HEY LEO AND LEO LOVERS...WHATS HIS PROBLEM?!

OKAY SO WHAT GIVES!? I recieved alot of post saying its a "GOOD" that i didnt have sex with the leo man after telling him straight foward that i wanted more than a sexual relationship with him, but i cant tell. Its been 3 days and thats completely out of the norm for me and him ...i mean i know i shouldnt care, and i dont regret not giving in but whats his deal— I mean he texted me saying " Your mine, okay?" I told him okay, then he starts telling me not to cheat on him and what-not, then he trys to have sex, i say no and he backs off >=/ thats not fair. I mean geesh, he's fine as all get out doors, i didnt think he'd care that ONE girl turned him down. He's distant, no texts nothing. Then when i reach out and contact him he has the nerve to ask why have i been a stranger, and even acts excited to hear from me, is this some kind of joke or is this how leo's roll...im irratated..i really liked this guy..any suggestions on what to do?

SERIOUS ADVICE ONLY PLEASE....im not joking. I need help

Sounds to me like you may have tweaked his ego a bit by turning him down. Especially if he really and truly likes you. However, I think not sleeping with him yet is a good move. If he really likes you he will respect you more and he will come around if he wants to be with you. Im in a relationship with a Leo male and I refused to give into him sexually until he understood that I wanted more than just a sexual relationship. He started out with saying that he didnt want to be in a serious relationship so I told him to sow his oats then and get back to me when he was ready and maybe I'd still be available, not big deal..... it worked... he committed to me. Stand your ground.... Lions like a challenge. But above all... be honest about your feelings. If you really like him... let him know... but keep your personal boundaries in tact until you are ready for them to be crossed.

@leoladylovestobeloved FINALLY A REPLY! Thanks girl!lol. This leo has been driving me nuts. I honestly dont know what else to do. I thought he knew how much i like him.I told him the first time he tried to get me to spend the night how much i liked him, and that i wasnt the type of girl to give it up that quick. I also let him kno i was interested in getting to know the real him, i even told him just like you told your leo that if he wasnt looking for a relationship that i understand, but he pursued anyway. Thats when he asked me to spend the day with him the next day and tried to get lucky at the end of the date, which sort of offended me because i felt like he completely ignored what i said. Since then we've spoken on the phone and even though he sounded happy to hear from me, lately i've been intiating contact. Then one night out of the blue i texted him asking what he was doing. He texted back "I want you, but you scared of me" I told him i could assure him that me being scared is not the case. He said "prove it"

and im thinking...WHAT DOES THAT MEAN??!!?

Then yesterday i texted him "wats up stranger" and he texted back " Hey.." Normally he says "Hey boo, or wats up boo" So i got offended and just stopped responding altogether. Was that petty? I just feel he's becoming bord or aggitated with me because im not giving him what he wants...what do you think?

@ Sweetlibra..thank sooo much! I really appreciate your comments. They certainly answered alot of questions. I honestly feel im going to lay this leo down by the riverside and keep it moving. Because after reading your advice and some others, its obvious he's not into me the way that i'm into him. Its clear he's after only one thing, and im not going to PROVE anything to any man, by spreading my legs.
And i want to tell you Sweetlibra that you and i sound so much alike that its scary!LOL. I have had my weak moments as well and believe me it was no walk in the park nor was it easy turning my leo down. It was hell! He almost got me too.lol. However i had to remind myself that he wouldnt appreciate it. I've tried the whole spirit of the moment thing, men simply dont apprciate it. Well they do at the moment, but after its like okay race over game over. I didnt want that with him, and although he told me he admired my classiness, i cant tell. So i guess that where your advice about his actions not matching comes into play. I really liked him, and the sad part is he will never know how much because i've been crushing on him long before we even met i just didnt want to seem like a groupie so i waited for him to approach me,and had he hung in there for a couple more weeks or month he prolly would have gotten lucky. As you say, his loss.Its crazy but Im sad though 😢

You're welcome. What do I think? Well, by him telling you to PROVE IT... he wants to see if he can get you to give in to him.. just as SweetLibra stated above. A leo man possesses one hell of an ego, but he has a warm heart beneath that pride. He cant help it, he's a natural hunter... he likes to conquer his prey. He's testing you to see if you will give into him and feed his ego. Keep your guard up. Dont give in until your ready. Very likely he will continue to stay in contact with you... don't overdo it. Let him come to you and don't pursue him, but show him interest when he does contact you. As a Lioness... I have a rule.... if I text/call you once and you dont reciprocate, I will give it one more try but after the second time if I get no response, I dont make contact again.

