A Leo male has gotten my interest....2

Can you believe we've hit the limit already? We could go in reverse order, but I'll just start another thread to continue on.

hmmm it hasn't come through yet. I will keep an eye out for it.

I missed Mystic's last post on the other thread. I will be back!

Sounds like you had a good day Mystic. I think it is really important to have days where the entire focus on us and what makes us happy. Keeps us balanced. Love only works when you realize it is three lives: your life, his life, and a life together.

PM!

How are you honey?
What is new with you and "AquaMan"? (I like calling him that. It sounds like a super hero.)

Well, I'm guilty of it. I love to talk. I'm an Aqua. On the Aqua board there is always so much talking going on and the threads have to be made longer. This is the first time a thread I started finally hit the limit.

"aqua, libra, leo (wow) what a threesome". I totally agree. We also have to include a Virgo female as that is what PM is. Glad I could help out with a thread going to the limit. It's fun. However, see again, I never thought I'd ever meet a Leo doctor either. Things have a way of working out. Just think, a little over a month ago, I was still getting over the Virgo guy. It's surreal.

PM,

Touch?. Regarding the thinking part.

Let it flow over us and grab it when it comes our way. LOL.

PM

You know how 7yr Scorp and your Scorp had the same chart ... 7yr Scorp proposed to me Monday night. I am not sure how serious he was ... he says 75% . I said I haven't seen you in 4 yrs, put your money where your mouth is and come see me.

He was talking about his finances and stuff. How much money he has, how much we would need, what his prospects were ... I have no idea where this came from.

I told him I had gone out with Leo a few times. He got really jealous and said he was going to bed. I haven't seen him in FOUR years! What did he think? I was waiting for him to make up his mind?

I imagine he will run away for several months now. I am sure he freaked himself out.

If they are alike, I think you are better off.

chocolate

still no pm.

😢

That's weird. You haven't seen Scorp guy in 4 years and he proposes? I wouldn't have taken him seriously at all. Maybe he wanted to see what you'd say or test your reaction. Some guys are weird like that. I had a Gemini guy propose to me 4 years ago. I thought he was joking as he and I had worked at the same place. He just came right out and asked me. No, it wasn't very nice of me, but I laughed because I couldn't believe he was asking me. I was highly attracted to him also but couldn't believe he was being serious. So for a few days I had him on my mind, thinking (there's the word thinking again with me) and I pondered it. Therefore I asked him a few days later if he was serious. Suddenly, he wasn't serious at all. Can you imagine being proposed to when you both are sitting at registers? That was a very surreal moment for me.

7yr Scorp is weird.

He has mentioned several times that I was the only woman he ever wanted babies with. (Cold Shower to a Libra woman. Tell it to a cancer. lol!)

The reason I am not sure how serious he was is because he gave me all his banking info. How much he had in savings, his salary, his potential earning this year. He actually had a plan.

The only thing holding him back is the fact that we haven't seen each other in a long time and don't know if there is still physical attraction. I told him I would not consider it unless we were physically attracted and sexually compatible. I've done my time in bad sex relationships. 🙂

I am not taking it seriously unless he arrives at my door. Then, and only then, will I take him serious.

And he would REALLY need to prove himself to me. He hasn't been reliable.

Ignore her PM. Seriously.

I told him if he is serious to come see me. I am not taking it serious until he does.

At the moment, I am more interested in the Leo. I can see potential with the Leo.

7yr Scorp disappears for awhile and comes back. He isn't consistent. REALLY not consistent. He is making efforts now ... but it has been 4 yrs! Ya know?

Ignore the person who is giving you a hard time.

🙂

You are doing fine.

I agree. Scorp guy has to prove himself and not walk in and out of your life like a swinging door.

In answer to your question chocolate, I am fairly indifferent to seeing him. If he wants it, he has to step up to the plate. I am not saying no. I am not saying yes. I am saying we shall see but you have to come see me.

