Venus in Gemini with Venus in Aquarius

Any experience anyone? There's this guy and he has his Venus and Mars in Aquarius.I am Venus Gemini/Mars Aries.

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Music to my ears! The two most infamous Venuses together in love. Awww.....

No complains so far from my Gem Venus/ Aries Mars, during 18 months relationship. Although he said I was VERY different from every woman he ever dated.

Hi, I am currently in a relationship with a Venus Aquarius man (predominantly Aqua, incidentally). I'm a Venus gemini female. You'd think I would get him, because of the air. I see that he is very detached, to the point where he is blindsided if I mention that I don't feel fulfilled in our relationship. He's completely out of touch with how much time we spend APART. I don't own him, but relationships do have some sort of obligation, where he doesn't seem to want to yield to. He wants to just pick up where we left off, even if it's been two weeks with little contact.

They say that Aquarius can communicate telepathically. I have been getting strong feelings that my Aqua guy is pulling away from me, and just waiting for me to dump him.

Does anyone have any experience how a Venus Aqua would break up with some one?

Thanks for the insights everyone 🙂

Me and this aqua guy have this undefined relationship, we're not committed, we're not friends, we're not enemies, we're not strangers, we're just two people who have/had an attraction for each other, still talk for hours but are still not friends? none of us wants to get committed...maybe its because of my Virgo Moon and his Aquarius Moon,dunno :/ He is an Aqua stellium and I have Gemini my ruling planet.

Posted by kthxbye1223
Hi, I am currently in a relationship with a Venus Aquarius man (predominantly Aqua, incidentally). I'm a Venus gemini female. You'd think I would get him, because of the air. I see that he is very detached, to the point where he is blindsided if I mention that I don't feel fulfilled in our relationship. He's completely out of touch with how much time we spend APART. I don't own him, but relationships do have some sort of obligation, where he doesn't seem to want to yield to. He wants to just pick up where we left off, even if it's been two weeks with little contact.

They say that Aquarius can communicate telepathically. I have been getting strong feelings that my Aqua guy is pulling away from me, and just waiting for me to dump him.

Does anyone have any experience how a Venus Aqua would break up with some one?

Well,aquas do tend to pick up from where they left,no matter how much time has much,but it is a good thing,isn't it?Although I know what you feel bad about is him going weeks without much contact? What are your and his other placements?

*ruling sign,Mercury ruling planet.

ilovemyaqua:

thanks for the reply.

Hes Aqua sun, venus, mercury.
Leo Moon
Mars in Libra

I'm
Aries sun and merc

What would be some tell tale signs that he's just stringing me along?

Posted by Phantom
I dated a Venus in Gemini for 5 years, we got along like two peas in a pod most of the time. He was a lot more possessive over the relationship than I was though, apparently that's a common complaint with us Venus in Aquarius folks- just real standoffish or cold in love/relationships. Don't take it as we don't care, because we really do. We're just really bad at showing it.

Thanks 🙂 you know,being Gemini dominant, I looovvee to talk,he on the other hand,abstains from talking over the phone although he will talk for a couple of hours twice or thrice a week,but because all that which has happened between us,we have more of an unnamed relationship.What does,this mean for a Venus in Aquarius, you know,being very rude at times and a real darling other times?

Posted by kthxbye1223
ilovemyaqua:

thanks for the reply.

Hes Aqua sun, venus, mercury.
Leo Moon
Mars in Libra

I'm
Aries sun and merc

What would be some tell tale signs that he's just stringing me along?

Wish I knew.lol.this aqua guy and I are not in a relationship,we just have something, God knows what :/ well,I wouldn't really know about the red flags because I don't know what's happening between us,you see,talking, not talking,liking,not liking, strangers, enemies, friends,so I really don't know when you should know he's stringing you along. :/ hmm,Maybe someone with Venus in Aquarius should know?

Any experience?How did you bond? What caused differences? Who was more invested emotionally? How did you deal with the infamous aqua distancing act?How long did it last?

Question to you... If you're dating/talking to a Venus in Aqua... What's it like for you?

Posted by littlemegabyte
ViG (me) experience with a ViA male... He was colder than a witches tit in a brass bra lol. I was definitely the more attached one in this relationship, and this is coming from a Gem sun/Cap moon. We had double sun and moon conjunctions with my Venus in Gem trine his Venus in Aqua, and my Mars in Cancer trine his Mars in Scorpio, BOTH with leo rising lol. Absolutely insane sexual chemistry, but it seemed like he was too distance and focused on his career (typical cap) for anything deeper. He lived a life of solitude, saw his parents and friends less than me, living out in the country all alone. We understood each other very deeply, so I understood his need for space, even though it hurt me sometimes. It lasted about a year and then he moved away without telling me and I haven't seen or spoke to him since.

I'm a Aquarius Venus ... Question. Did you find yourself attracted to him in a way you couldn't understand or explain?

