A Leo male has gotten my interest....2 (Page 2)

What am I suppose to be making suggestions about?

(scratching head. looking lost.)

I know but what do you want her to ask me?

How do you get a Leo to make a move? How do you know if he's really interested or just playing a game? How do you know if a Leo is not interested? Stuff like this. I think Leo is interested in me, but he doesn't tell me right out. I guess it's in his eyes.

Fucked if I know!

lol!

Let me pull on my experience on the way home and see if I can come up with anything.

Okay ... I have given it some thought. I am not sure how much of it is a leo thing, how much a libra.

It is in my smile. See Venus bless libras with two things ... a great ass and a great smile. Libras have a smile that can melt hearts.

What I have noticed, is when I smile at Leos, really smile, full body, sunshine out my pores, they get interested in me.

My best advice is to talk about something you are really passionate about and get so excited you can't sit still. Feel the thing you are passionate about, don't hold back at all, allow it to gush out of you. And beam your absolute best, brightest, fullest smile at him. I think that is how I capture their interest.

Mystical i've been reading your whole situation with mr. leo doctor and i hope that it all works out and he makes his move...which i'm sure he will.

as someone who is in a relationship with a leo, you def won't be dissapointed. they are very selfless when it comes to love, giving and always there for you, putting a smile on your face and extremely loyal.

I see what you are saying chocolate. This guy is all gemini and leo so I am dealing not only with leo ... but gemini. This might account for some of the stuff going on.

My friend did a birthday reading on us. It was pretty accurate. Actually eeriely accurate. It said that the visionary and dreamlike quality of the relationship can be unsettling. It warns either harness creativity or be unnerved by its fluctions. These two dominant personalities will find the energies at work in their relationship difficult to grasp. Feeling threatened both are likely to dig in heels resulting in power stuggles and conflict. If insecurities are overcome, more aspiring elements can mold so that visionary projects can be lanched and realized.

The question is who is the boss? The only solution may lie in compromise with both parties sharing the helm.

Trouble starts when each looks over each other's shoulder. Each is extremely sensitive to the other's criticism and approval.

Advice: Try to hammer out agreements. Be diplomatic. Compromise is not a dirty word. Try to be more sensitive to each other's needs.

So the question is: what are his needs and how do I address them?

Well, I'm back. Today has been a little bit quiet regarding Leo. He did however sit next to me today. Oddly enough, it wasn't his first choice this time. He was going to sit closer to the door but that chair was already taken. He could have sat a little further away. He then chose to sit next to me. What I find odd is now he announces when he's going to sit next to me: "I'm going to sit here". I don't understand why he has to say that whatsoever. I did not look at him much today. I could feel him looking at me when I wasn't looking at him. When I would talk, I had his full attention. When he talked to others (when he's sitting next to me) he rarely looks at me. When he gets up and talks he'll look a little longer at me. Also this morning (after the morning meeting) he started to talk to me. There was another girl there too. His eyes where on me though when talking. He told me he had overslept and missed the morning meeting. He has to go to a morning meeting also before he comes to the Psychiatrics ward. So he told me he's very tired. He's so busy. This is why I wonder with him. I was busy too. However, when he would see me in the hallway, he'd give a long look. It was like he wanted me to do something. I just look right back at him. Before he would say hi to me. Now he says nothing, but just looks. Later on in the day, I was talking with other people being my normal self. All of sudden, he pops up and is very interested in hearing what I had to say. I was talking about that I had gotten up a little late today and I was rushing around like a mad person. I continued by saying that I said: "Damn it/Shit because I was so late". Then I realized he was in the room and said I didn't know he was there (I of course did, but I was acting my cool self since I have to let him come to me). He replied back jokingly: "You don't like to curse in front of a doctor, do you?" I said no I don't, and laughed. So did he. Then he asked me about the patient I had today as she had gone through some tests. So now I'm a bit confused with him because it seems like he's backed off but still letting me know in a subtle way he's still there. At least I hope so. I wonder if this is typical behavior or what. I also wonder why he backed off. I guess it has to do with since he knows I'm interested in him, he doesn't have to do anything more. What a shame. I just wish he wouldn't have given up so easy. You see, he doesn't stare anymore. He just gives me a little longer looks now. Oh well...

