Friendship

I know a lot of Leo and Virgo friendships... does anyone else notice this? I personally get along pretty well with leos, I love you people.

actually im a leo/virgo cusper and i get a long very great with my three virgo friends, they help me to decide.. but i still dont know why i always fight with aries girls, i guess they just too impulsive..

yup yup - i get along well with virgos. as long as we don't spend too much time together, that is.

OK, I have to get this off my chest. I recently had my first close interaction with Virgo and I hope that she is not representative of the sign as a whole. It's a book-length story but in a nutshell I allowed a seemingly normal Virgo female (hereafter known as psycho biatch, PB) to move in to the house I am/was renting in mid June and she has since made my life a living hell.

Dr. Frankenstein could dig up an entire graveyard and not create a more disgusting "human". I finally had enough and moved out a few weeks ago but PB refuses to leave and I am still on the hook for September rent. Even though she isn't on the lease and hasn't paid bills in 2 months it is a 30 day eviction process to get her fat ass out of there. The only reason that I am sweet as honey to her at this point is 1) she owes me a shiatload of money which I hope to recover someday and 2) I am afraid that she would destroy the house if I turn off the electric and gas, which are still in my name. From her own mouth she has done it before and I have no doubt she would do it again.

It's an unfortunate situation because the landlord is a friend of mine and is as disgusted as I. But it will all work out in the end, I am on my own again in a new place and loving it. I think the August eclipse may have gotten things rolling for me because that's about the time that I found my misplaced balls.

In all fairness I think that PB may have anti-social disorder related to dropping too much acid (from the horse's mouth) in her youth (she is pushing 40). Every person I have introduced her to has gotten weird vibes. She constantly refers to her two cats as her "pussies", creeeeepppppy. PB is also a self proclaimed "expert" on every subject although 75% of the diarrhea that slides out of her mouth is complete BS. I used to correct her but she would get very upset. Now I just chuckle and thank God for salvation.

It feels like a divorce, and of course I am getting screwed. This naive and trusting Leo has finally grown up, I will never put myself in a position to be taken advantage of again. I am biding my time but justice will be served eventually, I am Scorpio rising after all... 😉

To preface the above story I was coming off an 11 month stint with a Sag who was a nightmare in his own right. He is another novel along the lines of Sid and Nancy.

He is a charming Sag and we are still good friends, but he too owes me a mint. I informed him on Sunday that he better slide me above drugs and alcohol on his priority list or I will take his dumbass to court.

And I am confiscating my guitar amp tomorrow after his shiatty band plays their show tonight.

WOW, I feel much better 🙂

I realize this topic is a little heavy for this board, but there really are some unstable people out there and this is my therapy.

UPDATE: The landlord came over today to trim some trees and PB told him to go away because it was an invasion of her privacy. She really has no tact or diplomacy or any remote grasp on reality. He's a nice guy and had already agreed to allow her to stay until end of month. Anyway, he called me and told me that he had put a 3-day eviction notice for her on the door. I told him that she is nuts and now he is worried for the safety of his house. I'm definitely going to lose a friend over this mess.

I went over tonight to pick up some clothes and PB is in full paranoia mode. She had the front door barricaded and I had to call her to let me in. I told her to be an adult and not piss off the landlord and she freaked out and told me to get out. WTF?!?!?! I am the only "friend" she has left in this ridiculous situation and I'm paying her rent. If this was a man the events would have gone much differently.

I'm going to have a powpow with the landlord early tomorrow to determine the best course of action. She really is a miserable creature, and I mean that literally...

"She constantly refers to her two cats as her "kitties", creeeeepppppy."

um...not to, like, attempt to resemble someone you hate and all....but i totally call cats kitties. and i've srsly never done acid ever.

secondly, WOW, that's intense. it probably doesn't make you feel any better, i've just dealt with two (not one, but two) incredibly unreasonable tauruses. i feel ya bro. i feel ya.

I feel you too wheels, what is wrong with people today? Can't people act like adults and have a little dignity?

I am seriously worried about the situation, she could cost me thousands if the wind blows her in that direction. And I might lose my self control and do something hasty to her. We are going to have the cops intervene, it's the only answer.

On a side note, she has been looking for a new place to live over the past few weeks. An apartment is out of the question since she just declared bankruptcy (another surprise) and started a new job. And most roommates are unwilling to work with her because she has her two "pussies".

Anyway, she looked at a roommate situation a couple of days ago with a couple that had just bought a new three bedroom house. She really liked the people and the place, and they even came down $ 100 on the price because she somehow convinced them that she is sane. But she finally balked on it because the shower stall in her own personal bathroom was too small. WTF?!?!?! I had to leave because I was going to come unglued at her gall.

She's the ugliest princess I've ever met...

oh my gosh - i read it w/the censor on before so i JUST realized you wrote PUSSIES not kitties! rofl...i don't call cats pussies, oh gawd no. wooooo, anywayssss....

i do not blame you if you want to throttle this woman and beat her about the head with blunt objects. but even though it may KILLLLL you and make you feel like you've once again lost your balls - try with all you have to be patient. i promise that it will get better (it can't really get much worse, can it? *crossing fingers*). give it a little more time and she will be out of your hair and you will be free to go about your merry way. if she ends up costing you much, find a reason to sue her. that's life's infallible solution.

or work overtime? have your assets assessed? idk, i'm trying here.

Hey choco, I went inside the house on Friday night and there was no apparent damage. We left her alone this weekend, but I'm going to check in tonight.

It is my fault, I was hasty to get a new roommate to force the old one out. I really didn't need a roommate, but I definitely didn't do the proper background check. I am the one to blame for allowing her to move in, but I thought a 37 year old woman would at least be mature. I just want this whole mess behind me, she's a stress factory and her wheels are turning 24/7 to dream up new ways to make other people as miserable as she.

This situation has completely drained me, and I'm sure she thinks she got the last laugh. But she will always be an ugly person, it follows her like a cloud. She needs hate and drama to keep her going, it's the only power she has left in life...

I spoke with her last night and everything is fine, for now. She agreed to quit rocking the boat. I just hope it sticks, she is so unpredictable. I know she is going through a rough time but for christ's sake act like an adult.

But I'm relieved, I think she found a nice place to live and sounds much more relaxed. The world would be a much better place if we all just got along. Peace, hope, happiness, fuzzy bunnies...

🙂

i'm a leo-virgo cusp and i tend to befriend mostly earth signs in general. lotsa virgo and taurus friends (and one cap!). my only problem is that ALL of the virgo females that have ever been in my life have screwed me over like u wouldn't believe. they always become a great, steadfast friend and we'll be tight friends for years. then all of a sudden *poof* they disappear from my life with no reason whatsoever. they literally fall off the face of the earth and never return. it would be understandable had we been prone to fighting/disagreements or something, but, no. not the case at all. one of them "left" me for an ex-bf of mine (which she knew i could have cared less; i'm the one who dumped him and she was witness to the fraud of a relationship we were in!). the other left me because i think she didn't see me fitting into her life anymore (in school she was the popular cheerleader type; i was kind of an outcast and did my own thing but could blend with any crowd). i never knew the real reason.

i like my taurus boys though. they are excellent to me. don't wanna date 'em but they treat me the best. the cap boy and i have the most intense connection but he's very hot and cold so he's weird! then again i'm weird too!