THE PEOPLE ON THIS SITE...

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nnerBeauty
@nnerBeauty
16 Years

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After posting a question, and Reading others questions and the responses...I feel as though this site would be better suited if people would focus on answering the question rather than berating peoples character. You can't judge people based on a question they post on a website so assuming things then making judgmental comments about the person doesn't really help now does it. That is just my observation based on a lot of topics and threads I've read. I know the world isn't filled with sunshine and rainbows but c'mon, can't we be a little nicer to each other?
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cappysweetie
@cappysweetie
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Hmmm,

The way someone presents themselves is completely up to them. Opinions are opinions, some are good and others are bad. Taking away freedom of speech won't make the site any better, it will in fact make it boring and people will not want to come.

It will be like chatting with robots if everyone had an even-temper. If someone says something you dont' like, just ignore. I've been insulted many times -- most of the time I don't know why lol -- but at the end of the day, those people don't matter, the ones that matter are the ones I am chatting with 🙂
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P-Angel
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nnerBeauty, if you are this sensitive, where you cannot handle the criticism of a Virgo .. which you went to Virgo board to ask a question, so you have to have known that Virgo's would come to answer ... if you cannot handle this quality in Virgo's, then what the fuck are you doing trying to play with one?


A Virgo saw you as a player ... another Virgo thought your testimony reminded him of a high-schooler ... if you cannot handle the heat, then I suggest you leave the kitchen.


You must be a Cancer.
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P-Angel
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Actually, I take that back .... you didn't post on Virgo board, you did on Relationship/Astrology board ... but, still, you were asking about Virgo's, and this hurting of your feelings came from Virgos as they assessed your character.


Seriously .. if you have no clue that your Virgo that you are interested in, is assessing your character according to everything you say or do .. then you need to be looking elsewhere.

Seriously .. if you have no clue that anybody/everybody you are interested in, is assessing your character according to everything you say or do .. then sorry about your bad luck.
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Arm a Gettin
@Arm a Gettin
16 Years

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you see it really. I like that this forum has no moderators and that the admin is very laissez-faire because it allows for more freedom of speech. At the same time, this lack of moderation from the administrator puts the control into the users' hands as to who they want to ignore or what threads they want to flag; which I think makes this forum very unique from a lot of the other ones I've visited. What I don't like is that unlike the rest of the forums I've been to, some of you strive on creating drama for yourselves. It's almost as if some of you pick fights and get riled up because you're bored with your inevitably mundane lives. There's other things besides drama that can be exciting you know.

Posted by cappysweetie


The way someone presents themselves is completely up to them. Opinions are opinions, some are good and others are bad. Taking away freedom of speech won't make the site any better, it will in fact make it boring and people will not want to come.



I agree with that point.

Posted by cappysweetie

It will be like chatting with robots if everyone had an even-temper. If someone says something you dont' like, just ignore. I've been insulted many times -- most of the time I don't know why lol -- but at the end of the day, those people don't matter, the ones that matter are the ones I am chatting with 🙂
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Not really. I've been to various other forums and all of those forums have been moderated. Many of the forum goers were cordial and mature. Even when they didn't agree with people, most of them were not assholes about it. Most handled debates in a mature matter and had facts to back up their stance like a debate is supposed to have. Those that couldn't keep trolling on about nothing were banned after several warnings of their disrespectful behavior so the rest of the forum goers could go on having a barrage of interesting discussions.
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Arm a Gettin
@Arm a Gettin
16 Years

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LOL! Omgawsh, it's so easy to get to you. The only reason I saw the above comment is because I was logged out. She's still on my ignore list for now. At least until she learns to behave like a good little girl er... old woman. If there is anything I can say to you further, missy, it is that you need to take your own advice and learn to accept criticism and the opinions of others. Otherwise you will continue to be hurt and bitter over other people's messages. It's a forum. Deal with it because I'm here to stay. 🙂