When you're interested in someone

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xxixxi
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how do you act?/or how do you let them know you've interests in them?

My case:

1) You're the first person with whom I share any news, anything interesting I found/stumbled on today, or the previous day or whatever. You constantly get sort of newsfeed from me. You're the most contacted person of the day.., or the week... or the month. (I guess this probably has something to do with me being a gemini and having mercury in gemini? Communication is a must?)
So if you haven't been receiving any texts, messages or phone calls from me, then consider that I'm no way interested in you.

2) You're asked lots of questions - and those questions are not phone numbers, what your name is, where you're from or live currently, what your email address is or your facebook or your twitter or something, whatever similar to it... those don't tell me what kind of a person you really are. I ask you questions like 'so what you do think of... X or Y or Z... etc. etc?' 'what do you like/dislike X or Y or Z?' 'And why like/dislike them?' and such.
So if you've never been asked by me such questions then also consider that I've no interests in you.

3) I just straight up tell you that I'm interested in you - most times I would just say what I feel about you. So if I'm interested in you, then you'll hear from me - sooner or later. And I don't/wouldn't/haven't say/said I'm interested in someone when I am actually not... never, ever - so if you hear me saying 'I'm interested in you/attracted to you/or I like you,' then have no doubt, because there's no need!
So if you never hear those lines from me at all, then take that as it is - there's nothing more to read into. I don't play any games, play hard to get - no, not at all.
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Posted by xxixxi
how do you act?/or how do you let them know you've interests in them?

My case:

1) You're the first person with whom I share any news, anything interesting I found/stumbled on today, or the previous day or whatever. You constantly get sort of newsfeed from me. You're the most contacted person of the day.., or the week... or the month. (I guess this probably has something to do with me being a gemini and having mercury in gemini? Communication is a must?)
So if you haven't been receiving any texts, messages or phone calls from me, then consider that I'm no way interested in you.

2) You're asked lots of questions - and those questions are not phone numbers, what your name is, where you're from or live currently, what your email address is or your facebook or your twitter or something, whatever similar to it... those don't tell me what kind of a person you really are. I ask you questions like 'so what you do think of... X or Y or Z... etc. etc?' 'what do you like/dislike X or Y or Z?' 'And why like/dislike them?' and such.
So if you've never been asked by me such questions then also consider that I've no interests in you.

3) I just straight up tell you that I'm interested in you - most times I would just say what I feel about you. So if I'm interested in you, then you'll hear from me - sooner or later. And I don't/wouldn't/haven't say/said I'm interested in someone when I am actually not... never, ever - so if you hear me saying 'I'm interested in you/attracted to you/or I like you,' then have no doubt, because there's no need!
So if you never hear those lines from me at all, then take that as it is - there's nothing more to read into. I don't play any games, play hard to get - no, not at all.

pretty much exactly how it goes : P
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wineauxisback
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depends on the sign that i'm attracted to...i mirror them. with crabs, i'm totally indirect and play the shy card. they're also the only ones that can turn me into a twitterpainted hot mess. enter introverted twin.

leos/aries/scorps/libras, i'm direct as fork. because i can be and they like it. enter extroverted twin.

and then i also cosign with xxixxi in following those steps as well.
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Posted by Brandonkade
Posted by xxixxi
how do you act?/or how do you let them know you've interests in them?

My case:

1) You're the first person with whom I share any news, anything interesting I found/stumbled on today, or the previous day or whatever. You constantly get sort of newsfeed from me. You're the most contacted person of the day.., or the week... or the month. (I guess this probably has something to do with me being a gemini and having mercury in gemini? Communication is a must?)
So if you haven't been receiving any texts, messages or phone calls from me, then consider that I'm no way interested in you.

2) You're asked lots of questions - and those questions are not phone numbers, what your name is, where you're from or live currently, what your email address is or your facebook or your twitter or something, whatever similar to it... those don't tell me what kind of a person you really are. I ask you questions like 'so what you do think of... X or Y or Z... etc. etc?' 'what do you like/dislike X or Y or Z?' 'And why like/dislike them?' and such.
So if you've never been asked by me such questions then also consider that I've no interests in you.

3) I just straight up tell you that I'm interested in you - most times I would just say what I feel about you. So if I'm interested in you, then you'll hear from me - sooner or later. And I don't/wouldn't/haven't say/said I'm interested in someone when I am actually not... never, ever - so if you hear me saying 'I'm interested in you/attracted to you/or I like you,' then have no doubt, because there's no need!
So if you never hear those lines from me at all, then take that as it is - there's nothing more to read into. I don't play any games, play hard to get - no, not at all.

pretty much exactly how it goes : P
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EXACTLY how it goes! What Whimsy said is also point on! I am a big one on saying stupid things which im just like WTF did i just say afterward AND smiling like an idiot.
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Posted by xygeneration
My hands get clammy and my stomach turns

Depending on who it is I can be straightforward or completely shy



Used to be.

Posted by xxixxi
how do you act?/or how do you let them know you've interests in them?

1) You're the first person with whom I share any news, anything interesting I found/stumbled on today, or the previous day or whatever. You constantly get sort of newsfeed from me. You're the most contacted person of the day.., or the week... or the month.

2) You're asked lots of questions - and those questions are not phone numbers, what your name is, where you're from or live currently, what your email address is or your facebook or your twitter or something, whatever similar to it... those don't tell me what kind of a person you really are. I ask you questions like 'so what you do think of... X or Y or Z... etc. etc?' 'what do you like/dislike X or Y or Z?' 'And why like/dislike them?' and such.

3) I just straight up tell you that I'm interested in you - most times I would just say what I feel about you. So if I'm interested in you, then you'll hear from me - sooner or later. And I don't/wouldn't/haven't say/said I'm interested in someone when I am actually not... never, ever - so if you hear me saying 'I'm interested in you/attracted to you/or I like you,' then have no doubt, because there's no need!
So if you never hear those lines from me at all, then take that as it is - there's nothing more to read into. I don't play any games, play hard to get - no, not at all.
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Now it's this, and in THIS ORDER, if steps 1 and 2 get no results. Well, okay, 1 and 2 might be interchanged a bit.

What causes this in someone who has NO GEMINI?? 😄 Is it like my dog who has 5 breeds, none of them German Shepherd or Husky, yet somehow all the mixing resembles both so much everyone thinks she's one or the other?
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Xin
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Posted by ConfusedScorpio
I met two Geminis who were literally crazy. They told me they had a crush on me after a week. They told me they loved me after one month, it freak me out so much. Those two relationships didn't last. They came on way too strong. You can't love a person after one month not even after 5 months. They were plain delusional.

Also, they blow your phone up if they're interested. Al the "interested" Geminis I met were quite clingy.



Uhhhh lol! Must have had some water placements. Because hell clingy is the farthest word from my vocab. If anything I try to get away from water signs and their iron grip. LOL!

I don't tell people I have a crush on them it's pretty obvious because I act like a total schlub! UH! It annoys the shit out of me. I get all wide-eyed like a preteen girl seeing her celebrity boy band crush, start babbling about all kinds of things, asking tons of questions, giggling. Then my VIII house opens up after the initial meet and I poke fun at them A LOT. Not just a little but I really try to trump them if they are sarcastic Ill go right back. So stupid! UHH!