Real? BS or take the hint?

A Gemini man, who said he loves me very much also told me he doesn't wanna date me because he doesn't wanna hurt me. He said that he knows sooner or later he'll ditch me for another woman. He's the kinda man who feels trapped if he hears the word "Commitment" and just wanna have fun.
Yet, he talks to another girl and he wanna date her, because he said, that it's ok if he ditch her for another girl later but still wanna see where life take them together

Should I see it as he truly cares about me and he's trying to save me from getting hurt?
Or just some hint as he's not into me and just a way to not hurt my feelings?

(Yes, I'm the naive and stupid kind. I have a hard time understanding hints sometimes)

Move on. That's total BS about him caring about you. Even if he cared for your feelings he sure doesn't want to stay with you or be with you. At the end of the day what does it matter whether or not he cared about you if he doesn't want to be with you and has already told you. It hurts but move on. Don't let this man get you down. You are fabulous with or without him.

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A Gemini man, who said he loves me very much also told me he doesn't wanna date me because he doesn't wanna hurt me. He said that he knows sooner or later he'll ditch me for another woman. He's the kinda man who feels trapped if he hears the word "Commitment" and just wanna have fun.
Yet, he talks to another girl and he wanna date her, because he said, that it's ok if he ditch her for another girl later but still wanna see where life take them together

Should I see it as he truly cares about me and he's trying to save me from getting hurt?
Or just some hint as he's not into me and just a way to not hurt my feelings?

(Yes, I'm the naive and stupid kind. I have a hard time understanding hints sometimes)

He's warning you. He's telling you who he is. You should really consider just moving on.

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Bingo! He's a player, and a loser. Move on while you can. Consider it a blessing that at least the guy told you who and what he is up front. Take this experience and remember it. It may come in handy a few more times when you think you really like a guy and you believe it's mutual. Guys aren't like women. If he's telling you early on he loves you, he doesn't. Women get caught up into words....we need to hear them to believe. Guys, OTOH, are all about actions. And he's already told you point blank what his actions will be.