Well, I'm back. Today has been a little bit quiet regarding Leo. He did however sit next to me today. Oddly enough, it wasn't his first choice this time. He was going to sit closer to the door but that chair was already taken. He could have sat a little further away. He then chose to sit next to me. What I find odd is now he announces when he's going to sit next to me: "I'm going to sit here". I don't understand why he has to say that whatsoever. I did not look at him much today. I could feel him looking at me when I wasn't looking at him. When I would talk, I had his full attention. When he talked to others (when he's sitting next to me) he rarely looks at me. When he gets up and talks he'll look a little longer at me. Also this morning (after the morning meeting) he started to talk to me. There was another girl there too. His eyes where on me though when talking. He told me he had overslept and missed the morning meeting. He has to go to a morning meeting also before he comes to the Psychiatrics ward. So he told me he's very tired. He's so busy. This is why I wonder with him. I was busy too. However, when he would see me in the hallway, he'd give a long look. It was like he wanted me to do something. I just look right back at him. Before he would say hi to me. Now he says nothing, but just looks. Later on in the day, I was talking with other people being my normal self. All of sudden, he pops up and is very interested in hearing what I had to say. I was talking about that I had gotten up a little late today and I was rushing around like a mad person. I continued by saying that I said: "Damn it/Shit because I was so late". Then I realized he was in the room and said I didn't know he was there (I of course did, but I was acting my cool self since I have to let him come to me). He replied back jokingly: "You don't like to curse in front of a doctor, do you?" I said no I don't, and laughed. So did he. Then he asked me about the patient I had today as she had gone through some tests. So now I'm a bit confused with him because it seems like he's backed off but still letting me know in a subtle way he's still there. At least I hope so. I wonder if this is typical behavior or what. I also wonder why he backed off. I guess it has to do with since he knows I'm interested in him, he doesn't have to do anything more. What a shame. I just wish he wouldn't have given up so easy. You see, he doesn't stare anymore. He just gives me a little longer looks now. Oh well...

Sorry for the double posting now. Ooops...

There you are. I was wondering how it went.

I dunno Mystic. This has been my experience. When you imply too much interest they back the hell off.

I would really like to call the leo I am interested in tonight and see what he is doing but I left a message (two actually if you count my stupid explaination lol!) so I don't think calling again would be good. It is kind of in his court.

I think me and my leo are too well matched. We are too even. No one is ahead and no one is behind so we are just stalled and standing still.

Sorry for the double posting now. Ooops...

lol!

What are you doing? Hitting refresh?

Gosh, having computer problems. Sorry for the mess.

No, don't call him again. Let him call you LS. I just hope I haven't lost this Leo so quickly.

Have a good night chocolate!

I might take the roomie out later tonight as well and see if we can drum up more business. 🙂

Or I might drink wine and do some stuff for Christmas.... so many choices ... so little time.

🙂

Hi you all,

I'll be back in just a bit. I'm now confused more than ever. I'll explain. Please give some insight then.

hurry! the end of the day is fast approaching.