SweetLibra mentioned the part about how they dont want to be mean so they may pacify you with a response... I have to agree with this, I do that even if Im not interested. Let you down easy kinda thing, however you will pick up on it in the tone/content of the text if he's truly not interested. If his responses are short and detached he may have found another interest. Leo men are known to become distracted very easily and get wrapped up quickly in romances/sexual prowesses.... but if this is the case... be glad you stuck to your guns and kept your morality in tact.

Confronting him and telling him exactly what you need/expect in a relationship is a good thing. THey like strong women who know what they want and value themselves. Just be completely genuine in your feelings because if your not, they can smell it.

Good luck!

Posted by LeoLadyLovesToBeLoved
You're welcome.

SweetLibra mentioned the part about how they dont want to be mean so they may pacify you with a response... I have to agree with this, I do that even if Im not interested. Let you down easy kinda thing, however you will pick up on it in the tone/content of the text if he's truly not interested. If his responses are short and detached he may have found another interest. Leo men are known to become distracted very easily and get wrapped up quickly in romances/sexual prowesses.... but if this is the case... be glad you stuck to your guns and kept your morality in tact.

Confronting him and telling him exactly what you need/expect in a relationship is a good thing. THey like strong women who know what they want and value themselves. Just be completely genuine in your feelings because if your not, they can smell it.

I dont know why but the first part of the response when you two talk about them letting you down easy sort of scares me.Maybe its the libra in me, but i absoulutely couldn't fathom someone dissing me. Its a HUGE insult. However my bestfriend is a leo, and she does this too. i always tease her about it...i be like just dont respond because it will make a person think they have a shot and she goes well its better than what you do, she teases me because i'll just drop off the face of the earth until the person im not into is no longer into me, then i'll be their friend. (not good i know) But hopefully he isn't my karma. I really like this guy, and even if he doesn't want a relationship with me for whatever reason, i hope he was just sparing me because he wants someone that will jump at his roar a little quicker. But if he's dissing me ...omg TEAR 😢


To the 2nd part...Maybe he sniffed it out that i actually did want him sexually but i didnt want it to end there, so is it possible that he's aggitated with me and thinking im holding out sexually just to toy with him?? I hope not...

@Sweetlibra the last part made me feel better. Perhaps its best for me to back off and let him come to me. I harldy ever call or text him, like this was my first time texting him in almost 2 weeks. However when i do reach out and contact him it takes alot of courage and he when he got short, it was sort of like a slap in the face sort-to-speak. However i think i should mention that his brother passed away this week and its a really touching time for him and his friends and family. They have even dedicated a whole day in the family for his passing. Of course i didnt know this when i got mad at his short text, but the libra in me wants to do something really sweet like send flowers or a powering song in a text to let him know im here for him. But i think that would be over doing considering we not on that level. But that might explain his shortness with me...my poor baby...i just want to go over there and hug him and cook for him and jus baby him. I swear if i were his girl he wouldn't have to lift a finger tommorow (thats the day they dedicated to his brother) i would spoil him the whole day just to get him to feel some sort of peace with his brother memory...boy do i have it bad for this leo.lol

"I do agree with Leolady when she says that Leo's have a big heart. It's just getting the males to see you as more than a piece of ass so you are able to experience their hearts."

^^^ YEP YEP YEP!!!! The ONLY way you will accomplish this is to continue to stand your ground with him. Im not saying NEVER give in.... he is a highly sexual being and sex is VERY important (if not the MOST important) thing to him in a relationship. I'm saying keep your guard up until you feel that he is begining to give you some of what you want. You will know in your heart when that is happening. Oh and if you get his heart he will make you feel as if you are the ONLY thing in the world that matters.... you will be his queen!

