviour of an older Gemini woman. For no reason she was constanly saying neg. things about other people to other people - little did she know that the so called friends caught onto her and her antics.....she has very few friends. I'm just amazed that she continues to do this? Sheesh, she must be bored with life 😢

"i tihnk air signs might be the meanest with words of the bunch." Yep - perhaps with some. This is exactly why my ex Gemini is my ex!

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@GemGirlNVirgGuy
19 Years

i was gonna say kris... i was like na uh.. lol...

yeah, not all gems are immature and likes to play immature games..etc.... i don't like to play games bc all games have consequences... and i don't liked to be played either...

i have several gem friends and a few that i know are immature and a player... but i love them for who they are.. they're sweet people for the most part.

a tip to all those non gems: just keep the minds of a gem busy and protect their heart and they will make you happy for life. ^_o

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@Eaglegirl
19 Years500+ Posts

GemGirlnVirgGuy,

How do you "protect the heart" of a Gemguy?

I find with my Gemguy's feelings that you have to be highly intuitive cos he won't tell me...luckily as a Scorp I am sensitive to nuance and body language, and my heart tells me when I have hurt him...

What is weird is that sometimes when I'm playing with his mind, I can sometimes hurt his heart...just teasing words about something he said or did, and he goes quiet, and I realise...

The last time this happened, I had to send a light-hearted funny little email (nothing heavy or direct, of course) that kind of said (in code, of course) "I didn't mean to hurt your feelings, my dearest, most beloved, sweetheart." Which of course I would never say to him.

Is this what you mean by "protecting the heart?"

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@Freebird
21 Years1,000+ Posts

"protecting a Gems heart?" hmmmm.....yea, how does one do that? sounds like tooooo much work for me. Personally, I enjoy being with someone who does not take life so seriously and if they get that upset that easily...oh my - in my opinion, there is no way to "protect" someone elses heart.....that is an inside job for that individual person.