Will a Gemini man come back?

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My Gemini man and I were in a relationship for a while and things were quite good. We were having marriage talks with our family and even two days back he said he would come and talk to my family if there was an issue. But today he says he is not ready and I have to move on.. I dont know what to do and why he is doing this..

I thought I would give him some time and space.. But I am also afraid if he will think that I moved on and wont get back to me.. What should I do to get back my gemini man?
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Posted by blissscorpio

We were having marriage talks with our family .....




Obviously, it was all you talking marriage .... but, you can't handle not getting what you want, especially with all of the trickery you likely did to him to try and twist him into performing. So, you came here and tried to trick us by using the word "we", to imply he's agreeable.

....... because that is how manipulators operate.

And we know this to be true by virtue of his actions - which deny his cooperation in your plan of deception.
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Posted by blissscorpio
My Gemini man and I were in a relationship for a while and things were quite good. We were having marriage talks with our family and even two days back he said he would come and talk to my family if there was an issue. But today he says he is not ready and I have to move on.. I dont know what to do and why he is doing this..

I thought I would give him some time and space.. But I am also afraid if he will think that I moved on and wont get back to me.. What should I do to get back my gemini man?
Why would you want to stay where you're not wanted? How are you at accepting rejection? Here's a scenario for you that just happened last Saturday (and YES, we 51 year olds go to the clubs, too. Heck! I'm not conceited, but look at my pic! I STILL get carded). Sorry, had to post that for TROLLS out there.

I was at the bar waiting for girlfriends and a guy asked me to dance (mind you, it was 20 minutes before the club closed and last call was announced). Guy says, "Are you here with your girlfriends?"

Yes, I said.

Would you like to dance? I'm not very good at dancing, he says. He puts down his drink near where his friend his friend's girlfriend were (mind you, they were DRUNK as skunks). He talks to his buddy and his buddy was doing the majority of the talking (about 15-20 seconds). Guy comes back and tells me, "I gotta go to the men's room". He takes the norm and I kept looking back at his buddy and his girlfriend. Guy never came back to where I was at the bar.

My STRONG 6th sense told me: His friend told him NOT to dance nor talk to me. Fine. I don't stay where I'm NOT wanted. I hugged my girlfriend good bye and I walked outta the club. If, IF, the guy was THAT interested in me, he would have followed me out to the parking lot to talk to me; but guess what? He didn't.

I don't like guys that don't have a SET of balls. If he were a "gentleman" he would have told off his friend and danced with me. It was JUST a dance and NOT a proposal of marriage. 😕

Love,

Eva



PS: No, he won't come back.
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Posted by blissscorpio
My Gemini man and I were in a relationship for a while and things were quite good. We were having marriage talks with our family and even two days back he said he would come and talk to my family if there was an issue. But today he says he is not ready and I have to move on.. I dont know what to do and why he is doing this..

I thought I would give him some time and space.. But I am also afraid if he will think that I moved on and wont get back to me.. What should I do to get back my gemini man?
How old is this guy? How long have you two been together?
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Posted by blissscorpio

We were having marriage talks with our family .....




Obviously, it was all you talking marriage .... but, you can't handle not getting what you want, especially with all of the trickery you likely did to him to try and twist him into performing. So, you came here and tried to trick us by using the word "we", to imply he's agreeable.

....... because that is how manipulators operate.

And we know this to be true by virtue of his actions - which deny his cooperation in your plan of deception.
Damn.....this shit I'm smoking can't be that good shit that was deep
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Nah I'm just convinced she has multiple templates for this kinda stuff Š
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Posted by blissscorpio
My Gemini man and I were in a relationship for a while and things were quite good. We were having marriage talks with our family and even two days back he said he would come and talk to my family if there was an issue. But today he says he is not ready and I have to move on.. I dont know what to do and why he is doing this..

I thought I would give him some time and space.. But I am also afraid if he will think that I moved on and wont get back to me.. What should I do to get back my gemini man?
This doesn't make sense...why would he go to your parents if there is a problem? Is your relationship arranged or something like that?