Now, in lieu of your explanation above regarding his short text.... Id say he definitely had reason to be short... a lot on his mind. I know when Im sad I sometimes dont want to deal with anyone or anything... Leo's by nature are a fiery and outgoing happy personality and being down and sad is sometimes a very hard emotion for us to process. I agree with SweetLibra that sending him flowers or reaching out to him is a good idea. I believe that if you are there for him in his time of need it will also show him that you are a quality human being with his best interests at heart. It could be a stepping stone for two to become closer too.

I know in my particular situation... this happened with my Leo as well... I was the only one that was there for him in a time of need and immediately after, his whole attitude changed. He realized that my heart was in it regardless of the circumstances and if he wanted something concrete with me he was gonna have to conform to what I was looking for inorder to keep me around. Not saying this will happen with your Leo but if he is remotely interested in you..... it will certainly be a very nice and caring gesture that he will remember! I say go for it.

Thanks ladies! I really do like him as a person, and if even we dont hit it off romantically, i'd still like to be friends. I sent him a sweet text letting him know that even tho i didnt have the pleasure of meeting his brother i know how special he was to him and i let him know i'll have him and his loved ones in my prayers. I hope he knows i mean it. Him and anyone who knew his bro/bestfriend are all going out to eat, and then to a party at a club to celebrate his memory. I didnt want to show at the dinner because that seems for more close people that knew him, and if i had the dough to get my hair done i'd show up at the club looking fierce to show him the fire that burns in my heart outside of the Lord is for him...right now that is...lol. Who knows who i'll be crushing on if he keeps me at a distance like this...but heres hoping... 🙂 I hope he liked my message...

Guess he didnt like the message...he didnt even respond. Well i tell yall thats it! I mean geesh! That was just plain rude! Im hurt angry, and i feel completely stupid for being so sweet and he doesn't even appreciate it. I feel i jumped out there, even though i just wanted him to know i cared because i know how special his brother/bestfriend was to him, it still hurts that he didnt even have the decency to respond and say thank you. Wow...smh 😢

Your right. I had a talk with my mom and she said the same thing. When i told her what i texted him she told me it was sooo sweet. She also told me not to apologize for my kind personality because thats just how i am. And im glad there's another libra or woman period that can understand where im coming from with these crazy men.lol. I cant wait until im a little more mature about these things though, because right now i just cant help it. All i knew was it took sooo much for me think of the perfect words to express my condolences and for him not to acknowlegde it jus effed me up at the moment. But now im calm and your right i should've been a little more understanding. If it were my bestfriend i'd be somewhere balling my guts out not talking to anyone (she and i have been friends for 10 yrs). Anyway, i guess its a good thing i didnt express my sadness about his silence to him. He'd be like this chick has lost it! lol. Thanks SweetLibra you are a HUGE help...i really appreciate your advice. Thanks Again...and dont worry because you know im going to keep you posted.lol

Absolutely give him more time. THere is no telling what is going on with him. He may be overwhelmed with family and friends and/or events. He may not even have his phone on him at all times either. He is greiving right now and there is no way you can tell how long or how overwhelmed he may be right now. I know personally, that I am not good in times of death and such.... Ive been through my share of them and Im always very awkward in dealing with them. He may be as well.... he may not even know how or what to say just yet. Let it lie for a little bit. Its a difficult time. I guarantee it will not go unnoticed!

your right. he still hasn't responded, but i dont care anymore. At the end of the day i know im an excellent woman, an i was sweet n nice to him. if he see's it before it's too late then great, if not then it's his lost. He prolly has a gf already stashed away some where anyway you kno how men are now days....lol

right ^^

You did the right & decent thing pinklibra. He may just be on the prowl now and doesn't want to work for a quality woman. We can get pretty lazy. 😛 Don't contact him again. If he texts you, don't answer. Not until he calls a few times.
Find a guy who will appreciate ALL that you have to offer. How do you know if a guy is into you? He will never cause doubt in your mind. Any guy who confuses you with his actions or words, is confused himself or not that into you or just wants to play. Women too often put the blame on themselves. Believe me, men know what we're doing and we take advantage of playing dumb to manipulate you. Be smart, dump a guy who isn't giving you what you want. Don't ask why he does/doesn't do this or that, just think he's not enriching my life in a meaningful way so bye bye. You got to be somewhat cold because men take advantage of a woman's sensitive nature so he buys time to play on the side while you're waiting in the wings.