🙂

Alright. Things seem to have crashed and burned all at once today. I was in a very good mood today. You know, trying to stay positive. As I've stated before, after I told Leo I wouldn't mind going out with him on Monday, he suddenly changed. So today during the morning meeting, I didn't really look at him. At times, I did when he was talking. I'd either just look at him or give him a little smile. So on every Friday all the colleagues,patients plus the two doctors (Leo and a head doctor) eat all together. Since I was in a good mood, I was in my talkative way. I was talking about how there are so many cute guys (customers) up at the foodstore where I work and that I ask to see their id's when they want to buy beer. Some of the women were having a blast with me saying that's a great way to find out how old guys are. I said for some odd reason a lot of these cute guys are always 9 years younger than me. Leo was listening to all this and smiling. Then someone said that I'll meet someone when I least expect it. I said it's already happened and that I met him 3 weeks ago. I said things happen to me when I least expect them to. Leo was drinking up a storm now. So I was asking the others how long they'd been married. Some have been married for 32 years and 25 years and whatnot. So now I asked Leo if he's married. He said no, he's taking his time. Then a patient asked him something but I couldn't hear what she said. All I heard was his answer. His answer was he has a GIRLFRIEND. What? I thought to myself. It completely stunned me as it was completely unexpected. When he said he had a girlfriend he couldn't even look me in the eye and had his back to me. I was totally shocked. He has never once mentioned he has a girlfriend ever. Then the lunch was over and he gets up. I start thinking. I wonder if he just said he had a girlfriend because he was jealous of me talking about other guys. So for an hour and half I'm thinking what to do. How do I confront him so I can get to the bottom of this. I page him and ask him if he could meet me tonight at the foodstore. He said he couldn't because he was going to some party. I asked if he could then tomorrow. He said late in day he would come up. I told him great and that it was nothing serious. He said okay. When I'm at work tonight my mind starts wandering again, thinking was it such a good idea to have him come to the foodstore when it's busy.

Continue..

If he said he has a girlfriend, let it go.

So in my 5 minute break, I send him a text stating it can be very busy at the store but to have in mind it's about what was talked about at lunch. I wrote I hoped I'd still see him. I felt better after I sent the text. A few hours later he texts me back with the following:
"Hi. You are a very sweat and nice girl, and I know very well what you wish to talk about. I should have said earlier about having a girlfriend, and I care deeply for her. I will not be coming to the foodstore tomorrow. We'll talk at work".

I was gutted to say the least and now a bit sad. It makes no sense to me how he looks, stares and acts around me. I thought he was single. He sure didn't act like a guy who has a girlfriend. Usually guys do talk about their girlfriends and say things. He's said absolutely nothing. So I texted him back with the following:
"Hi. Yes, we'll see each other at work. I'm so relieved now. I knew something wasn't right after I talked to you on Monday. On Tuesday you weren't the same towards me. That's fine. This is why I talked the way I did today to see if you would admit to what I suspected without having me ask and you did. You did exactly what I hoped you do. Either way it absolutely doesn't matter. Have a nice weekend. Bye"

Somehow I get the feeling he's feels guilty. Maybe I'm wrong. Also all the waiting for the prey thing that Leos do must have gone out the window also. However, even though I sound like in the text message I don't care, it's not the truth. To be honest, I'm sad now. It's like I misread everything. All the staring, flirting, sitting by me, talking. I just don't understand why he acts that way with girls if he has a girlfriend. So today my mood was pretty good and went downhill real fast. At times, I've laughed because just when I think things could be going fine, something always stands in the way. Now I won't act any different towards Leo. He's not going to get me down that's for sure. In fact, he taught me lesson. Never think someone is single without asking first. I'll say it again, he doesn't act like a guy who has a girlfriend. To top it off, his girlfriend doesn't even live here in the city where I am. She lives in the city where he's from. So I don't know how much time they have together. Well, it's a blue day today.

aww i'm sorry that your situation didn't turn out the way you wanted it to...
but it's probably for the best, put this leo guy aside and focus on yourself and doing what makes you happy.

leo's do have a tendency to flirt a lot, i don't think they do it intentionally they're just very friendly and sometimes can't help it.

