Best way to Respond to Disappearing-Reappearing Men?

Come on, I want to hear your best lines.

How would you respond to a ghost guy who pops back up into your life?

Logic tells me to delete and not respond...

I am dealing with a similar situation a Scorp guy I have been seeing going all hot & cold on me.

I am currently letting him figure it out on his own, but tbh I am wondering how much of this I can tolerate 😛

Posted by little
I am dealing with a similar situation a Scorp guy I have been seeing going all hot & cold on me.

I am currently letting him figure it out on his own, but tbh I am wondering how much of this I can tolerate 😛

Ahahahahaha!...I'm dealing w a scorp as well.

Posted by AriesLove
Ignore his ass.

Hmm, its prob the best thing to do.. but it's easier said than done :/

The guy has been going all kinds of hot & cold on me - one moment he will insist on calling me baby, the next he won't even bother texting me or making an effort to see me..And I know Scorps need their alone time, but that's getting a bit silly and I am not down for chasing his ass 😛

Actually planing to confront him soon and either move forward or end it once and for all..

I've just ignored the text...It's been 4 days. Decided to block the number. The point of the thread was to try and get a nice comeback or slam down...not to get this guy interested again, since I don't want him anymore. It's an aggravating part of dating. Ghosts are the worst. The ones that reappear are even worse than that.

Ask him directly why he keeps ghosting in & out of your life. That is, if u want to unblock him to do this. Do it if u think it will weigh on your mind. If not, fck him

Posted by Kittenfish
Come on, I want to hear your best lines.

How would you respond to a ghost guy who pops back up into your life?

Logic tells me to delete and not respond...

lol chase him with a gun nextime he reappear ?

Posted by Kittenfish
Come on, I want to hear your best lines.

How would you respond to a ghost guy who pops back up into your life?

Logic tells me to delete and not respond...

well - logic is logic for a reason - it rules

I may have a different take on this.

I say, pretend like he never disappeared at all and as if you just spoke yesterday.

Pretend as if you didnt even notice his absence.

Nothing pisses them off more.

(I admit im being a hypocrite here and have been texting a scorp moon guy even when he didnt reply to my previous texts. However, I did that before with the same guy (pretending that he never disappeared), and it hit him hard. I could tell.

I'd ask him why. But I wouldn't take the ghosting as an insult..just a sign for me not to get attached.

Maybe he's going through something,

doesn't mean he never liked you,

just that being in a committed relationship is not in y'alls best interest.

But at least he ghosts instead of leading you on.

Meanwhile I'm over here all broken hearted over some leo chick. I don't think it's just a male thing.

"Go do your rotation with desperate and tacky women. I'm not convinced you're worth it."

"This ship has sailed, sweetheart!"