🙂

We need a group hug!

(((GROUP HUG)))

You made me laugh too, Chocolate. You sure have a way with words. 🙂

Hey PM

Did you go read the messages I left for the Leo last night? I think they are on the last page of Mystic's first thread. What do you think?

Hug right back at you all.

I still have to let the new virgo go.

Nice guy ... don't want to shag him. Makes me sad. I HATE hurting people, especially good people.

ahhhh the complicated love lives of libras.

🙂

You have do what you feel is right. If there is no chemistry with the Virgo guy, well then there isn't much that can be done. Be gentle with him though. LOL

I'll try. He is a good person. I REALLY wish he did it for me.

better late than never.

🙂

I think Mystic is sleeping.

poor Mystic.

At least we have something to look forward to reading tomorrow.

I wonder how long it will take the Leo to call me back. The game has begun again.

Hey, I'm not sleeping. It's only quarter to nine at night time here. I won't be going to bed for a little while. Had dinner and have been watching videos.

Regarding wet dreams well, I don't have those yet. However, I dreamt about Leo doctor on Monday night and last night. It's like I have his face burned in my brain. Those eyes of his also I remember. I've dreamt he asks me out and I go in shock. We go to dinner and everything is fine. Then he wants to kiss me and I wake up. I don't know why that happens. It's like I don't want to be vulnerable or anything. I've also dreamt he visits me at my part-time job and I'm so excited I hug him over the register. I mean that's plain nuts. He likes my happiness. Then I show him around to my colleagues and they say: "Way to go." As you can tell, he's been on my mind. I just hope I'm on his mind too. Once he asks he out (if that ever happens), I'll feel more secure. Right now, it's so surreal but I will just stay calm.

I actually feel very balanced about the whole thing right now. It is very tit-for-tat. I was unbalanced for a little while. I think it was mainly because I painted an odd picture of myself and wasn't seeing the situation objectively. I wasn't enjoying myself or him.

But I am balanced now. I am actually quite detached and enjoying it.

A few weeks ago, I wasn't enjoying it at all. I just feel more comfortable and confident.

Isn't love and seduction always a game? 😉

It is when we forget to have fun with it that we get ourselves into trouble.

Plus, the sooner he calls ... the sooner I can get him naked and do dirty things to him.

*sigh✨

hee!

From what I have gathered, he likes to be the sexual agressor. I get to play the part of the innocent lamb, innocently grazing on the grass, so he can attack me when I am not looking.

Little does he know, the lamb is purposeful in its grazing and wandered just far enough from the herd to invite attack.

doesn't that sound poetic?

lmao!

shhhh ... I am faking a limp too!

LMAO!!!

I am back in the game. I can tell.

here kitty kitty ....

Kris

I think you have nothing but good intentions and you are always welcome to offer your opinions to me anytime. I will always take them into account and respect them. It doesn't matter how old or young you are. I believe we can all learn from each other. 🙂

Why do I call it a game? Because love and romance should always be fun and playful. The moment we take it too seriously it becomes draining. Being fun, flirty, and playful is what I do best.

I don't understand why should I give it up? He called me Sunday. I returned the phonecall last night. Now I wait.

In the meantime, I have a "proposal" to deal with, an unwanted suitor, and another leo in the wings.

The best man will win.

He just disappeared. It is too bad. I really liked Cookie. I always felt like we were a team.

😢

I think part of your confusion comes from the fact that we aren't in a relationship. We are casually dating. There is a big difference.

I don't think I am complaining about him. Not at all. If anything, I have complained more about my behaviour with regards to him than his behaviour. Several times I have said that I handled things badly.

I was trying to figure out my feelings for him and what I wanted from him. I am still not entirely sure.

There are times when I don't care if he calls. Then there are times when I want him to call. I DO want my options open. I DON'T want to be rushed.

I don't feel distressed at all. I feel very free and easy especially at the moment. Interesting that you are reading angst and distress. (I was for a little while, I am not now and haven't really been since the last time I saw him.)