Whoaitznara,

Thanks for the kind words. It's a lesson well learned. Thank God I can detach myself when need be. It's not easy to but when I have to, I do it. Yes, he was after me, and then when I told him in a subtle way I like him, all of sudden he backed off. Now I know why. What I don't get is why when I told him, he didn't say anything on Monday. He said absolutely nothing. It's not like he owed me anything, but usually when someone is committed in a relationship they say it upfront if someone says they like them. Well, one positive thing out of this is that he helped me a lot after getting over Virgo guy. That was really tough. Also I'm glad to have found out now that Leo has a girlfriend before I went deeper. At least it's still so fresh, I'm not heartbroken (like I was about Virgo guy), just sad. Tomorrow should be better though. He'll be sorry though this Leo because he'll see me in a different light. I'll be nice with him, but nothing more.

i see it as out of every negative situation something positive comes out, even though this guy may have lead you on, he also helped you move past your virgo guy.
it is weird that he didn't just tell you earlier, maybe he just enjoyed the harmless flirting and when he noticed you were getting a little bit more serious that's when he knew it's time to back off....
i'm not sure though....

i have moon in aquarius so it's nice i too can detach a lot easier...it def helps in situations like this.

Kris,

Thank you so much. Unfortunately, I am serious, and not happy about it. No, there is no way I can check out if he has a girlfriend or what. If I could I would. I just get the feeling something isn't right there. He's never once mentioned having a girlfriend and the way he acted around me was like he really liked me. I'm still stunned. Yes, I am sexy (yeah, right), but in a subtle way. Very true, he came quickly and left quickly so it makes it easier. I just don't understand. Remember I've been saying this week I didn't understand the sudden change in him? Well, I know now. I'll meet someone new that's for sure. Just when that will happen, I don't know. I also found out how old he is today too. Turns out he's 3 years younger than me. So you see I got a lot of news today regarding him. I'll cheer up.

if he is lying, then that's one immature way of dealing with things.

Whoaitznara,

Yes, Leo has been a big help. It took me two months to get over Virgo guy. Just when I did, all of sudden this Leo came along. I thought I hit the jackpot. Thinking out of every negative there is a positive. I thought Leo was the positive after all the pain I went through regarding Virgo guy. So Leo was good at that.

I do feel he lead me on and that is what hurts a little now. Yes, I would have gotten serious with him. I was ready, and just thought he was being all shy around me. Guess I got fooled. He could have said something earlier. He even stated in his text message that he should have said it. I'm not going to say it's going to be easy being around him the next weeks (I'm done in the middle of December) but I'll be fine. I'll act like a friend of his which isn't difficult for me.

Yes, being an Aquarius and you having a moon in Aquarius does help in situations like this.

stuff like this reminds me of high school, immature and really unecessary. it's nice that your reacting in a calm matter, if this was me i don't know what i would have done cause i really hate games...

i'm sure it is difficult to deal with this considering you guys both work in the same place and see each other often, but if you just concentrate on your work and patients, time will go by fast and before you know it you'll be over this guy.

Kris and Whoaitznara,

I can't say if he's lying, but something doesn't add up. What I gather is he was starting to fall for me, like I was for him, and for some reason he just backed off. I think he's scared of his feelings. He's 26 years old and could still be a bit immature. I thought he and I were the same age but that turned out not to be the case either. I get the feeling he doesn't know what to do so he suddenly mentions he has a girlfriend. Well, I'll only see him for about another month, and then never again. I mean, it's weird how he can't visit me up at the foodstore. Friends do that. I don't see what the problem is. This is why I think he's scared and just backed off.

if he was starting to fall for you and had to back off, it's probably hard for him to think of you as a friend now because it's an uncomfortable position... at least for him.

things would be a lot easier if we had radar detectors, to tell us who's taken and who's single.

Whoaitznara,

No, it won't be easy when I see him again, which will be on Wednesday. I'm a nursing student and have responsibility for one patient. I don't want him to see a difference in me as I don't want to give him the satisfaction that he can hurt me. I'll be over him soon that's for sure. However, I'll never forget him but not in a fully positive light. What turned out as something promising, crashed and burned very quickly.

