OHHHHHH BOY....

here i am again, uhem...problemo Now we all know what happened with Mr scorpy, we ended it i basically cutt him off a couple months ago..didn't hear anything from one another, i came out of the looney bin A OK =), Now his birthday is Nov 5th and i was planning to call him, he still is a great friend in my eyes anyway..So of course i would call, but i wasn't at the computer for a while before and i just got an im from him..

12:42 A.M.]: just wanted to say hi.....hope your doing good hun
:59 A.M.]: thought you might think this is funny
:59 A.M.]: http://www.bordergatewayprotocol.net/jon/humor/web_animations/1.swf

uhem after having heart failure for a bit, i came back to reality and had no clue how to take this (aren't you all shocked?) lol i didn't answer his im, i was figuring i'll just call him on his bday, and i would have thought that was a completely friendly thing except for it saying "I love you" ... HELP the poor skitzo someone please! lol thank youuu in advance

If it was without that sound, or the sound was different, I would say that he still feels the same and is missing you. But I still think that it was a hidden message with those 3 little words. I think it's better not to think too much and just call him on his bday. You'll figure it out better when you talk to him.

Yes i think i'm gonna listen to you're advice guys..Thanks a bunch!

God, they really do fk with your head don't they!..

but i'm not into playing this time =/ what a pity LOL

i frikin already changed my cell number what the hell man! i forgot about the sn tho... woops

Cap: "thats scorps favorate passtime i guess"

Yeah it is...A close friend of mine was saying to me that she told her scorpion man that he was very dear to her..his response to this was:

"Don't make me dear to you hun, I am scorpion remember, just a bit of advice"

😉

that means they like to play with minds... SINNERS! lolol

asking a gemini to decide? LOL ha! (lets go with both, ya know ...just for fun) 😉

haha

Cap, I think they are afraid of what they can do when in love...Its difficult to explain..we usually end up hurting the ones we love most...or end up killing ourselves..its too much to handle at times..weird..

I am going to post a piece I found very interesting..A scorpio woman in love..read it all and it will explain..quite horrific..lol..when I get the time of course..

Cap: yes thats another way of looking at it..

Cap: "he waited to marry my cousin for years since her family was againt it."

aww thats cute...thats the kind of scorp you want!

Ah, Scorps are just plain crazy people, you never know what they think. It's better not to expect anything with them. Just go with the flow..

"man virgo scare me now"

what do you mean, cap?

yeah, that's what I think I have seen in your previous posts. But what about virgos? I'm lost 8-)

Cap: "oh nothing.. i kinda like a scorp thats why."

hahahhaa...

damn, MM, don't laugh at cap.. that's very serious..lol

ok, cap.. I hope you are wrong 😢

yes, I'm cappy. and yes, I like someone.. I'm trying to take it slowly though coz damn I care for him so much

If I don't laugh I will cry...so lets all laugh..

SS - are you cap?

Cap: Yeah there are quite a few virgo/scorp couples..go figure..You caps can't declare your love and us Scorps need to hear that once in a while..so I guess that explain the reason...Virgos are a little more forward in that department..

Like that virgo guy I was telling you all about, he spoke to me again from his holiday yesterday..first we were joking around then he said "when I get back to the UK, I want to spend a lot of time with you, I know I have been really busy with work and I put everything on a back burner..but now hopefully I won't let work interrupt me..time to move this forward. I hope you can make time for me so I can show you how much of a sentimental sod I really am..and I want a hug"

Awww...shweet..

"If I don't laugh I will cry...so lets all laugh.."

ok.. hahahahaha.. hahahaha...

I did my part of it.. 😛

I am a Scorp but I WANT a scorp...I love the drama, the fights, the jealousy and the possessiveness....

SS: "I did my part of it.. "

You did no such thing!

"I am a Scorp but I WANT a scorp...I love the drama, the fights, the jealousy and the possessiveness...."

That sounds bad to me, I maybe should think again that possibility to love a Scorp..

Damn you, drama kings and queens! It's all about the passion, right?

"S&S so is he scorp..bewatre like MM said dont care too much"

Ok, I stop caring right now. But I will care about him, I will just hide it well..

"You caps can't declare your love and us Scorps need to hear that once in a while"

I think I'm a bit different in this department. I do express my feelings very well. I'm very emotional.

Cap: You hold your feelings quite close to your chest..thats fine..so do we..but we do express it in actions...you need to do the same..

SS: Yes its all about the passion...It pervades our entire being..without it, we may as well not live..So you are emotional? whats your moon sign?

Drama kings & queens..hahaha..LOL..so true. We can't help ourselves..

