Psychotic Gemini Ex bf

So this psychotic gemini ex bf is extremely jealous of my new bf. He ONLY shows he wants me back if I'm taken, like if he can't have me.. no one can. I've been with my new bf almost two years now and we're in love, however, gemini contacts me every now and then and thinks he has power of God. His mind is warped and strongly believes for example, if he makes someone at work look bad with my boyfriends name, then my boyfriend will go down as well. Another example, if he gets his parents to fire someone at work with my boyfriends name, my bf will go down, etc etc.. Something is seriously wrong with this gemini guy, I don't know what to do. I've even tried to hook him up on a few dates, however, he has an obsession with me that is BEYOND psychotic. I'm scared if he harasses me to an extreme level, my bf will break up with me and this gemini will get his way. How do I make this gemini TURNED off in which he'll NEVER contact me again? please help!

Posted by brights
Something is seriously wrong with this gemini guy

you are correct. im not gonna lie, i dont think anything you do will instantly turn off this extreme obsession, cuz shit doesnt really work like that..i wish i could help you more, but your case is alittle extreme, and i think you will end up needing some type of law enforcement to 'solve' your problem.i wish you best of luck.

I have threatened him with getting a restraining order or getting the cops involved, however, he then makes a 180 (very bipolar) and claims he wants me to be happy and that he'll leave me alone yet suffer. It's hard to actually get the cops involved, he has a good side, but also an evil side..

Posted by brights
I have threatened him with getting a restraining order or getting the cops involved, however, he then makes a 180 (very bipolar) and claims he wants me to be happy and that he'll leave me alone yet suffer. It's hard to actually get the cops involved, he has a good side, but also an evil side..

aww..i see now...he loves you very, very much and i dont think you can quite comprehend how much he does. its sad but we all know the feeling isn't mutual. you need to have a talk with him about this(if you havent already), and if you have already, i honestly have no idea but to give the situation time.

Posted by brights

So this psychotic gemini ex bf is extremely jealous of my new bf. He ONLY shows he wants me back if I'm taken, like if he can't have me.. no one can. I've been with my new bf almost two years now and we're in love, however, gemini contacts me every now and then and thinks he has power of God.

Two years ?

my gem father is like this... i know how scary it can get... it's what happens when a gem refuses to evolve, imho. and 2 years is a long time to not let it go...

sounds like you need to make some changes. like, if he calls... don't answer it! if he txts... don't respond! (with answering/responding, you are just setting yourself up for it and he knows that.) change your phone number so he can't call at all. block him on any social networking sites that he can have access to you. gems are very, very good with words and i know how bad the verbal abuse and manipulation can get when dealing with an un-evolved gem. make it look like you have disappeared. eventually, he will get it and move on. sometimes, we have to learn lessons the hard way and you shouldn't feel badly about making these choices to rid yourself of negative ppl.

i had to move to a different city in order to have peace. i love my father, cuz he is my father but, i don't have to put up with the negative behavior if i choose not to. i chose not to and moved. if he finds you and continues, that's stalking, which is something you CAN call the cops for.

i wish you the best and lots of luck with this!!!! *hugs*

Sounds like he has reached drug addict phase. Any contact with you whatsoever, whether it be good or bad, he gets a fix of "you". You may need to cut him off from anyway of getting his fix. What is really sad is, if he is trully addicted to you, you can't check in at all after any period of time because the addiction has a strong possibility of starting all over again. It sounds like it would be best to cut ties, for your health and his. :/ -hug- you deserve to be happy and are not accountable for his happiness.

I'm interested to see how this works out for you. I, too, have a psychotic Gemini ex who thought we were destined to be together no matter what. The only thing that helped keep him away from me was that he's Canadian and no longer allowed in the U.S. It's not like that would have been much of a deterrent, though, so I stopped letting him know where I was living. He kept getting my phone number, and called me often, begging and crying, for 10 years. TEN! It only stopped when I got married- I guess it got through to him that his quest was finally over. I hope you fare better than I.

Oh yeah...like everyone else said...it's best to ignored his calls. I picked up the phone because I felt sorry for him and because I thought I could use reason with him. Best just to break contact.

Posted by DoubleGem2
OMG...ML, your post, posted like 4 times....

i know.... WTH?!?! lol!

sorry about that guys... :/

Posted by DoubleGem2
Poor man, he had a vision.....he cant get it out of his head....

i know right?! i feel bad, reminds me of myself! not gonna lie, apart from the craziness, i admire his persistence

This isn't me at all and never has been. Obsessive? Leo rising with a Taurus moon, so it ain't happenin captain. This dude sounds like he has major mama issues. Call his mother on his ass, he'll stop ackin like a damn fool.

But for me to be obsessing over a female isn't in my DNA. I'm too stubborn and I have way too much pride. Hell, it's like pulling teeth out of a live shark just to get me to say I love you, but I do say it once I've swallowed my pride. 🙂

Chasing after some poon tang that's aged two years? Uh....... No.

A wise man once said that poon tang ain't like wine, it's like bread. 😄

I know I'm bad. SO!

Posted by GeminiMind
This isn't me at all and never has been. Obsessive? Leo rising with a Taurus moon, so it ain't happenin captain. This dude sounds like he has major mama issues. Call his mother on his ass, he'll stop ackin like a damn fool.

But for me to be obsessing over a female isn't in my DNA. I'm too stubborn and I have way too much pride. Hell, it's like pulling teeth out of a live shark just to get me to say I love you, but I do say it once I've swallowed my pride. 🙂

Chasing after some poon tang that's aged two years? Uh....... No.

A wise man once said that poon tang ain't like wine, it's like bread. 😄

I know I'm bad. SO!

That's some funny stuff right there GM! How was your birthday? Mine was yesterday and I am pleased to say that something inside me clicked and everything I had been worrying about and stressing over this past year just went bye bye. I gotta tell you, becoming indifferent over situations I had struggled with and let get to me...it's a fantastic state of mind this indifference. Once again, I am thankful to be a Gemini.

To the OP I agree this fella is out there and I too would stop all communications.

My birthday is still going on, GD! I'm happy for you babes! 🙂

Posted by brights

So this psychotic gemini ex bf is extremely jealous of my new bf. He ONLY shows he wants me back if I'm taken, like if he can't have me.. no one can. I've been with my new bf almost two years now .....

Two years is a long time ... it's a strange comment to make that he only shows he wants you if you are taken, considering you've been with one person for two years. That sentence implies that you are referring to more than one person who has taken you, since you can't use just one person to make such a comparison ... so, the question lingers in my mind how long you've been dangling men in front of the Gemini.

Because any man, no matter who he is, isn't going to chase a woman for two years .. unless her pussy is lined in gold. Especially not a Gemini who is a free spirited sort of person, and flutters through relationships faster than a person goes through a roll of toilet paper.

If this man is acting out because of you being with another person to whom you've been with for two years AND your pussy isn't made of gold ... then you are toying with him for attention ..... using your boyfriend as bait.

^^^ and there's the other side to it... seriously, good point there P-Angel.

and if that's the case... then you are just asking for some serious trouble. i will definitely wish you luck with that, if that's the case, cuz you'll need it... if he's psychotic as you claim.

either way, i still stand by what i said about cutting off contact COMPLETELY, for both your sakes...