Posted by SweetLibra
Awww, I know how you feel PinkLibra. I was crushing hard on my Leo when he was around too. I thought he was quite a catch until he proved me wrong. I was pretty disappointed. I'm still holding out hope for you girl. I would like to see someone win their Leo's heart because so far all I see in this section is one heartbreak after the other. I know that's how I wound up on DXP, because of the Leo I was seeing and looking for answers to some of his behavior.
I hope your Leo comes to his senses before you forget about him. I really hope he is just still pulling himself together from the loss of his brother and he just doesn't want to talk to anyone right now. Keep us posted girl 🙂

I know what u mean. I joined DXP to help me out because i had my first HUGE crush on a leo guy and b4 then i had my small encounters with them but they didnt spark my interest "like that" until him. But now it seems that leo's are all i attract. Lots of Leo's and virgos lately ~shrugs shoulders~. Plus everytime i read up on leo and libra compatibility it says we are supposed to be an EXCELLENT match one of the best in the zodiac. Personally i feel we link better with saggitarius. I had so much fun with my sagg, it seemed we connected in a way that was almost regal and pur magic literally...but that was b4 he broke my heart into a zillion pieced. 😢 ...But in reference to the leo and libra "supposedly" excellent compatibility I CANT TELL!lol. Half the women on here are libra women that have had her heart lifted and dropped by a leo man at some point.lol. WHERE IS THE LOVE LEO'S—LOL

And as far as my leo guy coming to his senses, if he ever does he has alot of proving to do. Because now i dont trust him. He showed me that his mind was on one thing, and one thing only. He also showed his selfish side. HUGE TURN OFF. And his brother that passed was actually his bestfriend they jus say they were brothers. He passed away a year ago. The day they celebrated this past tuesday was them honoring his memory because it was now a yr later. So i can understand if he still a little broken up at times but damn,if someone were to reach out to me to show they care about my feelings because i lost someone really special would definitely at least get a Thank you in appreciation. He didnt even say thank you, even if he didnt wana talk. So right now, im so cool on him its not even funny. I dont

Posted by Jonleo
You did the right & decent thing pinklibra. He may just be on the prowl now and doesn't want to work for a quality woman. We can get pretty lazy. 😛 Don't contact him again. If he texts you, don't answer. Not until he calls a few times.
Find a guy who will appreciate ALL that you have to offer. How do you know if a guy is into you? He will never cause doubt in your mind. Any guy who confuses you with his actions or words, is confused himself or not that into you or just wants to play. Women too often put the blame on themselves. Believe me, men know what we're doing and we take advantage of playing dumb to manipulate you. Be smart, dump a guy who isn't giving you what you want. Don't ask why he does/doesn't do this or that, just think he's not enriching my life in a meaningful way so bye bye. You got to be somewhat cold because men take advantage of a woman's sensitive nature so he buys time to play on the side while you're waiting in the wings.

I guess this explains why the mean girls always gets the guy huh? lol. Thanks Jonleo. I appreaciate it. However im only cold when i dont care. I do have a mean streak but i dont even realize when im doing it.lol. My friends and fam say i can get pretty "cut-throat" and damn slash a person without have the effort with my words when i want to. I use to diss this one dude tho, and i really liked him. But the more he responded to my care-free take it or leave attitude...the more i acted like i didnt give a shit. I didn't do this with my leo because i read on here that leo men dont respond well to resistance and if a woman plays hard to get he quickly forgets about her. So i KNEW i wasnt gona give it up, but i was trying to be nice by still calling and texting from time to time so he wont forget me and know that i still like him. But its a wrap on that mess now. lol

Posted by SweetLibra
Oh, JONLEO should start a thread giving pointers on what it takes to land a Leo man for good. He gives great advice on here. Help us out JONLEO! What is it that a Leo really wants from his woman? Give us all the inside scoop and all the little known tricks (for lack of a better word) we can put in our arsenals. I'm not into playing games in a relationship, but dating does require a little. Like when a Leo man is first showing interest, how should we respond in order to keep him on his toes and interested in the long haul? Would he respond better to a woman who never picked up the phone to call him? Do Leo men like to do all the chasing? Or is it simply a question of timing with Leo men? Could it be that until he has tired of all the chasing and carousing that he will not settle down and focus on one woman no matter how fly she is when he encounters her? If he still wants to roam, he may stop to play, but once she caves he's gone?