Just out of a relationship with an Aqua Venus man.
I think he was just as invested as I was, but his ability to compartmentalise his emotions meant things were left unsaid, that should have been brought to the forefront.
We established intimacy if you like through friendship first. It was important to him that we were best friends first and lovers second.
His Capricorn nature also regarded us as partners in other ways, financially etc but his Venus was perfectly fine to me.
I liked the approach he had, it was never cold or distant like the myths say. Just very self contained.

I'm not averse to another VA if it comes around.

Posted by Ilovemyaqua
Any experience?How did you bond? What caused differences? Who was more invested emotionally? How did you deal with the infamous aqua distancing act?How long did it last?

He's aqua venus, I'm gem venus.

We bonded easily over throwing it all on the table and discussing our likes/dislikes.

We're both emotionally invested... Despite our venus', we still feel.

There isn't any distancing act. It's been 4 1/2 years. We married in march and still going strong. 🙂

Posted by arose32
Question to you... If you're dating/talking to a Venus in Aqua... What's it like for you?

Well,I feel that there's something that connects us,it's unexplainable,but there's something that pulls us together.Also,I like the fact that he's quirky because I too like doing things differently, I get bored with monotony and hence look to do things differently and he's usually in it with me which is why I like being with him,however, I feel that although he is more romantic than me,I find myself more emotionally vested in it than him because I can't distance myself as often as he does.

Posted by littlemegabyte
ViG (me) experience with a ViA male... He was colder than a witches tit in a brass bra lol. I was definitely the more attached one in this relationship, and this is coming from a Gem sun/Cap moon. We had double sun and moon conjunctions with my Venus in Gem trine his Venus in Aqua, and my Mars in Cancer trine his Mars in Scorpio, BOTH with leo rising lol. Absolutely insane sexual chemistry, but it seemed like he was too distance and focused on his career (typical cap) for anything deeper. He lived a life of solitude, saw his parents and friends less than me, living out in the country all alone. We understood each other very deeply, so I understood his need for space, even though it hurt me sometimes. It lasted about a year and then he moved away without telling me and I haven't seen or spoke to him since.

Oh,that's sad and I can so relate.In my case too,I'm perhaps the more attached one,chemistry being great.He however doesn't want me to get serious about him,although he's confessed so much to me,shows such care,he backed off when he asked me if I was getting serious about him and I replied in positive.He's taken a break of late and it's been more than a week now.For how long did he usually distance himself?

I've distanced myself before from the person I dated for two months.... And I have before for months before. When I'm backing off, I'm thinking about them constantly no doubt about it. And I miss them... Until after a while, I can wake up and be like oh okay. That feeling is gone; I hope whoever they talk to next treats them like a jewel. I'm also very content and not in denial about the people I have feelings for talking to other people. It's crazy because no matter how much I care, I still give them major freedom.. My friend is like how do you do that? Lol...


I also feel like I can love two people at the same time, the same amount.... But for different reasons. And the girls I talk to doesn't understand at all.... Like I care so much, my loving techniques are just strange I guess.

Yeah. I understand.... My girls always say "it's not fair... You think you can do whatever huh. No matter what I'm supposed to answer the phone for you" and I truly be bothered when I come back and they be mad at me .... But I am learning that women can not stand the disappearing act. At all.. None whatsoever. So I'm trying to fix that... But at this point, I'm focusing on my brand I'm building, getting financially stable, and moving up. Then I think I'll be able to focus on talking to someone consistently.

Posted by arose32
I've distanced myself before from the person I dated for two months.... And I have before for months before. When I'm backing off, I'm thinking about them constantly no doubt about it. And I miss them... Until after a while, I can wake up and be like oh okay. That feeling is gone; I hope whoever they talk to next treats them like a jewel. I'm also very content and not in denial about the people I have feelings for talking to other people. It's crazy because no matter how much I care, I still give them major freedom.. My friend is like how do you do that? Lol...


I also feel like I can love two people at the same time, the same amount.... But for different reasons. And the girls I talk to doesn't understand at all.... Like I care so much, my loving techniques are just strange I guess.

Two questions-
One-In my case,he said he needs a break every now and then,and as of present,he said he needed a break for a month.Is that so because he wants to evaluate whatever has happened and then decide to just be friends or continue with the relationship or is it that he's already decided to continue as friends and he needs a break to get him to that thought?
Two-Do you people distance yourself even in relationships because you've lately been overwhelmed with feelings or you've got bored with too much contact and need time to miss your SO.

Posted by littlemegabyte
Yea, that sounds exactly like my experience unfortunately, it was hurtful. What I have learned with that and so many other things - take what he says for what it is. It may *seem* like he has feelings, shared his thoughts/dreams, and shared intimacy on some occasions, but what he is outright saying is more important. Strangely enough, I told mine I was falling for him, and he got closer, he invited me over I think 3 times that week (which was really odd !). I even told him I loved him eventually, to which he response "well I'm glad." Ouch right..... He just couldn't go there. Oh well, I have since moved on, you can't force a guy to be ready or to like you. I had a lot to offer and when he moved away without telling me, it was kinda like disrespectful I felt, I deserved to have been notified even though we hadnt spoke in months. Especially bc he had my favorite necklace and never gave it back to me even though I told him multiple times I would like it back 😢

Oh and the distancing... months at a time even... sometimes I would not hear for up to 2 months. He even said about himself "I disappear, but I will come back like a slow boomerang" lol

Well,as far as I know aquas,if they have something of yours(like my has presently) they view it as a way to initate a meet or a convo.So,you asking for it,in his head, gets interpreted as having some sort of interaction with you (and not that he should give it to you because it is your fav necklace) which he wants to avoid and is hence not giving it back to you.How long has it been since he moved?

