I'm a Virgo female and have been seeing a Leo male for about 2 months now. I need to mention that this isn't the first time he has disappeared. He had went MIA when we first started talking for about 2 weeks and had contacted me apologizing for the distance and how it was due to some work and family issues. I decided to give it another shot and everything was going great and we even planned a little get away for this up coming weekend, I took 2 days off from work for this trip. This past weekend he was away for a few days with a few of his buddies. The night before he left he mentioned our trip and said he was worried about finances and said he would let me know once he got back if we would still be going away or not. While he was away I figured I'd give him some space since he hadn't taken a vacation in a few months and didn't want to come off as overbearing by texting him since he was away with his buddies. Isn't that what most guys want? a girl trusting and knows how to give space? Anyways, I didn't hear from him his whole trip until the night he ended up texting me at 9pm the night before he was coming home. He made a comment how he hadn't heard from me his whole trip and I responded how I didn't want to bother him since he was away with the guys. He then asked if he could steal me the next day and if I could pick up him and his buddies at the airport. I apologized how I couldn't as I already and plans and how I would have loved to have seen him. I then said to give me a call tomorrow when hes back and all settled in so we can catch up, he didn't respond after that. I didn't hear from him the next day but I decided to give him the benefit of the doubt. The following day I decided to send him a text and I welcomed him back home and asked how he's doing. He never responded and I still haven't heard from him. Obviously our trip isn't happening this weekend, I think it's rude that he said he would give me an answer when he got back and he didn't deliver, not to mention how I took off from work for it. Might be I just wasn't a convenience anymore when I said I couldn't do something. Or I'm wondering if his ego/pride as he's a Leo. He just might be a plain A**hole. I am curious as things we're going to well. Any insights Leo's? Thanks!
I still haven't heard from him. I already reached out once and know not to again. I still think it's incredibly rude he hasn't even said "our trip isn't happening" even though it's very clear it's not. I took time off from work and while it wasn't a big deal to cancel, it's the principal.
If I don't respond to someone in a day or even a few days, it's usually because my mind was elsewhere when they texted and then I either forgot (which is not a good sign) or felt bad and didn't know how to explain my absence.
I agree he's a big douche lol as a Virgo I try and make sense of things and get facts. I'm trying to get a feel of leos. I feel if you wanted to see me that bad or wanted the ride you should have contacted me in the beginning of your trip. Sorry I had plans and something didn't go your way. I guess I'm wondering if he got pissed or perhaps his ego got hurt cause he didn't hear from me and then I said I couldn't do something. If it's just a disappearing act of a Leo does that mean I should expect to hear from him again?
I feel like he's being really rude and disrespectful that I shouldn't contact again. I would think if he was really interest he would have contacted me earlier in his trip. And he would have contact me when he got back or at least responded when I reached out to him.
I am a Leo. Let this one go. He's not very evolved. If you don't contact him anymore, there is every chance he will contact you in a week or so because...curiosity kills the cat. If you contact him anymore though he will see you as weak. When he contacts you...ignore him. He's not worth your time.
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Might be I just wasn't a convenience anymore when I said I couldn't do something. Or I'm wondering if his ego/pride as he's a Leo. He just might be a plain A**hole. I am curious as things we're going to well. Any insights Leo's? Thanks!