OMG...i second these questions JONLEO where u at?!LOL

Posted by SweetLibra
@JONLEO, you mentioned in another thread I was on that you have dated Libra women in the past before you finally settled down with an Aries I believe. You said you liked them, but it didn't work out. What was it that kept you from settling down with the Libra's? Could it be our over-analyzing the relationship comes across as insecurity? Was there anything in particular you noticed about Libra's that told you it wouldn't work long term? And please don't hold back. We can take it 🙂

Sorry for hijacking your thread PINKLIBRA, but I would love to hear what he has to say. From what I can tell, once you get your hooks in a Leo he's great and can be all that you ever wanted. But how do you make it to that point without losing all of your hair?

And omg i totally do the over analyzing thing like a bad habit that i just cannot shake in any relationship. Libra women have that shit real bad. For some reason we dont just see things for what they are, we have see it or them from every point of view.SMH...i drive myself crazy sometimes with it...i jus cant help it...lol



Girl please...lol. By all means...i wana know too!lol. I keep attracting these fine ass leo mofos but caint keep em for some reason and im an excellent catch...i know i look good. im sweet as pie, im an excellent listener, smart as hell, good job, own car, church going...i mean HELLOOOOOoooo.lol.

SO YALL ARE NOT GONA BELIVE IT! I KNEW IT! MY BESTFRIEND CALLED N TOLD ME THE JERK OF LEO WAS IN A PIC WITH HIS EX...AND EVEN THO THEY WEREN'T ALL HUGGED UP..IT STILL PISSES ME OFF TO THINK THAT HIM BEING AROUND HER IS THE REASON HE COMPLETELY IGNORED MY CONDOLENCES...THAT IS SOO MESSED UP. BUT LIKE I SAID...ITS ALLL GOOD. 😉

Thanks ladies for your vote of confidence. I can't speak for all Leo men as you know. There are just my opinions.
You've given me a lot to think about so give me some time and I'll do my best.

Posted by pinklibra
SO YALL ARE NOT GONA BELIVE IT! I KNEW IT! MY BESTFRIEND CALLED N TOLD ME THE JERK OF LEO WAS IN A PIC WITH HIS EX...AND EVEN THO THEY WEREN'T ALL HUGGED UP..IT STILL PISSES ME OFF TO THINK THAT HIM BEING AROUND HER IS THE REASON HE COMPLETELY IGNORED MY CONDOLENCES...THAT IS SOO MESSED UP. BUT LIKE I SAID...ITS ALLL GOOD. 😉

Sorry to hear that, but.... I do believe it. I think I mentioned earlier that if he doesnt respond it usually is because he has found someone else that has caught his interest. Typical. But JonLEo is right... if a man is interested he will not leave you room for doubt unless he is playing games. Unfortunately, in the beginning stages of a relationship these are things we are trying to figure out.

And yes... sometimes being the bitch or just playing a bit hard to get works out for you in the long run. Im learning that with my Leo.... I avoided seeing him again for three weeks after the first time we met and even then, I kept him at arms length. Now he is eating out of my furry little Leo paws.... he is trying to tell me that he is falling for me and I am like "too soon.... lets just take this day by day" its killing him!

And yes JonLeo.... more advice from you would be great! We dont have a lot of Leo men here!

Posted by SweetLibra

Posted by pinklibra
SO YALL ARE NOT GONA BELIVE IT! I KNEW IT! MY BESTFRIEND CALLED N TOLD ME THE JERK OF LEO WAS IN A PIC WITH HIS EX...AND EVEN THO THEY WEREN'T ALL HUGGED UP..IT STILL PISSES ME OFF TO THINK THAT HIM BEING AROUND HER IS THE REASON HE COMPLETELY IGNORED MY CONDOLENCES...THAT IS SOO MESSED UP. BUT LIKE I SAID...ITS ALLL GOOD. 😉

Wow! That is messed up. Sounds like you dodged a bullet. On to the next one!

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AGREED!!! Dont waste anymore time on him. Find someone who knows and appreciates your worth! He is out there!

