Dxp kinda boring

This topic was created in the How would you make this site better? forum by Sunsetvirgo on Sunday, June 24, 2018 and has 41 replies.

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Idk how y’all can fix this but uh Idk dxp has been kinda boring lately for me.

There aren’t that many topics that I wanna comment in bc they’re not really astrology related anymore or interesting

Maybe it’s bc I’ve been here for a while

Idk just my thoughts

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It was better when DXP was less personal

a lot of new age people talking about astrology and random stuff

Users didn't stay for long periods

nowadays it's more like a social media meme center

the same bunch of people squatting here for daily amusement

so it's become circular and stagnant

It's too late to go back to the old DXP

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Posted by hydorah
It was better when DXP was less personal
a lot of new age people talking about astrology and random stuff
Users didn't stay for long periods

nowadays it's more like a social media meme center
the same bunch of people squatting here for daily amusement
so it's become circular and stagnant

It's too late to go back to the old DXP

Yeah I miss when anon ppl would ask real questions or have actual astrology problems and we’d all comment and give advice

If I wanted to be on social media I’d just go on Instagram.

I’m just big bored

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Posted by Lioness888

Posted by Sunsetvirgo

Posted by Lioness888
Why didn't you make this topic astroligical and blame a particular sign for butterty topics?

Good thinking sis I’d probably get 0 comments

Lol. Blame it on an emotional sign. They'll get emotionally and comment emotionally. Or on a fire sign, they'll get agressive and be all like, wtf did you just say?

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I’ll do even better. Blame it on myself. Passive sun then aggressive moon and mars

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Posted by User_Name
The outer world is an a representation of your thoughts, feelings, and expectations pushed outward. If you want DXP to be better, rewrite the narrative, change your expectations. Buddha said,

"We are what we think.
All that we are arises with our thoughts.
With our thoughts we make the world."

If you don't believe that, then it's summer and people are going outside and doing things... getting some sun on their skin and forging happy memories. It'll pick up in the fall.

Until then, when in Rome...

Thank u so much dxp mindset coach

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Posted by Lioness888

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Posted by Lioness888
Why didn't you make this topic astroligical and blame a particular sign for butterty topics?

Good thinking sis I’d probably get 0 comments

Lol. Blame it on an emotional sign. They'll get emotionally and comment emotionally. Or on a fire sign, they'll get agressive and be all like, wtf did you just say?

I’ll do even better. Blame it on myself. Passive sun then aggressive moon and mars

Lol how are you going to get mad and debate yourself on here?

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Not sure yet but I’m sure I’ll get tons of replies

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Posted by Lala1393

Posted by Lioness888
Why didn't you make this topic astroligical and blame a particular sign for butterty topics?

Op would have said Scorpio. Then it would have turned into a mess. But I understand what OP and the rest are saying. Even if I'm probably one of the people ruining DXP and how it used to be when I was just a lurker and way too young to join.

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Nah I’d blame Capricorn’s bc they’re headassery Is never justifiable

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Oh also I don’t really like being in other signs forums bc I usually don’t have much advice unless Virgo is involved but Virgo forum ded 25/8 and its only questions about Virgo men so lol can’t relate

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Is it a bad idea to randomly sext my ex?

I’m horny...

Advice?

Yeah sis. Unless you’re tryna get some dick then 🤷🏽‍♀️

Always.... i mean, prolly won’t happen... but infeel like he should remember what he left behind.

Get cute lingerie and throw that ass back then sis¡! he’ll be back

Cap Venus... one tough cookie....

It’s not as easy as flashing my assets...

Gotta warm up the ‘ol mental penis first with witty banter and suggestive food videos (I don’t know why... we make food oddly sexual) then wait like two months before he decides his right hand isn’t good enough... then wait for him to offer us to hang out doing something not sexual.... maybe toss in a few selfies.... get together and pretend I have no intention of touching him.... wait until it’s time to go.... ATTACK

Soooo much work....

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Wait like two months?

Idk how y’all deal w/ cap placements

U have the patience of a saint

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Posted by Lala1393

Posted by Lioness888
Why didn't you make this topic astroligical and blame a particular sign for butterty topics?

Op would have said Scorpio. Then it would have turned into a mess. But I understand what OP and the rest are saying. Even if I'm probably one of the people ruining DXP and how it used to be when I was just a lurker and way too young to join.

Nah I’d blame Capricorn’s bc they’re headassery Is never justifiable

Pardon my lack of headassery for a second ...

Because I doubt very much that you're bored here. Like me, you are exhausted instead ... because ever since the site update, the place has been a real chore ... having to click "Reverse Order" in every. single. treetrunking. thread ... and if DXP is gonna feel like work, maybe we figure we might as well be at work making money instead of hanging around here making ourselves miserable trying to navigate this place anymore ... >

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Hmm probably both. But definitely bc I’m bored from the lack of actual astrological questions and need of advice. It ain’t like what it used to be

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Weird how I loved Leo men when I started dxp and throughout I’ve tried to convince myself that virgos best matches are actually Taurus cap and Scorp and now here I am back to Leo/fire sign men

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The general lack of astrology interest can be traced back to the fact that the majority of DXPers are single with a rather vanilla personal life. What are they supposed to ask about when there's no call for advice in the first place?

Try to get into a relationship with one of the same gender as you, or try to obtain the presumably unattainable. You'll have plenty to share Image Not Found

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Or become a hooker and terrorize the city you live in lol & come back with adventures to share.

