Weird Gemini - making the effort not to stare?

This topic was created in the Gemini forum by CiaraJ on Monday, August 3, 2015 and has 12 replies.

Understanding Gemini Behavior and Eye Contact

Gemini individuals can be playful and curious, often showing interest through eye contact. Their efforts to avoid staring may indicate discomfort, a change in feelings, or a desire to respect boundaries. It's important to communicate directly to understand his intentions rather than making assumptions based on behavior alone.

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@CiaraJ
11 Years

So guys, long story, sit and enjoy ๐Ÿ™‚

4 months ago this new guys started in the office and could not stop staring at me. I played along, even though I had a boyfriend.

Some weeks ago we went (office people) for drinks and we sat side by side. I still had a boyfriend at the time so all I could do was play along with his jokes, stare back and make sure I was 'extra' nice to him.

Office behavior was 'normal' till last week when I noticed he is making the effort of not staring at me. We spoke a couple of times and all seemed normal.. today his effort was absurd to avoid my eyes... he turned his whole head to avoid it...
The strange behavior started before he knew I had broken up, so I just dont understand.

Am I old news or is this a game?

Any advice?
Thanks!

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@CiaraJ
11 Years

Now that I am free I am doing my best hehe let's see how the game goes ๐Ÿ™‚
All advices are welcome!

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@CiaraJ
11 Years

Well, today he confirmed to me he did not know I had broken up.

I made a 'move' and innocently asked him to come along with a few coworkers and have lunch.

He was pretty flirty all day long - again - ๐Ÿ™‚ You gemini guys are quite addictive. I think he's seeing someone at the moment but he says 'he's having fun only'.
I dont want to make a 'second' move and ask him for a drink or whatever - do you think he will?

And BTW, I did not break up because of him - I met him in the middle of the thing actually.

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@gemguyaz34
11 Years500+ PostsGemini

Posted by CiaraJ
Well, today he confirmed to me he did not know I had broken up.

I made a 'move' and innocently asked him to come along with a few coworkers and have lunch.

He was pretty flirty all day long - again - ๐Ÿ™‚ You gemini guys are quite addictive. I think he's seeing someone at the moment but he says 'he's having fun only'.
I dont want to make a 'second' move and ask him for a drink or whatever - do you think he will?

And BTW, I did not break up because of him - I met him in the middle of the thing actually.

No need to rush. Keep it light and see what he does.

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@CiaraJ
11 Years

Hey guys,

Just wondering if now that he knows I am free and it and it's recent, if he could feel 'respectful' towards my break up.

Would a Gem wait for my openess and wait to be 'embraced' in order not to be rejected?

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@CiaraJ
11 Years

Being honest I would say yes to whatever he suggested.
I am just worried he will wait for me to get closer in order to make a move so he doesnt look 'too rushy'.

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@CiaraJ
11 Years

Alright, he's definately mirroring my behavior.
If I dont look back once, he will avoid my eyes 'til I make eye contact again.
It's all pretty exciting but I am afraid of scaring him.