Crazy thing about spiting a gemini...

It doesn't really work. Am I right?

I'm starting to wonder if its mentally healthy. I recently had a bad departing of a relationship and the nightmares I'm having are about missing his dog. So much for missing the ex, though he is making a good effort at leaving me tons of messages intended to guilt trip.

I do miss his pup though 😢. He was such a sweet pit bull.

Sickle! Are we related??

When things ended in my previous relationship a couple of years ago I cried, not because of him, but because I really missed the puppy.

Spiting doesn't work. We're progressive thinkers; s**t happens, life goes on. Voila. 😉

True that, shit happens. 😢 Its depressing when I pass one of the pit bull's brothers everyday though. >:😢 I think its time I think progressively into stealing away the pit bull when he is asleep. Then I'll send him a message saying I adopted one at the pound that looks remarkably like his 😄!

Yay, solution found. Seriously though, I've noticed the harder one tries to hurt me the less likely it is to work. 😄 Gotta forget you ever loved before to love again, and that gives me ample reason to ignore/forget.

Are we talking short term or long term? Because in the short term, I don't necessary think this is true, Geminis very often have short tempers. But in the mid to long term, yes, most of us tend to get over things quickly.

So true. I make sound decisions with valid certainty. Because I don't ever express my thoughts when I'm in a decisions-decisions mode, people "think" that I make decisions on a whim so they try to dissuade me when I've made up my mind. No one understands that Geminis don't JUST choose to leave someday. We will think about the problem/person to death and will do A LOT of observing, analyzing, and THEN decide based on everything conclusively. So that's why when we're gone, there is no turning back. We have already CLEANSED our body of any thought of you during these periods of contemplating a solution. So when someone keeps trying to prod and push after we've made up our minds, you're not fooling anyone, you're just annoying us because we were over you yesterday.

On a lighter note, let's go get your dog! We'll snatch mine up along the way. haha 😉

Yep. I just cut them from my life if its over, even if I still love them and miss them. Its exactly like Medulla said, the decision is made on my end before and when I've had enough it is just done. Hell I go through the heartbreak of ending a relationship before I even end it.

sooooo true!!!

You can spite me...but only if you're not TRYING to!If you're trying, I'll just think it's funny.

i tried to...my gemy went berserk on me...fyi non-gems just accept and adapt...survivor~ yeee

wats up yall Long time no Cee

Sup folks G.L.?!

😄 hi! and @bothatonce I definitely have a bad temper, but I get over it so quickly. Recently, I've just been trying to control it and keep it to myself. I've started to realize that my temper only qualifies for those I'm close to though. Other times I'm as non-respondent as ever. 😛 I guess its just easier to keep my feelings hidden.