Fire signs ignorant of their faults

I have mostly noticed that with aries and leos and sags. Leos are better though than aries and sags on this. we are more emotional i think. sure we very often don;t understand how our acts and words might hurt or insult people but we do think about it afterwards.... it takes us some time to figure out what we have done wrong but we eventually get it.... Aries and sags on the other side seem to think that it is ok to do and say anything and they will rarely apologise ... i have tried to explain to an aries what he has done wrong and he just kept telling he how i did him wrong... my god that was too much ego.... never recognising that you are wrong. Leos on the other hand are more likely to apologise and feel sorry if they have hurt sb ....And we don;t always blame everything that goes wrong in a relationship on the other person.. we are proud but we are also able to admit our faults .... it is all about fairly dividing responsibility and faults.... Aries however will blame everything on the other part....

Even I have noticed this but what I felt was that Aries really have no clue that they have hurt someone or insulted someone. Leo dont want to know bcoz they think they know everything and saggi thinks that everyone is like saggis who dont get offended by most of the insulting words.

this is an interesting topic for this board. I hope more people think about this.

Um, I have to disagree with you entirely on this. Fire signs are well-aware of their shortcomings. Will we admit them to others? Probably not. I think we assess our own flaws and w/out telline anyone, we make a conscious decision to change them. Now water signs...it's been my experience that they rarely place the blame on themselves, talk themselves up or down (depending if they want sympathy from others), etc. They will only 'get their faults' after it's been pointed out to them and 2 times out of 3, they'll try to change it.

I agree with LWCAA...
WE ARE NOT WALLOWERS...but we are VERY self-aware (especially Leos, arguably).
Confidence accompanies fire. We know our flaws, and if we think we need to change something, we will. If not, life goes on.
As for apologizing, I think only the less mature fire signs have a problem with it..and by less mature I don't necessarily mean age...I mean the amount of experiences and how much they've learned blah blah blah.

I'm a Aries

(Leo in rising)
(Aries in Sun)
(Scorpio in moon)

And the apologizing is going better now. In my childtime i wouldn't apologize for something rude ( typical Aries). But now i'm noticing more what i'm saying because it has bring me enough trouble saying offending things to people. I now allmost immediately apologize when i know that i may have insulted people.
(nice topic)

Aries Guy !

Little Leo always tried to turn everything around on me and never took responsibility for his actions. Well once, he said that his actions could be construed as sketchy. My cousin Leo has only apologized once and it was because I was completely livid with him and tore a strip out of him. I still don't think he gets why I was upset.

Oh wait ... strike that ... Little Leo did appologize for hurting me in the end. (even though I wasn't really hurt just annoyed, frustrated, and disappointed. lol!)

Little Leo always tried to turn everything around on me and never took responsibility for his actions. Well once, he said that his actions could be construed as sketchy. My cousin Leo has only apologized once and it was because I was completely livid with him and tore a strip out of him. I still don't think he gets why I was upset.

This could just be a male trait. They almost never understand why we get as upset as we do. :-) I think this would apply to males of any sign.

You raise an excellent point Leowithcap. lol!

Ah the beauty of fire signs...most are just a firefighter away from beeing smacked by reality. But yes, out of the three of them Leo and Sag sometimes admit faults, just like anyone else...but Aries can't admit fault because in their eyes they have none. It's the other stupid bastards that have the faults aint it?

that is absolutely right!!!

You get a COOKIE!!!! 😉

I like to think that I am aware of my faults. Also, I tend to follow the trend mention earlier, in that I'm always up for self correction once I become aware of my own disadvantages. As for Aries...I do believe it is a maturity issue. My bf NEVER used to apologize when we first started dating...I couldn't BELIEVE that he could be so careless, you know? But as we've grown together, he will admit when he's wrong...and he'll do so with such haste so that it's done and over with.

But in defense of Aries, I think what's mind boggling about the fact that they sometimes don't admit when they're wrong or take responsibility for their actions is that they aren't alwyas aware of it...they're "childlike" in a sense where they have no idea what they're doing or the consequences. Whether or not that's an excuse for their behavior is up to the person that deals w/ them...but it's a "phenomenon" that people misinterpret and simply don't get!