Yes, it's immature behavior. You see, it would have bothered me until the next time I saw him because I wanted to get to the bottom. This is why I talked about other cute guys (customers) because I had the feeling something wasn't right. He fell right into my trap which I'm glad about because he showed his true colors. I got to see the real him which is good. I'm not going to lie and say it doesn't hurt because it does. However, I know now where I stand and that's all I ever wanted. Now since I know that, I can move on. It will just take a little time.

that's the attitude to have, it's good you followed your intuition because now you know.

anyways i'm about to leave soon, but you sound like a very intelligent and warm hearted person, i'm sure you'll find someone who's going to be fabulous.

good luck to ya 🙂

Whoaitznara,

Very true what you are saying. However, he's going to be a doctor and they make difficult decisions every day. He should be mature enough to at least be friends with me. He is a man. You see, I have a way about me that allows me to show I'm not mad and let the other person think I've forgotten what they done. I have a very good memory. Yeah, I'd like a radar detector right now. I honestly thought he was single. He didn't act like someone who has a girlfriend and who he cares deeply for. I don't think he's being fully truthful but he has to live with himself, not me. Karma will bite him back as the circle goes around. I won't have to do a thing.

Whoaitznara,

Thanks. I'll be fine.


Kris,

Hate my Leo moon? Nah, I just see that I can be very passionate when I like a guy. I'll do most anything for them as Leos are known for. I didn't even know I had a Leo moon until this past summer. However, I wouldn't mind meeting another Leo though.

karma is a bitch, i've learned from experience, i'm def a believer in that, the best way to get back at him is to just be yourself and continue acting happy and friendly... because your right if you show your upset he'll know your affected...

but then again if he's going to act like he doesn't have a gf...what would happen if you two were involved, perhaps he would do the same to you....

who knows.

Whoaitznara,

Yes, I will continue to be myself. Even after I told Leo in a subtle way I like him and he changed the next day, I was still myself. I could sense something wasn't right though. You can probably tell in my posting on Tuesday, Wednesday and Thursday that I was worried because something was fishy. I'm a firm believer in finding out what went wrong. Today just happened to be the day everything came to a head. Better now than later. The only thing I can think of is he got scared.

Karma is a bitch. Very thoughtful provoking about if he and I were dating would he do what he has done with me to another girl and he was my boyfriend. I think that is highly likely. I wonder how many times he's done this because he's very good. Now come to think of it, I wonder if he's a ladies man. You know, the type who gather the girls up and drop them very quickly once the girl shows an interest back.

He's not going to see me affected ever. Inside, it will hurt to see him in the beginning but on the outside it won't show. However, I know he can't take his eyes off me completely. He still likes to look at me. Maybe that will change now though.


Kris,

Me too. *Sigh*

Yeah, I get what you are saying. However, would you Leo people go as far as to maybe lie about having a girlfriend/boyfriend when you are scared?

Well, he hasn't avoided me all together. Maybe now he will the next time I see him. I just find it odd his behavior. Maybe he will, eventually, vanish also. Only about a little over a month left and then I don't see him anymore. I'm sure he'll be glad about that. It's just such a shame the way things turned out.

I've got to chime in on this one. And this is only another viewpoint to consider. I have been following this thread and also seeing a Leo male, so I don't claim to be an expert on Leo behavior. So please other peeps with more Leo knowledge than me, please correct me if need be. What are the chances that when she was talking to the other nurses about these guys from the store, that hurt his pride? After all, if he was making a move(even slow as it seemed)and she mentioned other guys, then maybe he took that to mean she just wasn't as serious about Leo as he thought she was. Remember Leo's love attention!!!! Anything less than total devotion and he will cover his tracks to avoid showing he is hurt, so hence the GF story. I don't know about all Leos, but when my Leo and I were first getting to know each other,he admitted to me he was scared that I didn't feel the same about him as he felt about me. So they aren't always big and tough!!!