Posted by SweetLibra
LEOLADYLOVESTOBELOVED & JONLEO are holding this section down! I love the advice you two give. I wish there were more Leo's on DXP. And I'm glad to hear some good stories about Leo's. There are too many complaints on here already. Thanks for keeping it real.

LLLTBL - looks like you knew exactly what to do to keep your guy coming back 🙂 I need to take some pointers from you missy...lol!

LOL... trust me honey... Ive made my share of mistakes in relationships for sure! Ive had to learn the hard way to be a bit more hard with men. My big soft Leo heart gets me into WAY too much trouble sometimes. Im too nice for my own good a lot of the time and that in turn sticks in me situations where I get taken advantage of. I just dont let it get me down.... its who I am and eventually someone will love me for me. The Leo sure seems to get that and appears to really like me for me... but who knows. Ive been wrong before! LMAO!

So nice to see some Leo Men in here!!! ROAR!!!!

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Posted by LeoLadyLovesToBeLoved
So nice to see some Leo Men in here!!! ROAR!!!!

who could resist a beautiful Lionesses call for help 🙂

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Posted by Strider
your fear is understandable as you don't have the heart of a lion . It takes balls to be with a lioness after all 🙂

All kidding aside... if I had a dime for everytime I heard a man (ex boyfriends and male friends) tell me "all I know is the man who dates you will have to have a brass set of balls on him" Id be a very wealthy woman! I always chalked it up to my Leo sun and my Aqua rising.... makes for a very unique personality.

Posted by everevolvingepithet
'heart of a lion'

LMFAO

Ok Aslan, how do I go about acquiring a Lion's heart ?

Dont hate Bling! Your heart is quite fetching! Id still do you! hehe

Thanks everybody for all the comments. I really appreciate it especially the LEO MEN...there you guys are....lol. Ladies i thank you as well. Im done with that leo male in particular, its been a week and i haven't spoken to or reached out to contact him. So im pretty darn proud of myself.lol.I definitely think i can do better...but i forget to tell yall that the pic with his ex was from last yr..but it still pissed me off that she had it as her profile pic. It was a pic of him and her with t.shirts on that say "R.I.P ..." with his bestfriend that passed name on them. So i calmed down once i saw that. But it still sort of made me think that she was prolly with him on that day and thats the reason he didnt AT LEAST say thank you. But whatever...its water under the bridge now, but you better believe im gon remember that when i see him, which will prolly be sooner than later 😉

Okay EVERYONE i have an update, I honestly dont get this leo.lol. The last time we spoke, i practically poured my heart out to him because i was told leo's love directness and honesty so thats what i did but to no avail. It seemed to go right over his heart and straight to his physical side. Unless leos only know how to express themselves thru the physical side of romance then i can honestly say i think this guy is strictly out for sex. It hurts but its true. I pour my heart out basically telling him i like him alot and that im not afraid of him and he tells me to prove it. Thats the last time we spoke. That was over a month ago. Lately he's been tagging me in pictures and invites to his parties on my wall. Im like what the hell?lol. Then jus recently i went to one of his partys. I know for a fact he saw me, but he didnt say anything. (Possibly because his ex was there) Then he saw me at the mall this past weekend he spoke first. I spoke back but he kept walking while staring at me like a hawk. So i stared back thinking he's stop but he just kept staring and walking, so i waved him off and broke the stare. It pissed me off! Then last night I had this crazy dream about him, and when i woke up he inboxed me on fb saying "I want you". I wrote bac, "Prove it". Was that childish? Or mean?

Posted by LeoLadyLovesToBeLoved

Posted by everevolvingepithet
'heart of a lion'

LMFAO

Ok Aslan, how do I go about acquiring a Lion's heart ?

Dont hate Bling! Your heart is quite fetching! Id still do you! hehe

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In that Southern Belle accent ?
You're just trying to make tate jealous, but thank you kindly for such warm words 🙂

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Posted by everevolvingepithet
'heart of a lion'

LMFAO

Ok Aslan, how do I go about acquiring a Lion's heart ?

