Hi everybody, I posted a few weeks ago asking for advice about a Capricorn man I had been seeing again after 20 years. The post was called "can you all advise on this Cap man please?" and If you want my full story, just go back to that post. Anyway, He dumped me by way of a Text message 6 weeks ago and I STILL can't get over him. I tried to text him about 10 days after it happened to tell him I missed him, and he was actually responding to that text, but he deleted his response before he sent it, so I have no idea what he was going to tell me. He ignored the other text I sent that same night, so I gave up and havent tried to talk to him since. That was 4 weeks ago and I keep going back and forth in my mind between "dang, I never really knew him at all. Everything he told me was complete BS and I fell for it" to wanting to try to call him or even driving the two hours to where he lives to tell him to his face how much his dissappearing act hurt me. I'm not as much of a wreck as when it first happened. I'm okay now during the day and I have been going out with my friends like normal, but at night I get very sad. So should I tell him to his face how I feel or just give myself more time? I've been pretty strong about not contacting him so far, and listening to logic, but my heart is saying the exact opposite. Are any of you as crazy as I am and if yes, what the hell do I do? Thanks in advance.
UGH!! HELP GEMS!! I just can't forget about him...

I know you are hurting right now but no do not go there or contact him again. You'll just get aggravated at yourself later. He knows how to contact you if he desires. Continue to go out and enjoy yourself. Do things that are new to you. I have a girlfriend who just started doing Salsa dance on the weekends and loves it. Something new and out of her element to get her through a very emotional time.

I agree about not contacting him. What he did to you doesn't sit right. He broke up BY TEXT?? Not even enough balls and respect to look you in the eye and give an explanation? I'm pissed! He doesn't deserve to hear from you or get any more of your energy.

Posted by moodyone31
Hi everybody, I posted a few weeks ago asking for advice about a Capricorn man I had been seeing again after 20 years. The post was called "can you all advise on this Cap man please?" and If you want my full story, just go back to that post. Anyway, He dumped me by way of a Text message 6 weeks ago and I STILL can't get over him. I tried to text him about 10 days after it happened to tell him I missed him, and he was actually responding to that text, but he deleted his response before he sent it, so I have no idea what he was going to tell me. He ignored the other text I sent that same night, so I gave up and havent tried to talk to him since. That was 4 weeks ago and I keep going back and forth in my mind between "dang, I never really knew him at all. Everything he told me was complete BS and I fell for it" to wanting to try to call him or even driving the two hours to where he lives to tell him to his face how much his dissappearing act hurt me. I'm not as much of a wreck as when it first happened. I'm okay now during the day and I have been going out with my friends like normal, but at night I get very sad. So should I tell him to his face how I feel or just give myself more time? I've been pretty strong about not contacting him so far, and listening to logic, but my heart is saying the exact opposite. Are any of you as crazy as I am and if yes, what the hell do I do? Thanks in advance.
I believe that a man that doesn't tell you face to face what his intentions are is a coward...no cojones..breaking up thru text? Really Who does that? I now how your Gem mind is working..believe me I know...Taurus/Gem cusp here..I usually follow my heart BUT this time in your case I say..You need to let go...This guy doesn't deserve you. Move on..I'm sure you have admirers all over the place to entertain you..all Gems do😉 You will find someone worthy of your love.
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