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Posted by meraki
This happens to all social sites. Gotta adapt or just watch it fall apart

I’ll watch it burn apart unless an interesting topic comes up once in a blue moon. Until then tho

No more Gemitati.
No more CC.
No more Ands.
No more firebunny.
No more Shankz.
No more Ebonyjade.
No more guccigemini55.
No more gemini64.
No more Lostinthesauce.

Everybody is gone :/

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Rein deleted and edgelord is barely here. I don’t really see starwars that much either. I’m missing a lot Ik

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Posted by halalbae
It doesnt matter who comes and goes, its that most new users are about causing drama and making people feel bad about themselves and try to make a couple of people interested in them. They feed off drama and attention

Yeah like last week there was a whole thread between two ppl about drama bc one was telling false info about the other and I’m just like lmao y’all we on a whole astrology site wyd

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Posted by Jade_Alexander

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Posted by Jade_Alexander

Posted by Sunsetvirgo

Posted by Jade_Alexander

Posted by Sunsetvirgo

Posted by Jade_Alexander
Is it a bad idea to randomly sext my ex?

I’m horny...

Advice?

Yeah sis. Unless you’re tryna get some dick then 🤷🏽‍♀️

Always.... i mean, prolly won’t happen... but infeel like he should remember what he left behind.

Get cute lingerie and throw that ass back then sis¡! he’ll be back

Cap Venus... one tough cookie....

It’s not as easy as flashing my assets...

Gotta warm up the ‘ol mental penis first with witty banter and suggestive food videos (I don’t know why... we make food oddly sexual) then wait like two months before he decides his right hand isn’t good enough... then wait for him to offer us to hang out doing something not sexual.... maybe toss in a few selfies.... get together and pretend I have no intention of touching him.... wait until it’s time to go.... ATTACK

Soooo much work....

Wait like two months?
Idk how y’all deal w/ cap placements
U have the patience of a saint

Delayed satisfaction must be my kink

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Bless ur heart

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Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
The general lack of astrology interest can be traced back to the fact that the majority of DXPers are single with a rather vanilla personal life. What are they supposed to ask about when there's no call for advice in the first place?

Try to get into a relationship with one of the same gender as you, or try to obtain the presumably unattainable. You'll have plenty to share

Or become a hooker and terrorize the city you live in lol & come back with adventures to share.

I’ll keep those options in mind thx 😽

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Posted by halalbae

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It doesnt matter who comes and goes, its that most new users are about causing drama and making people feel bad about themselves and try to make a couple of people interested in them. They feed off drama and attention

Yeah like last week there was a whole thread between two ppl about drama bc one was telling false info about the other and I’m just like lmao y’all we on a whole astrology site wyd

Lol embarrassing, like log off? Go meditate

I bet you havent posted on the Aquarius, Taurus and sometimes Capricorn boards too much. Regulars in the comments thirsting after cyber deek. Starting a game of telephone with the guy they are thristing over or manipulating them to distort his narratives about you to mark their territory. All of that emotional labor for DMs from broke social media guys, yucky. Im good luv, enjoy

Scary hours lol. Eve shouldnt have ate that goddamn apple 😭

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LMFAOO I’m good luv, enjoy

I usually check on them simply bc I have nothing else to do on this site but ur right. The dick BETTER be good for all of this

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Posted by DeadInside
treetrunk i leave this is too boring, if i dont come back tell fknnerd i still mary her in 3 years.

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Wut. I said 30 if I'm still unmarried! And I agreed to that years ago. I cant believe he semi-remembers that lol.

another cap waiting on a virgo
they wait until you're in a relationship
that's when they start wooing you and butter

Smh, I'm not a good virgo to wait on. You could have so many other virgos! I'm marrying a taurus man or imma die tryin. And its gotta be the right taurus man. I told this one we shouldnt see each other anymore tonight...like I'm a lost cause dude.

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Wait u and Scorp aren’t together anymore? Where have I been-

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Posted by hydorah
It was better when DXP was less personal
a lot of new age people talking about astrology and random stuff
Users didn't stay for long periods

nowadays it's more like a social media meme center
the same bunch of people squatting here for daily amusement
so it's become circular and stagnant

It's too late to go back to the old DXP

Yeah I miss when anon ppl would ask real questions or have actual astrology problems and we’d all comment and give advice

If I wanted to be on social media I’d just go on Instagram.
I’m just big bored

No worries i will take your boredom in time ☕

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Thx man greatly appreciated

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Everyone can't just sit around and expect everyone else to be entertaining.

Only boring people get bored. Go make some controversy, or something entertaining.

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Posted by Soul
Everyone can't just sit around and expect everyone else to be entertaining.

Only boring people get bored. Go make some controversy, or something entertaining.

There’s plenty of entertainment. Or shall I say drama. No lack of it actually so that’s great but dxp is an astrology site.

I could sit here and ask a question about a sign and I’d get 3 replies while if I talked shit about someone I’d get over 300. Not really my forte tho so I’ll pass

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Posted by Sunsetvirgo

Posted by Soul
Everyone can't just sit around and expect everyone else to be entertaining.

Only boring people get bored. Go make some controversy, or something entertaining.

There’s plenty of entertainment. Or shall I say drama. No lack of it actually so that’s great but dxp is an astrology site.

I could sit here and ask a question about a sign and I’d get 3 replies while if I talked butter about someone I’d get over 300. Not really my forte tho so I’ll pass

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I understand that. In the beginning I came for the astrology. Then I stayed for the drama lol. Tbh I have more fun on discord with a close small crew then the actual site. Every now and then a good topic will come around though. It's unfortunate most astro topics are about relationships, or directed to one specific sign.