Users??

This topic was created in the Leo forum by DeeLovesRed on Monday, October 24, 2016 and has 6 replies.

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@DeeLovesRed
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So I'm a very observant person and I watch everything VERY closely....

Lately I've been seeing how selfish and useless a Leo man can be... I've seen some behaviors that resembles a person who wants everything to be done for them ... and can careless how others have to get it done for them...

Reason I'm saying this is b/c the Leo man I'm "seeing" now, he's displaying some traits of a "user".... I haven't spoken to him about it yet because I'm still observing him...

But have anyone experienced a Leo man trying to or did use them?

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Posted by bumboklatt
Yeah leos expect and will take things you give.

Pisces love to work for the ones they love so it's just another fire/water misunderstanding

Definitely is... and they do not have any shame... like they'll use you and not feel anything towards it... but I'm still observing

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@AriesLove @blackphase

Well now I found out he's illegal (he doesn't have his paperwork here in the US)... ??... not judging him, but I told him why wouldn't he say that from the beginning.. So that I could've made a decision on whether or not I wanted to be involved with a person like that...

For now, I'm not talking to him because I feel like he's a liar and a user... Maybe if he was being completely honest from the start, I could've taken it as he needs help... but because he lied, I'm seeing him as a user...

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My Leo barely asks me for help in anything. I wish he did more often actually haha

But he definitely is a believer in "what's mine is yours." He's there for me when needed, so it please me to share with him, or anyone who is sincere in that way.

Also, I know you specified men, but two of the female Leos I know are also very independent.

Are you easy to take advantage of? Like kind and gentle, wanting to always help?

Put yo' foot down.

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Posted by Silvuh
My Leo barely asks me for help in anything. I wish he did more often actually haha

But he definitely is a believer in "what's mine is yours." He's there for me when needed, so it please me to share with him, or anyone who is sincere in that way.

Also, I know you specified men, but two of the female Leos I know are also very independent.

Are you easy to take advantage of? Like kind and gentle, wanting to always help?

Put yo' foot down.

No, I'm not easy to take advantage of, how I came to observe this was because I seen him ask a lot of people for stuff and he made up stories for why he couldn't do it for himself... Also, when someone would say that couldn't do what he wanted, he'll disrespect them.

However, I recently found out he doesn't have any paperwork her in the US.... So he can't do much of anything for himself, but I feel like instead of him lying to people and making up stories, maybe he should be honest and who would like to help him they will, and who can't help.. just can't