Do Virgo girls like love letters—

So I wrote a Virgo girl a letter and I'm wanting some input from you virgo girls. Is this a bad idea? I think she friend zoned me and she said her feelings may change after some time getting to know me. I really like her and as the semester is coming to an end, I don't know if I'll see her again. Would a letter help in this case or wI'll she just toss it?

I can post the letter if you guys wanna see what I wrote.

I love letters.

Low pressure.

How bout no pressure? Lol. I just had some kind words I wanted to say as I assume I probably won't hear from or see her again.

Posted by pillpushaT
How bout no pressure? Lol. I just had some kind words I wanted to say as I assume I probably won't hear from or see her again.

If it's something you did to get a weight off your chest..good for you.

As long as you have no expectations.

Nothing I did persay. Just a way of expressing my thoughts of her and hopefully leaving a lasting impression on her because of how much I appreciate her as a person.

Not sure. How could one tell what her Venus and Mars is in?

YES GO FOR IT !!

Virgo girl here and i love love letters 🙂

What if this is a letter from a guy you just friend zoned?

I'm in way over my head with girl

im not a virgo , but I love letters... 😄 who wouldnt love it, as long as its not some letters taken out of the internet and put into a stationary.

Well I know all girls like letters because it probably makes you feel good to know someone cares or is sprung over you. But is it gonna help my cause in any way?

I know it certainly couldn't hurt but I'll feel hurt. I've already expressed what I think about her, and although she was very kind to me and still is, I don't feel like putting myself in a vulnerable position like that again.

Plus, if she has a Venus in libra isn't she supposed to express how she feels and go after what she wants?

Up to this point it's been all me reaching out and trying to keep communication lines open. There comes a point when the other person should meet you half way I think.

I'm not gonna force it. I'm giving up.

Yes, but I already have. I've already told her I liked her and I thought her and I had potential to share something meaningful.

She basically said she isn't looking for anything but maybe things will change with some time. So basically, I have to stay in friendship with false hopes of her changing her mind someday.

Like I said, our semester is coming to an end tomorrow. I wrote her something to leave a lasting impression of me. I don't know if it'll help my cause but I guess I just don't want her to forget about me. At the same time, I feel like I'll be leaving myself vulnerable once again and I don't know if I can deal with that sort of uncertainty and rejection again.

I dunno what to do. Send it? Or just move forward and hope she reaches out at some point once she realizes I'm not around anymore. Like I said before, she knows I think but maybe not to depths of what I was planning to write to her. I think it'll just scare her off or simply feed her ego some more.

I don't think anybody likes somebody throwing themselves at you. That's terribly unattractive is it not?

But if you want my honest opinion as a male in the year 2014, love letters used to work back in the day, yes, those days are gone though, no matter what females tell you (what women say and what they feel are usually polar opposites, you should know this as a male already)..the effect you are hoping this letter is going to have on the girl, is probably never gonna be the one you envisioned in the first place. Times change, move along with them.

Love letters do however work once you are in a relationship with the girl. When youre trying to court her it is way better to be hands-on, decisive and show initiative, thats attractive to women.

Thank you. This was sort of along the lines of what I've been thinking. Although I can be old-fashioned when courting a girl, I also understand the dynamics of attraction. No girl or guy finds a person attractive if they're that easy.

Yep, this is mostly the case when youre dealing with younger women. Once older and mature however, women become more receptive to things like letters.

Yes and she is young, 22 yes old in fact. She knows I'm interested. I'm just going to back off. She seeks my attention since I've backed off a bit.

I'm just going to go no contact over break and if I don't hear from her, I'll just assume she doesn't think of me and I'll be much better off moving forward.

Thank you for all of your advice guys. I know I've been so back and forth on it but I've finally gotten some perspective and some rational reinforcement of my actions moving forward.

My honest advice: just make friends with a lot of women, that way you can really learn how they think and what makes them tick, then use that to your favour, once you become comfortable with women, you'll realise you dont really need to do much to seduce them, its HOW you do it that makes all the difference in the world. Forget about this Virgo girl, shes a waste of time for you now, theres better things waiting for you, move on.

I'm actually not terrible with women at all. I've had plenty of experience and I guess that's what kept me from expressing everything to her. It's just every now and then, there comes along a girl that kind throws in wrench in my game and confidence. That in itself should tell me it's not a good sign lol.

I gotcha tho. Mooooving FORWARD.

Posted by scorchedearth
shaks is a PUA. 😛

Sorry, what does that even mean? Lol

haha Im not, I dont pick up women just to satisfy my ego, I do it cause I find the girl interesting in some way and Im open to anything with her, even serious stuff, you just realize soon enough that not every girl you find interesting is meant to have something serious with you.

I genuinely just love meeting new people all the time, both male and female, it gets easier to push the right buttons with women once you have dealt with tons of them 😛

I'm so glad you guys chimed in to talk some sense into me. I would have felt like such an idiot for writing her and have it go no where.

Posted by pillpushaT
I'm actually not terrible with women at all. I've had plenty of experience and I guess that's what kept me from expressing everything to her. It's just every now and then, there comes along a girl that kind throws in wrench in my game and confidence. That in itself should tell me it's not a good sign lol.

I gotcha tho. Mooooving FORWARD.

Yeah I get that, though once you have met lots of beautiful women, you will probably never get hung up on any in the future because your subconscious knows that even if things dont go anywhere with one, theres still plenty of other out there, then your mind being aware of that, automatically relaxes and that way you can come off to beautiful girls the 'right" way, not the needy way.

Posted by pillpushaT
I'm so glad you guys chimed in to talk some sense into me.

Thats what we do.

I'm totally new to this forum but so glad I joined now. Been a lurker for about a month however lol. Thanks again guys!