Reality further Magnified

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by Gaurav_Aries on Tuesday, October 31, 2006 and has 50 replies.

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@Gaurav_Aries
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Another pitfall for Scorpio can lie in allowing herself to be run by negative, repressed emotional material, and to compensate by abusing power or manipulating others. Or, she could get enslaved by addictive appetites as a way of numbing out the psychological material that needs to be transformed.

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A Poison Tree :

I was angry with my friend:
I told my wrath, my wrath did end.
I was angry with my foe:
I told it not, my wrath did grow.

And I water'd it in fears,
Night & morning with my tears;
And I sunned it with smiles,
And with soft deceitful wiles.

And it grew both day and night,
Till it bore an apple bright;
And my foe beheld it shine,
And he knew that it was mine.

And into my garden stole,
When the night had veil'd the pole:
In the morning glad I see
My foe outstretch'd beneath the tree

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"She? Gaurav, dude, you are making it even more obvious than it already is, if that's even possible... "

O Yama wise-sage ....Accept my aplogies....But that was a representation πŸ˜‰

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@Gaurav_Aries
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"hey Gaurav if you dont mind me asking..what is exactly the problem between you and your scorp gal?"

Actually it shud be in the past tense. And yeah ...there was no problem at all...and no break-up. Till the last day ( before she mysteriously vanished) I was being showered with affection. It was typical of our culture as usual - "Parental Pressure" πŸ˜‰

That I was abandoned is not an issue....But it hurts when U r kept in dark.

It goes much deeper than this....difficult to explain the dynamics here.

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@Gaurav_Aries
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"nothing to do with her being scorp"

I didnt say that this aspect has any relation with her being a scorp.

Her being a scorp reflected like this -
( A dramatized version)

Relationship duration- 3 years ( ?99 to 02)

Jul 02 ?

Aries- Do u think u can manage ur parents ?otherwise think of some strategy.

Scorpio- Don't annoy me with such quries?.u r doubting my loyalty toward u.

Aug 02-

Aries- Can I speak to Miss Scorp ?

Anonymous- Sorry not available. Not at home. ( left for Pune actually).

Scorpio calls up Aries' fren-

Scorp- Wherez is Gaurav.

Fren- Hez left for Pune to meet u there.

Scorp ? What !....U guys are weird. Therez no problem at all.

Scorpio evades Aries in Pune. Doesn't take calls.

Sept 02

Scorpio Cousin ? Sorry due ?Shez getting married. U r invited. She wanted u to know.

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If the relationship left a void then you will never forget them..if you broke it off amicably or ended it somehow where both parties were present then you will move on. Simple..

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"you will not get anybody elses totol devotion if you have some other girl in your mind."

Jokes apart ....itz difficult to forget ...U cant wipe out the past completely.

BUT ...itz different from being able to DEAL with ur past.

I may not remember the babe...but I will rememebr the experience.

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""For this to happen ...one has to be in unision with self. I struggle at that."

Matlabβ€”

"

U need to recognize Ur needs first ...U shud have a firm grip on reality. πŸ™‚

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Scandalous!

Hey Cap..how dare you steal my idea..I was going to post a picture of just my eyes..was just waiting for the right picture...Right, MM going to war with Cap for stealing ideas!

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@Gaurav_Aries
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Cap....I have stressed it hazaar times ...Herez once more-

Fact is different from emotion -

For example-

" U r am ass"...Itz a fact.

"U r an ass but I still love U " ...is emotion. ( See the TRUE BIG picture).

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@missmorals
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"I wud have expected that from Mizzy"

Guru...Keep those kind of comments to yourself..even if they were meant in jest...Just cos you add a wink at the end doesn't justify making remarks of that kind...

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@Gaurav_Aries
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"Guru...Keep those kind of comments to yourself..even if they were meant in jest...Just cos you add a wink at the end doesn't justify making remarks of that kind..."

Point Taken. Tether's end.

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Yes, obviously, but the fact that he uses a female term instead of a genderless term that is usually used in representations insinuates that he isn't really thinking about this in abstract terms.(though it was fairly obvious already)
He admitted as much.

And I really don't see what nouns have to do with this.

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@Yama
20 Years5,000+ PostsScorpio

"For example: Scorpio, a zoadiac sign, is a noun. To reference it using "he" or "she" arbitrarily is assigning a gender to the zodiac sign itself, making it either masculine or feminine. It is up to the writer."

Yeah, I know, Hebrew is such a language.

"But you were on the money. Kudos to your keen insights!"

Thanks.πŸ™‚