i need some LION advice pretty please

im a scorpio interested in a leo
can you give me some advice on how to attract you? hahah

somewhere i've read that scorpio and leo can be at odds with each other and feel as though they've met a match with one another. sometimes i dont feel on his level, because he attracts so much attention and seems to be so outwardly energetic and playful. leos, do you have any advice? what does a scorpio make you feel like?

you should do some board searching on this topic...

there's tons of posts on this....

hmm ok i will, i have read most scorpio/leo posts though

how long have you guys known each other?
do you think he's interested in you as well?

Be fun. Don't overanalyze. Don't share all of your issues upfront and don't try to pursue intense conversations right now. Enjoy life and he'll enjoy you.

Leowithcap

I have a question for you ... what if a leo does all that to YOU?

I seriously expected him to be more fun and flirtation but he was all intense and only wanted serious conversations and wanted to talk about my past. I don't understand.

my past and issues and his past and issues .... it was weird. He wouldn't let me up for air.

LS, that's really weird!! Maybe he has a lot of water in his chart?

Nope. None. He only has air and fire = gemini and leo ... maybe a taurus moon but I think gemini.

He just kept it serious the whole time.

I have no idea what to make of it.

At times, I felt like he was appologizing for his life. He was more flirty at the end of our last get together when I was leaving. He started speaking in French, being a bit flirty and fun but prior to that ... heavy and very cynical.

Actually, he became very affectionate at the end too when he realized I really liked having sex with him.

Maybe he really doesn't think I am into him. That could really be it. Not sure how to remedy it either.

a Leo with heavy Gemini influence...hmm...never met one of those before.

You know Kris .... I think you are right.

I know you want to guard but i think more assertiveness openess and less analayzing will do you much good .

He had me on personal question overload and I put my guard up.

what to do. what to do. what to do.

cookie was one.

Cookie could be quite "serious", too. I think he even described himself once as being a very serious person until he really gets to know someone.

He finds the fact that I am so restless and live in my head so much amusing.

I also need to stop challenging him.

what to do. what to do. what to do.

I need to develop a strategy.

true wheels. he did say that.

kiki, I apologize because I know this has been said too much, but just be real. just be yourself.

sorry for the derail. leowithcap said something interesting.

hangs head in shame.

😢

my best friend is a Scorp. She married a leo. They are very happy ... most of the time. lol!

scorpios have absolutely NO problem attracting me whatsoever. just a thought.

in fact, i am drawn to them like a moth to a flame 🙂.

LS, I love the fact that you spoke of strategy! I think there's a strategy for every person, too! Maybe with you being a Libra (I remember you being a Libra, right?), he probably felt that instant connection with you and given his Gemini influence, voiced that connection and intensity which overwhelmed you? I'll admit that I'm not really an intense person but the people that have brought it out of me have tended to be either Librans or Sagittarians.

Interesting Leowithcap .... how can I capatalize on it?

Ironically I am a hell of a lot of libra (5) planets and have 4 placements in Sag AND a leo moon.

In his voice message, on Sunday, he was definetly nervous.

If you have any ideas Leowithcap ... I would love to hear them. There HAS to be a way to save this as I really do believe we really like each other but his intensity freaked me out and my coldness, as a result of being freaked out, freaked him out.

I am Leowithcap's kryptonite. lol!

And I honestly believe he really does like me and is attracted to me, but my own behaviour has prevented this from moving forward. Otherwise, I would have let it be, as I have, with any number of other guys.

LS, I'm not exactly sure what your situation is (you have a lot of posts to backtrack through) :-). If you want something, go after it. Arrange to hang out. If he wants to indulge in deep conversations, then so be it. What IS your situation? YOu don't have to repost but if you know where you wrote it down, link me to it.

oh wow i just read all the responses! so overwhlemed.

hm, whoaitznara lets see we have been mutual friends for about a year now, we have always clicked really well i just never realized it was like a romantic/sexual thing until about a month ago. there is def. an attraction on both sides now, but stuff is moving very slowly.

hey wheelhomies ! that is what is so nice is we have been friends and i feel like i am myself around him, he has seen me do alot of really stupid stuff and i have seen him make mistakes too so there is a big ease between us.

my best girl friend is a leo, and i think about our relationship a lot. i also have another good friend who is a leo. i like leos they are always fun and surprise me a lot. and i always get good advice from my leo friend, but sometimes she just talks and talks and talks.

and really kris, are you a leo?

i dont think that i have been serious or intense about anything yet, we have a lot of space and i deal with all my emotions on my own. when we do see each other it is usually very light-hearted and silly. we have fun together, i want to have more adventures with him soon.

