Charming a lioness..

any advice? i'm a pisces/aries cusp.

i can get charts later when i'm on my home cpu, thanks in advance!

I met her last november, until recently she had been seeing another guy. I'm a little embarrassed to say she's turning 17 tomorrow, so that makes me 3 and half years older. Although 17 is the age of consent in IL, so she's fair game. No quality time, until now the only times I'd see her was when her boyfriend was hanging out with a mutual friend of ours. In addition, we've exchanged some emails and recently phone numbers. B/c of the age difference I've been trying to play it cool and not seem too interested even though she's been on my mind lately. She's a dancer, she has a great body I couldn't believe she's only a senior in highschool. She asked me to the beach for her bday tomorrow, guess I'll see how that goes and take it from there.

She left her boyfriend 2-3 weeks ago before she left for vacation in FL...

Also, we had been exchanging texts and she mentioned how she was still in bed at 2pm. I asked her if she had a wild night she responded she was just being lazy. At that point I preceded to use flattery, which is generally out of my character. I responded "it certainly doesn't show, you look like an athlete" breaking my 'not-so-interested' attitude. Not sure if that was the right move yet.

It's a sticky situation bc she spends time w her ex still.

Any red flags to look for?

Hmm...

"Why do you want her so badly?

Shit...and furthermore she asked you to the beach tomorrow on her B-DAY.

::faints::....runs for the boarder, dame she would be aug 6th"

What's wrong with II decan?

"Leos like to collect admirers, they are shallow like that"

You're saying I shouldn't flatter, or seem too interested?

"Chi....i am a II decan,my b-day is 8/6, so believe me i know what she is doing and what she will do."

Quee?

So, what is this II decan you are going on about?
Chocolate covered strawberries looking for prunes??
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the beach is more casual than i might've made it sound, it's not going to be just the two of us. i'm bringing some friends and she'll be doing the same.

::smooches to choco::

You can even build your own diamond ring on that website, and save it! It's fun. Try it!

"Yes, she still has feelings for her ex. And yes she is enjoying the attention you are giving her. I don't think you should pursue her. If you do, protect your heart. If we still have feelings for our ex (esp if they just recently broke up too..), if you pursue her, I guarantee you she will keep going back to her ex."

Don't worry I'm not about to go head over heels for a senior in HS, I'm reasonably well grounded.

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Thanks so much Chocolate 🙂
Pizza and salad for me tonight!!

FFDD... Details please?

hey chi,

hmmm.. leos are pretty loyal when in relationships, so chances are, if she's really in love and secure with her bf, you're going to have to put up an impossibly HUGE fight to try and win her over. if the relationship is rocky, it may be easier. the thing with leos is, once the feeling is gone, they can drop you like THAT, and half the time you won't even see it coming. good luck!

hey, what's wrong with collecting admirers? i don't do it on purpose but i won't turn one away because they like me (does not translate to me leading them on mind u). i openly admire others too so it's not a one-way street.