Dont hate Bling! Your heart is quite fetching! Id still do you! hehe

In that Southern Belle accent ?
You're just trying to make tate jealous, but thank you kindly for such warm words 🙂

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Oh fiddle-dee-dee about Tate.... he's off chasin sheep. You know I cant shake this southern accent sugar! 😉

HI., I VE BEEN WITH A LEO MEN FOR 4 MONTH.. IN THESE 4 MONTH EVERYTHING WAS WONDERFUL WE MET IN DECEMBER AND STARTED DATING IN MARCH... ONE DAY .. I LEFT MY PHONE IN THE HOUSE I DIDNT CARE BECAUSE I DIDNT HAVE ANYTHIGN TO HIDE... WELL HE SAW A TEXT OF AN OLD FRIEND WHO HAD OFFERED TO PAY MY CELL PHONE BILL WHEN HE SEEN THIS HE WAS HEATED .. I CAN JUST IMAGINE THE WAYS HE WANTED ME OUT OF HIS SIGHT.I CRIED AND HE LOOKED LIKE HE HAD FULL EYES OF TEARS .. BUT THANK GOD WE MADE UP... AFTER THAT I PROMISED NEVER TO HURT HIM AGAIN.. ONE MONTH AFTER THAT HE WENT OUT WITH HIS FRIENDS AS ALWAYS HES LIKE BABY IS ITOK IM LIKE YES ITS FINE GO HAVE FUN.HE COMES HOME SHIT FACED HIS PHONE GOES OFF WITH ALERT FOR A TEXT MESSAGE NOW I NEVER WENT THROUGH HIS PHONE BUT I DID THIS TIME .. ALL I SEEN WAS A TEXT SAYING OK I WILL ... SO WHEN I LOOKED BACK AT WHAT SHES TALKING BOUT HE SENT HER A TEXT SAYING HEY SEXY LADY THIS IS JOHN THIS IS MY NUMBER HIT ME UP... WHEN I TELL YOU MY HEART DROPED SO HARD I STARTED HAVING PANIC ATTACKS.I COULDNT WAKE HIM UP BECAUSE HE WOULDNT KNOW WHAT WAS GOING ON SO THE NEXT MORNING I DID HE SAID HE DONT REMEMBER TEXTING HER AND HE WAS WASTED... SO I ASKED HIM PLEASE CALL HER AND TELL HER NOT TO BOTHER YOU ANY MORE... SO HE SAID HE WOULD CAME BACK FROM WORK I ASKED DID YOU CALL HE SAID YES I SAID LET ME SEE THE CALL LOGG HE SAID I DELETED ... RIGHT THERE AND THEN TO ME HE WAS HIDING SOMETHING ..THEN HE GOES WELL HOW DO I KNOW U DONT TALK TO THAT GUY THAT PAID YOUR BILL.. I WAS LIKE TAKE MY WORD ..SO HE LOOKS AT ME AND SAYS TAKE MY WORD I COULDNT SAY NOTHING (ALSO TO REMIND YOU I WAS LIVING WITH HIM FOR GOOD MONTH ) ONCE I MOVED OUT EVERYTHING WENT DOWN THE HILL WE ARGUED I ATTACKED HIM ALL THE TIME HAVING SOMEONE OVER... NAGGING DIDN TRUST HIM.. NEXT THING YOU KNOW WE TOOK A BREAK .. WE TALKED ABOUT THIS BREAK AND HE SAYS TO ME IM NOT SAYING WERE DONE BUT I DONT KNOW WHO WILL COME MY WAY OR WHO WILL COME UR WAY SO PRETTY MUCH HE KEPT HIS OPTIONS OPEN.. I JUST DIDNT GET THE MEMO.FEW MONTHS DOWN THE ROAD I GO TO THIS WEBSITE WE MET ON .. AND TRYED TO GUESS HIS PASSWORD AND I DID .. HE WAS STILL TALKING TO WOMAN EXCHANGING NUMBERS ..BUT NEVER MET UP WITH THEM AT LEAST I DIDNT SEE IT IN THE MESSAGE BUT HEY THEY COULD OF TEXTED EACHOHER ... SO WHEN I FOUND OUT I CONFRONTED HIM ... HE SAID HE IS TRULY SORRY THAT WAS WRONG OF HIM TO DO ... BUT ALL THE ARGUING AND FIGHING AND ATTACKING HE WAS GOING TO DELETE IT IF ALL THIS STOPED ...