Also, he goes out of town a lot for work sometimes out of the country for weeks at a time.

Kris,

Why thank you very much. I am a very humble girl. Sometimes I get a little confused when it comes to guys as I don't want to be vulnerable. Only to one guy at a time. You know something, I've just gotten so used to typing "Leo doctor". No, I wasn't showing off but it just made sense to say "Leo doctor" since I'm a nursing student. Hence I was good in the beginning of the thread when I called it "Leo male". Now since everyone knows who I'm talking about I'll refer to him as Leo. I don't believe in showing off but I've met him as a doctor and he just happens to be a Leo. Oh my. What ever will happen, I can tell you my life will never be the same.

Chocolate,
Yeah, I guess I do have it bad for Leo. He's gotten in my head which is something that is not the easiest thing to do. I get to see him at 8.30 tomorrow in the morning meeting. I'll be cool. One thing I won't do is look too much at him like I did yesterday. I wonder though what he would think if he knew how I felt. I'm so good at hiding my true feelings, that he probably has no idea. No wait, maybe he does because of the way he looks at me and can see in my soul. This is why I hope he does step up to the plate before I'm done in the middle of December. He's one guy I don't want to get away.

LS,
You bad girl. Playing all innocent. Well, I've heard girls who look innocent/play innocent are really freaky. Nothing wrong with that. Hey, I look like the girl next door type, but when I feel comfortable I can be really wild. Leo won't know what hits him if he takes a chance on me.

Why are you laughing at me? That is the way I felt.

how did you interpret it?

"so true..........(hehehe)yeh once u guys do find the female, watch out the King of the Jungle has arrived"

I hope Leo is at this place also. I can only hope. 🙂

Kris,

"Mystical he will go crazy if you do that whole naughty nurse thing lol ... Just joking i know you are taking it slow and stuff but leo guys sexy unexcepected suprise if you know what i mean ..."

I have no problem dressing up as a nurse and being a naughty girl. Hey, he can play doctor on me any time. I'm ready. I'm not sure he could handle me though. I'm pretty sure I can handle him though. It would be an awesome.

More action? How can there be any action when I only see him at the internship place? He'll have to step up to plate and actually ask me out for us to go any further. I don't mean sex on the first date either. I'm not that type of girl.

Yeah, I know how to drive a guy wild when I want to. I'm a little rusty right now but I'll get back to it. However, it's not a good idea to be naughty at an internship place. I'm under evaluation there and so is he. I've left the ball in his court. He has to step up to it.

Chocolate,
Yeah, I think you are right, Leo isn't shy. I wouldn't mind seeing how he is off work.

What does that mean? I've been talking a lot. I told him right to his face I wouldn't mind going out with him. That I wouldn't have a problem whatsoever as there is something about him I like. He said it's because he's nice. I was like what? Where did that come?

Oh yeah, we know how to get a man's temperature to the boiling point. LOL Also even though we can be kinky, it's always done with class.

So since it looks like Leo males like upfront women, I guess I wouldn't have scared him away yesterday saying I wouldn't mind going out with him? After I said it, I stunned myself but acted naturally so I don't think he saw anything.

thats how the leo males i know operate, quite talking and show what u can do....

huh? In what capacity?

I think it is a slippy slope. I have not had success with it.

Kris,

Sorry about your experience with an Aqua female. We aren't all like that. I love to discuss, never argue. Yeah, listen to Chocolate now, some suggestions pleassssse.

Chocolate,
Bye. Talk to you later.

Chocolate,

No, I saw that he didn't respond or act. He's very smart and keeps me guessing. He responded: "There would have to be time for that". I responded back: "We make time for what we want to". He agreed with me.

Bye chocolate

Have a nice night.

And get back to me on that question I just posted a few posts up, when you can.

🙂

huh?

ask me what?

I apparently have NO IDEA what is going on. lol!