SS: Care about him, but show it in small doses...don't go all out there and declare your undying love...we will run away

Like I said, they are just plain crazy people, you never know when you do the right thing.

If you can't care about them or show it, they want you more, right?

But if you don't express your feelings, they say that you are just uncapable of expressing those important passionate feelings they need you to show..

Does that sound crazy at all?

Damn, I don't wanna analyze this anymore, or they'll drive me crazy, too..

MM

My moon sign is Cancer. His moon sign is Virgo.

"Care about him, but show it in small doses...don't go all out there and declare your undying love...we will run away"

The same with me.. I will run away, too..

"whatever they call us cold,insensitive etc we know how much we can love and we do love..cant even express the depth of our feelings.and it last i think for very long,sometimes forever."

I hear you, cap. If it's gonna be forever depends on how deep the love is. When it's gone though, there's no turning back. It has to be somewhere deep inside to make it alive again..

Cap: I know what you say is true...Because I've had experience of this...I haven't come across many scorp/cap couples though I must say..Don't know why that is..they both know and understand each other so well..I think earth and water meshes sooooo well...we bring out in each other the best qualities..

SS: yeah don't think and analyze too much, you will lose your marbles (go crazy).

I logged onto msn this morning, to see my scorp online, he sends me a message "Hello sexy" so I replied "hey handsome"..then he goes "whats going on, you ok?"..I said yes fine and you?. Got no reply..he's disappeared...gone offline...

See that kind of stuff...if analyzed will do your head in...I know that somethings come up. He either couldn't be bothered to type, or he had to go out or I said something to annoy him. So you just let them get on with it..they'll be back in their own time..and then pretend nothing happened and carry on..

SS: My moon is in cancer too...I don't like it!

"I logged onto msn this morning, to see my scorp online, he sends me a message "Hello sexy" so I replied "hey handsome"..then he goes "whats going on, you ok?"..I said yes fine and you?. Got no reply..he's disappeared...gone offline...

See that kind of stuff...if analyzed will do your head in...I know that somethings come up. He either couldn't be bothered to type, or he had to go out or I said something to annoy him. So you just let them get on with it..they'll be back in their own time..and then pretend nothing happened and carry on.."

This is hilarious.. lol.. Why do I get a feeling that I have seen this thing going on before, maybe in my past life or something.. lol

"SS: My moon is in cancer too...I don't like it!"

And I'm so sorry for you, MM.. I know what it's like..

Hey thanks for your advice, MM.

I didn't think to analyze this at all but somehow I get in to this conversation here and ooppsss.. in the middle of analyzing things I don't even need to or want to analyze. So, for me this is just discussing things, I don't have actual problems right now with him. Anyway you can't know how long these things last. But it's for me more important now coz I liked him as a friend a lot.

LOL @ SS..your probably having a dejavous..if thats how you spell it!..lol..

We had an in-depth conversation last night about feelings..and it got a bit heavy..for both of us..so I guess he was trying to be all light hearted about it

"I always do that..i am not the kind to bother people 10 times a day..not the kind to complain a lot about stuff(no matter how much they are bothering me inside).I dont need to be with the person or ask him to be with me every day...sometimes yes i too feel like."

Hey cap, this is like me 🙂

"And i would loveto be with a scorp who can read my mind."

There's someone for me like that..

"But franckly speaking though i have n number of scorp friends and they claim to know me but i know they dont know me that well..and thats make me doubt their so called mind reading capacity.And I would loveto be with a scorp who can read my mind."

I don't think you caps would tell us if we did read your mind...Cos you guys are about control too to some extent..what we say to you and what we mean are two different things...My Cap used to accuse me of speaking in innuendos...I didn't realise I was doing this but according to him I did...He said you know everything about me, I don't know anything about you..go figure...My best friend is a Cap...I'd say I know what she's like..

yes MM, I got many d?j? vu's when I read that what happened to you this morning..lol

And yes, the same I have noticed that when you have been talking about something with deep feelings, commitments etc... they disappear for a while.. they kinda freak out their feelings and expressing them.. crazy people, like I said.. But interesting and worth waiting them get back to you again when they are ready.. lol.. you need to be strong to understand them or you'll soon find yourself in a mental institute.. lol

"you are lucky"

no, not yet.. working on it though.. good relationships always need a lot of work, but I guess the result will be much better too..

not superficial, cap.. they just want you to think so.

cap

Do you still see him? As a friend or anything? Do you keep in touch?

I can see that he is in your mind a lot..

Ah, make him suffer.. that's what he wants.. lol.. Those drama kings..

then there's someone else for you, someone even better 🙂 don't worry.. just live it day by day. Let him be, if he feels the same, he'll come to you.