Sooo, there's this Aries guy....

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geminidream
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12 YearsGemini

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We are friends, that enjoy benefits with each other. And not any one else. Have been enjoying each other for a couple months now.

I like our current situation, mostly, but maybe I would like more. Maybe. I am debating if I want to actually date him. I dunno if he wants to date me or not, I haven't asked. lol We both are super outgoing, except with each other. We both are ridiculously shy with each other. Both of us 38 years old and you'd think we were still in junior high. It is frustrating.

After a rough end with my ex Scorpio, I am VERY hesitant about getting involved in a relationship. I'm trying to be 'proactive' this time around. And yes, very heart protective.

So, any suggestions, tips or thoughts about an Aries guy and a Gemini gal? I've seen some posts that say the signs are good together. We do laugh a LOT, have fun together and the sex is very nice. 😉 But, I'm talking dating, being a couple, yadda, yadda, yadda. lol

Could I fall for him if I allow myself to? Uhhh, yep. But would it be best to keep him at a distance? Just keep him in the 'friends with benefits zone' until something else comes along. (Lord have mercy that sounds really bad =/ )

I've admittedly been hot & cold with him. But, he has been too. Opens up, then radio silence for a couple days.

Is there a way to use our charts to help guide me in deciding what to do with this potential/maybe/kinda relationship?

I'm a bit too new to know what info y'all would need from our charts, other than the basic 3 things I keep seeing posted in other threads, so I can offer that:

Me:
Sun-Gemini
Moon-Sagittarius
Venus-Cancer

Him:
Sun-Aries
Moon-Capricorn
Venus-Taurus

I do have both charts, so if something else is needed, I could post it.

Thanks in advance for your thoughts/suggestions =)