*initiate

Posted by littlemegabyte

Posted by Ilovemyaqua

Posted by littlemegabyte
Yea, that sounds exactly like my experience unfortunately, it was hurtful. What I have learned with that and so many other things - take what he says for what it is. It may *seem* like he has feelings, shared his thoughts/dreams, and shared intimacy on some occasions, but what he is outright saying is more important. Strangely enough, I told mine I was falling for him, and he got closer, he invited me over I think 3 times that week (which was really odd !). I even told him I loved him eventually, to which he response "well I'm glad." Ouch right..... He just couldn't go there. Oh well, I have since moved on, you can't force a guy to be ready or to like you. I had a lot to offer and when he moved away without telling me, it was kinda like disrespectful I felt, I deserved to have been notified even though we hadnt spoke in months. Especially bc he had my favorite necklace and never gave it back to me even though I told him multiple times I would like it back 😢

Oh and the distancing... months at a time even... sometimes I would not hear for up to 2 months. He even said about himself "I disappear, but I will come back like a slow boomerang" lol

Well,as far as I know aquas,if they have something of yours(like my has presently) they view it as a way to initate a meet or a convo.So,you asking for it,in his head, gets interpreted as having some sort of interaction with you (and not that he should give it to you because it is your fav necklace) which he wants to avoid and is hence not giving it back to you.How long has it been since he moved?

Ohhh, he's moved away at the beginning of the summer, I had tried to retrieve the necklace way before he moved randomly out of state to no avail. I even told him he could just leave it under my doormat because I don't live too far away and to avoid the interaction and he never did! It was just odd.

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Well,the behaviour is similar to my aqua.He once had my hard disk which I had been asking him for quite sometime.I told him he coul give it to me in college (because I thought he didn't want to meet) but he just didn't until one day,when he came right at my door without informing and he was happy as ever.Also,a few years back when he didn't want to talk to me forever and he had to return my book,he gave it to a friend of mine.See? It all depends on how he wants to use this opportunity, to talk or not to talk.I don't want to give you false hopes but based on my experience, he may not be returning your necklace because perhaps he's still in the contemplation phase,maybe he's not yet decided if he's ready to talk or move on.Currently, my aqua h

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Currently, my aqua has a book of mine which he very well knows I need but is doing nothing about it.I'm assuming he too is in his contemplation phase because I've noticed, when aquas are unsure,they're very careful with the way they talk to you next because according to them,it's perhaps a signal how they'll want to carry forward with the relationship.

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Posted by arose32
I've distanced myself before from the person I dated for two months.... And I have before for months before. When I'm backing off, I'm thinking about them constantly no doubt about it. And I miss them... Until after a while, I can wake up and be like oh okay. That feeling is gone; I hope whoever they talk to next treats them like a jewel. I'm also very content and not in denial about the people I have feelings for talking to other people. It's crazy because no matter how much I care, I still give them major freedom.. My friend is like how do you do that? Lol...


I also feel like I can love two people at the same time, the same amount.... But for different reasons. And the girls I talk to doesn't understand at all.... Like I care so much, my loving techniques are just strange I guess.

Two questions-
One-In my case,he said he needs a break every now and then,and as of present,he said he needed a break for a month.Is that so because he wants to evaluate whatever has happened and then decide to just be friends or continue with the relationship or is it that he's already decided to continue as friends and he needs a break to get him to that thought?
Two-Do you people distance yourself even in relationships because you've lately been overwhelmed with feelings or you've got bored with too much contact and need time to miss your SO.

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I retreat when I'm feeling hurt no doubt about it .... If my pride is hurt, I have to retreat.... And yes... Sometimes I become distant when I feel my balance isn't there or I have something else more important....

And majority of the time, my feelings don't change ... It's like I don't love with my heart, but with my mind for real.... I think myself into loving someone lol. Because I love everything with my heart, no doubt about it. I still don't understand the feeling between being in love and having love... But I can warn you: if we decide to stop the distance we can be clingy and a little unbalanced and that's scary. Our emotions can run over... So we keep them under control...

Awww...of course they are compatible. The two black sheep of the Venus world. Misfits should stick together 🙂.

Anyway, I love a Gem Venus. Should I be worried about Gem Venus being mutable, hence fickle? His track record shows that he could be in long term relationships. He is a rational man, although he understands emotions as well as I do, for example when he analyses his son's moods.

Being in love is just another mood. As long as we think we are an excellent match for each other, the moods don't play a big role. They come and go and keep us entertained. Our personality and behaviour is what matters.