i know he is still healing from his last relationship that ended this summer, i do not like the girl he dated (for allong time!) she didnt like me either. (hm, i wonder why) so things are going slowly, and this weekend he told me he didnt want anything serious, so i am not pressuring him into anything, i dont feel like i have been at all anyway because i am doing my own thing too. soo we will see!!!!!

oh yes, i just wish i knew him better so i could understand him more. in time i will, i think.

it woul dbe neat to hear more feedback from leos on their experience with scorpio, hmm explain yourself to me lions!

well i'm not a leo...but i've been with one for a while now and my experience with him is always adventurous and something new. i can't speak for all the leo's but my guy does have a habit of being controlling and being in charge so every once in a while i have to back down, compromise is important. and he does the same as well. communication is key, he doesn't like to play games and is very straightforward with what he wants. every once in a while i will feel like he's not as deep as i am and isn't as emotional...but that's not the case, everyone's just got a different way of expressing their emotions...
overall though the relationship is great and we have lots of fun and understand each other.

as for your leo kiki1186, just continue having a fun time with this guy, see where that takes you, you said yourself he just got out of a relationship and doesn't want anything serious so don't pressure him and let things fall into place, if he's got feelings for you and wants to take it a step further you'll know it...

Leowithcap

(you have a lot of posts to backtrack through)

hee!

Basically a great date. We are both smitten. He calls within 8 hours of the first date ... BUT I am on the way home to our mutual hometown because my dad died. He doesn't get the email explaining where I am. (when he gets it 6 days later, he emails and calls immediately and tells me to call when I get back.)

So I do. I call him when I get back into town ... very awkward conversation.

Everyone tells me to ask him out because he probably feels weird as my dad just died. I do. We go out the next night. VERY intense, weird, unsettling ... I actually left very abruptly without really saying good-bye because I was freaked.

He calls a week later really kind of down. I was drunk as one of my friends had taken me out for hours of drinking. We start talking in subtext about letting each other go. He says, "Don't let me go unless you want to let me go." I say ... I am letting you go (trying to stop the silliness) but let me know when you want to get together again. He says the sex is explosive. I say yes but that I like him and there could be something there. He freezes on the other end so I say bye.

I call him twice after that inviting him out as per everyone's advice. He doesn't return the messages. I call him several weeks after that. He calls back immediately. We go for coffee.

Very odd, intense, weird again, he appologizes for not feeling well (hung-over) but we part on very good terms. He keeps hugging me, for at least 20 minutes, I say it was really nice to see you again. He says yes. It was really nice to see you too.

that was several weeks ago.

He knew I was going to be in hometown on last Saturday ... someone showed up at my mom's door Saturday night around 10 pm and rang the bell but by the time my mom got to the door, they were gone. I am positive it was him as we have no idea who else it would be. He called me the next day with information that I wanted. He had been out of town traveling for work. I called him back thanking him for info Wednesday.

Now I am back to waiting again.

Part of it is we are just sooo much a like. We are very odd reflections of each other, kind of like intense, warped, mirrors. It can feel like being in a room by yourself but with someone else.

He has said several times (on the second date) that I am the only woman who has ever just got it/him. I pretty much feel like he is the only man who has ever just got me.

We really deal with each other at base. We just GET each other: the good, the bad, the ugly. It is really just like being completely naked all the time. We don't really try to impress each other because there is no point. It is odd.

(shrugs)

LS, that seems like a lot to experience during the first few months of courtship. It would seem that the best approach would simply to give space, be warm when he comes around...and when you have those deep moments of reflection, engage in deep discussions if you're comfortable with it. He seems open enough.

So you don't think the ship has sailed on this yet?

I hope we do stay in contact even if it is only at a friendship level. There are many things about him that I admire and respect.

It will all come out in the wash I suppose.

I agree about the space thing. He seems to respond best when there are a couple of weeks between contact.

hm yes this is good advice, i feel like its what im doing. i back down and let him keep charge and other times he lets me boss him around. but i do feel a big space between us because i feel like he is still healing from his relationship and im not pressuring him into anything because i have my own things going on. i feel like i have been honest & true also with him and he knows that. but we are slowly getting to know each other intimately i feel...
well lets see this weekened was when he told me he wasnt ready for anything serious and now im not sure if we will keep progressing...but everything up to this has felt very natural. so i was going to wait and let him make the next move.
today i was running around doing other things and he just flashed me this huge grin and was waving really big at me, and asked me what i was doing, but i was caught up in other things,& couldn't give him full attention. so i am sure we will continue talking and everything but if it doesn't make any sort of progression then im going to let it go. so with a little more time, i'll see.

I have a lot of Scorpio friends and we always seem to have intense deep conversations. We understand each other very much, and that what makes the bond so strong.

no no, this was in person, walking around on this street near classes