I am an Aquarius age 30 and boyfriend 40 next month. We have been together for 8 months. He can be so good then in the next minute he is a different person. I have asked him to come eat with me on a Saturday on my lunch break. He said no we didn't have the money then he takes his Aunt & Uncle to eat and paid for it. I asked him about this. He said he didn't feel like driving that far, which is only 20 miles. He would be staying home anyway. He lied and told me he couldn't take off and go with me to my daughters baccalarte(sp). Come to find out he was off and I called him on it and he got very angry. I have caught him in other lies and he gets very upset. He never has a good answer except, we need to go our seperate ways because its not going to work out. He is very quiet and makes me feel at times he is being secretive about something. Everytime I ask him for us to do something, he says no and comes up with a lame excuse. I have noticed he looks at porn on the internet. Asked him about it because he doesn't want to have sex. He says he wasn't. No one else lives in the house. He makes me feel like he is ignoring me at times. He acts like he is bored with me. He looks said and unhappy all the time. Don't know what to do to pull him out. We are totally oposite in personalities. He acts like he tries to play mind games with me. He is always happy when his friends are around but goes back to normal when they leave. He acts selfish and like a kid. If you are upset, he won't comfort you. He has no emotions. He tells me he loves me but I feel he doesn't. I do small things for him, like leave sticky notes all over the house when he comes home, give him random cards and so on. He never says thank you or acknowledges he got anything. Our first Easter together, I got him a basket full of stuff, he got me nothing. He is not one to take blame or apologize. I had a old pickup with 286,000 miles on it. I would leave to take my daughter home, which is 1hr and 1/2 one way. He never called me to make sure we were not broken down. When I got home, I asked him why he didn't, he said if you needed me you would have called. Told him I couldn't call if I was hurt seriously in a wreck. He had no reply. He has recently got us a car. For mothers day he did get me roses, a card and crockpot. I sometimes wonder why I am still here. Someone please help.
