I need advice please help me

Hello I think I made a big mistake with my leo man. I accused him of being with someone else. He said that I am to clingy, but im not he and I live in different states I don't text or call him. I let him call and text me and I only see him once or twice a month so how am I clingy? Well I sent him a text and I apologized for accusing and I was wrong on my part. He replies Im not in the mood to talk I will talk to you when im not mad anymore. So I said ok fine i'll leave him alone two days later he sends me a text saying im not in the mood to talk I just wanted to say morning.

So I said ok at least he sent me a text I cool with it, but me and my stupid self responded with a text and said good morning but I also was trying to break the ice between us and joke around with him and he did not respond. I did not hear from him for a few days. I sent out more text messages and still no response. I just wanna know did I lose this man because I apologized to him I even asked him if he is done with me if he and I can be friends. I did not want us to depart on bad terms and I still didn' t receive a response.

But before all of this happend I remember him saying to me that if he and I don't workout that he would want to be my friend forever. So I am quite confused. I really think that he does not want to deal with me anymore. But I really miss him and I like him a lot. So my question is there a chance of me getting this leo man back? I need advice bad on how I can fix this. Thank you

Hi. Give him some space. You may even need to disappear on him for a few days. Although he isn't responding, trust me, he will notice if he doesn't hear from you . & don't respond immediately when he finally reaches out . Let him miss you.

Posted by LeoLady2017
Hi. Give him some space. You may even need to disappear on him for a few days. Although he isn't responding, trust me, he will notice if he doesn't hear from you . & don't respond immediately when he finally reaches out . Let him miss you.

Yea I agree, give him some space.

He's manipulating you to think you're clingy so he can get away with shitty ass behavior. Yes give him space for life. I would move on. He flat out ignored you. That would be my cue to move on in silence.

Are you in an actual partnership with this guy?

If you have a gut feeling that he was messing around with someone else then I don't see the harm in addressing your concerns about it. His response sounds like you're right but he doesn't want to deal with the backlash.

find someone that doesn't find you clingy.

@bittercupcake is right. If you don't trust him, why are you with him? Why do you think he's is with someone else? If you suspect he's actually cheating on you, then you need to walk away because you can't have a worthwhile relationship with someone who is unfaithful. Stop wondering if you'll get him back because he's not worth having anyway. Have some self respect and drop him.

If you are just being paranoid, then you need to get out of this relationship. You are not going to be able to make it work if you can't trust the person you're with. Long distance relationships are difficult enough as is. You simply will not be able to handle it if you're paranoid on top of that.

Regardless there's nothing you can really do. This guy isn't trying to communicate and is giving you the silent treatment to punish you. That means you're currently dealing with a passive aggressive individual. It's really hard to have a healthy relationship with someone who has these tendencies (practically impossible). Again do yourself a favor and walk away.

If he contacts you let him know that ignoring you is not ok and you can't have a relationship with someone who is giving you the silent treatment.

Why do you suspect him for cheating on you? I ask this because Leo's generally are very loyal. I have never cheated whilst being in a relationship, but if I am single then there are no rules.

For a leo to be accused of cheating is a massive massive thing and its not something we take lightly.

He may well be punishing you because you hurt him. Its low but sometimes that we do.

I mean this in a polite way but do you actually have any proof of him cheating, and are your suspicions valid? if not then its just a display of insecurity which maybe an issue you have within yourself that you need to look into.

Break up with him.

Officially.

Posted by Emeralds
...I don't text or call him. I let him call and text me and I only see him once or twice a month...

That’s an unhealthy communication pattern. If he’s responsible for this then it’s an attempt to have more power in the relationship than you and would, in my opinion, point to you being a side chick. If this pattern is of your own making then you’re giving him more power in the relationship or are making communication (for him) into a chore. Healthy relationships aim to have partners of equal power.

Posted by Emeralds
Well I sent him a text and I apologized for accusing and I was wrong on my part. He replies Im not in the mood to talk I will talk to you when im not mad anymore. So I said ok fine i'll leave him alone two days later he sends me a text saying im not in the mood to talk I just wanted to say morning.

If he wants space then give him space, there’s nothing wrong with needing time to calm down before tackling a tricky and emotionally charged situation.

Posted by Emeralds
So I said ok at least he sent me a text I cool with it, but me and my stupid self responded with a text and said good morning but I also was trying to break the ice between us and joke around with him and he did not respond. I did not hear from him for a few days. I sent out more text messages and still no response. I just wanna know did I lose this man because I apologized to him I even asked him if he is done with me if he and I can be friends. I did not want us to depart on bad terms and I still didn' t receive a response.

If you suggested breaking up and didn’t get an answer then move on. People who play mind games like this are not relationship material. Take some time and focus on yourself, you seem to have low self-esteem if your negative self talk is anything to go by. People with low self-esteem tend to attract toxic people into their lives and will end up in a pattern of unhealthy relationships until they focus on self-love and self-worth.

Posted by Emeralds
But before all of this happend I remember him saying to me that if he and I don't workout that he would want to be my friend forever.

People change their minds on things like this all the time and frankly he doesn’t sound like he’d make a good friend if things don’t work out.

Posted by Emeralds
I really think that he does not want to deal with me anymore.

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If he makes you feel this way then let him go, let the relationship end and move forward with your life.