Candlz,

Thanks for keeping up with the thread. I'm glad people are reading it. You know something, you do bring up of very good point. Yes, I was talking about these other guys to the nurses. However, I didn't think it would bother Leo whatsoever. Come to think of it now, he did get very uncomfortable but I really didn't care to be honest. I didn't want him thinking I was a lame duck. Unfortunately, since I have little knowledge regarding Leo males, I forgot about his pride. Bummer. What a mistake. See I always go through the trial and error period. I didn't think about that darn pride. Check, if I meet another Leo, do not talk about other guys. Check mate. I've been dead serious about Leo. That is why I said there is a guy I am interested in (which was meaning him) but I couldn't say that while everyone was there. Leos do like a lot of attention that's for sure. However, he was moving so slow. Then he completely stumped me when he said to a patient he has girlfriend. That came out of left field. Not anything I was expecting whatsoever. I just get the feeling something isn't right regarding him having a girlfriend, who he cares deeply for. He's never, never, never mentioned her and he was showing a lot of interest in me. Then on Monday, when I told him in a way I like him, he changed a little on Tuesday. I figured he was backing off a little now since he knew I liked him. However, now in hind-sight, I think he was starting to fall for me and caught himself. I've been so curious to find out if he had a girlfriend but didn't feel completely comfortable in asking right out. Therefore I wanted to see what he would do regarding the different guys. He would smile at me but I could tell he looked disappointed. Well, he got me back big time, I can say that. So the King won.

I have found there are many things that bother the Leo male and yet they act as if nothing does. They want you to think they are real 'he-men'(sorry Leo males)so they go on being happy and trying to make others around them happy too. It's as if nothing upsets them, but they hurt just like the rest of us. They just don't want to show it. Their pride won't let them. My Leo has even shed tears of emotion in my presence.

I don't know if you want to pursue Leo anymore or not, but if you do, I would back off from him for awhile and see how he acts toward you. After awhile, you can always apologize to him and chances are he will start purring again.

Thank you very much, Candlz. What I've decided to do is completely back off from him. I won't be seeing him until Wednesday, so I will have been able to mentally prepare myself for how I'll react towards him. I will continue to be my quirky and original self which attracted him to me in the first place, I assume. However, I will not pursue another woman's man, even if I find the whole story with that a little fishy. Also I can't understand why he wouldn't visit me at the foodstore. Geeesh! I'm not going to bite him. Friends visit each other. I don't see the harm. I have nothing to apologize to him at all. It wasn't me who supposedly is in a relationship pursuing another person. It would be great to get him purring though LOL. Who knows. He will have to live with the concidences. I'm not going to do one thing. I won't act differently towards him but I know where I stand. He won't know where he has me anymore which might confuse him. Or he might not care at all. Either way, I walk away the winner.

the whole gf bit does sound a bit wishy washy, i dont think you can know for sure if he's telling the truth or not unless you see them together...or other people have seen them.

but i think that he did have some sort of feelings for you, even if he does have a girlfriend...sometimes you still can't help but be attracted to other people, maybe that's why he backed off cause he realized things are getting to be too much...

however candlz also brings up good points, perhaps when he heard you talking about the other nurses it made him think twice so he used the whole gf bit...

so many theories....lol hard to pick.

Whoaitznara,

I totally agree with you. Something doesn't add up regarding the girlfriend. I have no way in finding out about her because he originally comes from another town (where she is). However, he has told me has plans on staying here where in the town where I live. So I guess the girlfriend will move then? It's very bizarre. Like you know something that just occurred to me. Last week he asked another nurse about how was it to work the Christmas weekend as he was the lucky one. The nurse said it's pretty quiet. Later on I said to him it was sad he wasn't going to be able to go back home for Christmas (he never mentioned a girlfriend then either). He said no because he does have family in the town I live in so he would be with them. I would think he would also want to be with his girlfriend. You see, the more I think of it, it doesn't make much sense. Well, the only thing I can think of is he met someone last weekend and is suddenly dating her. However, that is a bit far fetched, but you neve know.

