Need help with gemini man

I'm a female leo with a scorpio rising and I've fallen head over heels for a gemini man who is a 13 years older than me (I'm 28) and I can't figure him out.

We met through mutual friends and hit it off immediately. He gives me all the signs of being interested but when push comes to shove, he backs off. He is divorced and although I don't know the details, I do know that it was bad.

Anyhow, we made plans this week to get together. He said he'd call me but still hasn't and the week is pretty much over. I don't like sitting around waiting for him to call but I was sure that there was "something" between us. Anyone have any ideas?

Thanks

Not sure about the Gemini guy you are interested in oceanmyste but what I do know is....when a man is interested in a woman he will continue to win her no matter what. Reason I say this is.....men are hunters and when they find a woman who lights their heart on fire, there is nothing that they will stop at to win her love.

I know a Gemini man and have known him for 7-8 yrs. He still continues to this day to profess his love for me. Why are we not together? He is married and I do not do married men.

I told him when and if he is single I will then IF I am available - date him. He tells me that I have a hold on his heart...and he will never give up on me ...... yeah, we will see. Nice words but honestly, they cup has a leak in it and the water is not holding......

Stubborn Aries I am but......back to the menz - if he slacks off, you slack off. You will KNOW when a man is into you. Trust me on this....you will just know and you will not be asking any questions.

The Gemini man can be quite the flirt...he enjoys stirring people up, and interacting with them more than most men...they also love women, because women are chatty and Gems need to chat.

No matter how macho he seems, he lives in his mind. He is quite happy to have a "mental fling" with you....you'll never hear a Gem male admit this, because it doesn't seem macho, and all men worry about their machoness, but sometimes the Gem male is happy with just conversation and flirting.

Thanks for the advice 🙂

Sorry, I'm probably just being overly sensitive. I normally handle regection fairly well but usually I can see it coming. This just totally threw me for a loop.

Thanks again

LOL... thanks so much 🙂 I guess I will just have to wait longer. He seemed like a very sincere person, and he actually said, "I will call you". It doesn't make sense for him to say that and not mean it. I'd expect it from other men, but not him.

I can be somewhat impatient though, especially when I'm looking forward to something. I can see that he is going to keep me running in circles trying to figure out what he's thinking 🙂

"push comes to shove" is something that I have to be concerned about, if I show too much enthusiasm girls back off, its easy for me to obtain numbers although I don't pester them even if my inner feelings are raging with passion and lust. Slow and steady is not my basic motto, I'm spontaneous but I do alter my behavior otherwise I wouldn't even proceed from A to B let alone A to z. Its probably something about me probably my differentness that intimidates women; Recently I met a Sagittarius beauty - beautifully proportioned legs, gorgeous ass, nice face, nice natural bust, I'm taking it really slow with her trying to maintain some phone conversations with her focus on loosening her up, coincidentally both of us have parents with the same signs Taurus moms and Gemini dads.

'coincidentally.'

Ordinarily Gemini and Sagittarius outta be very spontaneous even if its just about communication initially - indecisiveness between each other could suddenly break up this meeting.

Gemini and Aries outta be very spontaneous.

Gemini and Leo not sure.

Indecisiveness could be a hindrance.

Thanks prringLeo, you said the magic words 🙂

I hate feeling out of sorts. I've been wishing all week that I had gotten HIS number instead of the other way around. After talking to my friend, who was standing close by when we made the plans, I realized that he hadn't actually said he'd call me THIS week. He just said that he would call *sigh*

I'll give him another week before panicking. I know that he was attracted to me and in getting together. Time to stop sulking... lol

Fierce,

I doubt it's your differentness that is making the girls skittish...it could be your sexual vibe (especially with the Scorp rising)! I know a Gemguy who is very upfront about wanting to get me into bed, but I said "no" (of course) because this blatant behavior is very off-putting to most women. Do you come off this way? Just interested in sex? Girls can read that kind of vibe, you know. You are wise to take your time with your Sag beauty...let thing happen naturally (i.e. on the woman's schedule).

Don't get all mad at me now, Fierce.

I have another question for the Gems out there, especially the males. I just got his number and am debating whether I should call him. Do Gemini's mind being chased, or is it a major turnoff?

Thanks

we like being chased.. but to a point.. and only if we want it... we love games... imagination.. think of something different then the norm... make yourself stand out.. you need to put yourself in his mind.. some kinda way if you're not already there.. and you won't know if you are unless he kets you know.. or starts chasing you.. which when his emotions about you get that strong.. he will.... fierce is trying to control that now with his sag beauty. So you need to do something that will intrigue him capture his MIND! i'd do somethin glike get tickets to the museum or zoo or i don't know him.. but something stimulating and then call him.. i don't know.... you know him.. what makes him tick? and the most important thing is... when you do talk to him.. DON'T be like "you never called.." or anything that puts him on the spot for that. we hate it, cuz we will call.. but when we can. and that makes us squirm.. lol if you're all chipper and happy go lucky like NO BIG DEAL, that'll go over so much better.

Thanks BaBy-GrL414, I appreciate your help. I actually now have an excuse to call him... lol. I was just going to be nonchalant and see how he was doing. I have something to drop off at his place that he's been wanting, so I was just going to be bold and invite him out for coffee afterwards or something like that. Does all that sound okay?

I'm not mad at you you small baby Eaglet, thanks for the advice something I should remember, keep in mind which is to be slow and steady, if I get lucky with her all of y'all will definitely see some pictures I promise.

Well, it turned out great. He was happy to hear from me and we talked for almost an hour. He's been really busy and was waiting for his schedule to settle down before calling (He told me - I didn't ask). We made plans for this weekend 😄

The Gem male has a very busy schedule! It must be so wonderful to be interested in every single person you meet -- this is a quality I wish to emulate!

Thanks for everyones help :-)

I'll let you all know how it goes.

"Need help with gemini man"

If a dude (not just of the Gemini sign) don't call, though he has sayed that he would..PLEASE!!! DON'T CHASE AFTER HIM BY SITTING BY THE PHONE FOR HIS CALL...Live your life, Live it the fullest, & Shrew that jackass.

how do u stand out when u work together and dont want everyone to know and arent really sure bc gems seem to hold their feelings just as well as aqua