Update, Scorpio dude DID want a relationship but by that time I'd gone off him, I did try for 2 weeks to fancy him but I couldn't he changed dramatically, he wanted me to leave the dating site I found him on and took it upon himself to create fake profiles to see if I would meet any other guys, I was in his house on his laptop and just had a feeling that if I looked I would find something so I went into his pictures and seen all these pictures of guys that he had used to create the 3 fake profiles. The date created coincided with the date these fake profiles contacted me so that was the last straw, that was too weird for me.
This was June time, I told him that I didn't want to meet up with him anymore and what followed was him bombarding me with text messages and emails then he found me on another forum that I use for fitness and general talk, he was harassing me on there. I had a huge email explaining that I treetrunked with his feelings and that he was vengeful and all this bollox, turned to threatening me. I told him "come anywhere near me and I'd slice his eyelids off and set fire to his house whilst he was asleep"
Don't think I will bother with scorps in the future, don't think we are suited at all.
Explain more about him testing the waters, do you think he could potentially want to be more than just friends? He did only say friends when we were emailing and talking on phone, since we met and spoke a bit more on the phone he is asking me more and more questions that shouldn't matter to someone if they only wanted to be a friend. For example he asked me what me and my ex used to argue about and how we split, did any cheating go on etc, it did but it was my ex that cheated not me hence the reason we broke up.
Thanks for the proper replies people, some more information about the guy, he has had previous relationships, his longest one was 6 years and his most recent one just 2 years. He said he has been single coming upto 2 years now and last night on the phone he was playfully using the L word (love) he was jokingly saying that I loved him, I was like "Ummm nope!"
Can I just ask what everyone means when they say butter? I'm guessing treetrunk is sex, yes?
I can assure you I am not p angel whoever that is, if there is a MOD on here they could check my IP address and see that I am in Great Britain, I'm guessing from the replies most of you are American, I don't get some of the slang words, the same as you wouldn't understand all the British slang if I used it.
Many thanks for the replies so far though I will check in again and hopefully have some decent responses.
I am a Gemini but I'm on the cusp with Cancer so I have Cancer traits too.
I apologise for this being long but I want you to know all the details so I can get some good advice and opinions from Scorps.
I'm on a dating site and received an email from this guy 3 weeks ago. I looked at his profile, liked his pictures and his profile, it was witty articulate and he spelt everything correctly (instead of all the LOL and text talk that I hate) anyway we emailed back and forth for a week, in his emails he said he wasn't looking for a girlfriend mainly just looking for friends, after a week we exchanged numbers and talked for 4 and half hours no exaggeration on the Monday night, Tuesday-Friday nights we spent about 3 hours each night talking again then Saturday night we were both out and a bit drunk so we agreed to meet, this was about 3am! He came back to my house and we did talk for about an hour but then fell asleep, I had a night shirt on and knickers he had his boxers on, we did have a kiss and I could feel his dick in my back but nothing really sexual happened. Woke up a few hours later and his hangover had kicked in (I felt fine!) I told him to eat so drove him to one of the fast food places, he felt 100% better after eating so we went back up to bed. Without going into too much detail we had sex, he is an amazing lover, so eager to please and his oral sex is thee best I've ever had.
I just couldn't believe how comfortable I felt with him and so soon, its strange because he is the first new guy I have been with in 10 years, (I was with my Saggi ex for 9 years, been single for just over a year now) This Scorp guy is so funny, so easy to talk to, he gets my humour which can be a bit dry and dark, we had speakers hooked up to my laptop and were playing each other our fave songs from youtube and we were just having a good chilled out time, talking, drinking fruit juice, having sex,cuddling,kissing it was great! He's just over 4 years older than me, he's 32, 33 in Oct and I'm 27, 28 in June. I drove him home about midnight Sunday and since then we have spoken and text every day. He is on about coming down this weekend, 2 days ago he told me some really personal stuff about his childhood and his bad relationship with his Mother who is an alcoholic and was violent to him when he was a child. He goes on about how all of his friends are now married with babies. He is still saying he doesn't want a Girlfriend though?
I have to agree about sex with water signs, sex with my new Scorpion guy is amazing. He loves everything, he has me sttingon his face and gets me to rip my ass cheeks apart so he can tongue my ass hole as deep as he can, I get to grind my kitty against his chin at the same time. He's huge as well so its awesome using both my little hands to milk him oh my god I hope we last, the only thing with him is he is really jealous about things, I like people to trust me cos I trust them, I don't feel like he trusts me at all and he seems a bit clingy!