Yes, he does have feelings for me. He proved that by texting me tonight. I wasn't expecting that. I've written what he wrote earlier on. He didn't owe that to me. It just proves I do mean something to him. However, I will never play second fiddle to anyone. He has to come and get me now if anything is going to evolve. Also I'll need confirmation the so-called girlfriend is out of the picture. I would never know though. He must have gotten scared though and realized he was falling for me. So instead of going forward with me, he puts the brakes on and suddenly has a girlfriend. Oh well, there is nothing I can do about it.

When I talked about the other guys, that was to prove a point. I still feel he should visit me up at the foodstore as friends do that. The fact that he won't, as least now, speaks volumes to me. There is nothing stopping him.

Yes, Candlz did come up some good points. I totally agree.

well this guy is just confused, he needs time to figure things out, if he is lying about having a gf his tactics aren't very good. if he thinks that's going to get you to pursue him...

if it was me, i'd casually ask him if he had a picture of this so called gf, i'd ask him what's her name, see what he would say...just to seem interested, you guys are still on casual terms, or at least for now so it wouldn't be that big of a deal, i don't think.

Good advice, I will try that with asking what his girlfriend's name is, and if he has a picture of her. I hope so but maybe he also doesn't want anybody to see what she looks like. I'm still friends with him, at least on my part, I don't know how he feels. He did end the text message with "We'll talk at work". That could mean he wants to talk to me, or a polite way of say "We'll talk". I don't know really want he means. Friends show each other pictures.

I'm still of the opinion it doesn't add up about the girlfriend part. Usually my inituition is correct. This is why I have a bad feeling about the girlfriend thing. Yes, he does seem confused. I didn't mean to confuse him either. Maybe he does have a girlfriend but I'm not convinced. He'll get all the time he wants as I have no problem with that. Oh, I'll still seem interested in him but only as a friend now. Unfortunately...

haha maybe he's just one of those shy guys that doesn't like to show off his gf, i don't know i mean i usually like to show people pics of my guy, and i would think that if your in a relationship and you care about the person you would talk about them...

but it would be interesting to see how he responds, he might hesitate because of the fact that he still has feelings for you and that might be kind of weird, or he might hesitate cause there is no gf..lol who knows you'll just have to see..it can't really do much damage.

Whoaitznara,

I don't know if Leo is a kind that likes to show off his girlfriend. He might not be as he's never ever mentioned her. This is what baffled me because when someone has a boyfriend/girlfriend, you mention them. He never, never did. Oh yeah, he has feelings for me. This past week since Tuesday, he does give me a little longer looks than usual. Also he's very restless around me. Or maybe that is just the way he usually is. I will be watching his actions now.

PM,

Yes, I will stay away from him. I will not look much at him now either. Very true if he starts doing everything he did before again, red flags will rise in my head. However, being a Leo as he is, he will probably try and act like I don't exist anymore. I agree that he's hiding something but I doubt I'll ever be able to find out what it is. All I know for sure is he must have started to fall for me and he caught himself before it was too late. You are probably right I could have hurt his ego by all the guy talk. However, it shouldn't have bothered him because he has a girlfriend. Why should I talking about other guys bother him them? However, when I was talking about these guys, I didn't know then Leo had a girlfriend. Therefore what I was saying should not have affected him whatsoever. I think it did though. Yes, I will stay quite around him but not that I completely change my attitude towards him because I don't want him to see he's able to affect me. It should be interesting to see what happens next. Whether he'll talk with me or ignore me. I won't ignore him but if he does with me, then I find that immature behavior.

Don't convince yourself that he is lying. He isn't.

Just because a person is in a relationship doesn't mean that they can't be attracted to someone else. I don't think he did anything terrible. He flirted a little bit but he never invited her on a date or did anything really advert and inappropriate.

To pursue this at all would be wrong. You can be his friendly but nothing more. To do so would make you the bad guy and you aren't Mystic, neither is he, and neither is the gf.

Stuff just happens sometime.