Sagakhuri
@Sagakhuri
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Jumped the gun with this Leo, is he ever coming back?
He's gone. You took the fun out of it way too soon. Especially since you pretty much told him you just crawled out another mans bed.
Posted by SsupermanOh god no! He doesn't know where when and how with the scorp. All I told him was I've been in a situation ship and strung along in the past. No details at all!
He's gone. You took the fun out of it way too soon. Especially since you pretty much told him you just crawled out another mans bed.
Posted by SagakhuriI'm sure he figured it out. We don't retreat easilyPosted by SsupermanOh god no! He doesn't know where when and how with the scorp. All I told him was I've been in a situation ship and strung along in the past. No details at all!
He's gone. You took the fun out of it way too soon. Especially since you pretty much told him you just crawled out another mans bed.click to expand
Posted by aquarius_beautyI know I laid it on way too fast and way too thick. But when we've even spoken about MARRIAGE! (Which he brought up and seems like we're on the same level about that as well) we've spoken about all sorts of things with about one another, he's opened up to me about issues at home and all that. Though I agree that there's still so much we need to know about one another and I told him that as well.
People on here told me my Leo wouldn't come back. He came back like a couple months later telling me he still had feelings and I was the best thing that ever happened to him but we'd known each other for a while.
As for what Ssuperman said, I agree. Nobody wants to feel pressured to begin a relationship. You guys hardly know each other and you already laid it out with demands. You should have waited until you guys at least dated a few times.
He can come back but only time and space will tell.
Well, I've left a phone in his car that slipped under the seat in my haste to get out after "the talk". So I do need to message him............. At some point. but now the question is, do I tell him to drop it off somewhere so we don't need to see one another or do I kind of just see what he says about it?
Posted by leowwwPosted by SagakhuriNothing wrong with being honest... But as a Leo woman... A guy talking to me like that.. Would freak me out... too much too soon. Take it easy, get to know each other..have fun... This isn't just about the Leo.. But in general..
I'll try and make this as brief as possible because nobody wants to hear anyone's life story. I'm a Sag, he's a Leo. We've hung out for about a month a half. Everytime we meet we have an amazing time. He's given me signs that he likes me more than just a friend-- side note: before he came a long I was tangled in with a Scorp who i could see myself with.. But he had other ideas other than a relationship and basically strung me about (great sex can only do so much) and put me In a situationship (google it), needless to say it was agonizing getting over him and I wanted to make sure my Leo knew that I wasn't in it for just 'fun'. He is the first guy that I have ever met that was on my wavelength. He responds by saying that it's too much pressure and he shouldn't feel pressure when getting to know someone and that it's best we don't hang out anymore and not go forward, but I was an amazing person to get to know and that he has nothing but respect for me. Haven't spoken to him for a few days( it happened a few days ago) It still feels very.. Unfinished.
Obviously im Sorry I laid it on too thick, but I'm not gonna be sorry for being honest in what I want from him. And for me it was a discussion to be had not, "we don't see eye to eye with one another, I can't have that. I'm bailing out of your life."
Any thoughts? Think he will come back at some point or has he run off for good?
Will he come back? Nobody can tell you that..
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I know, I know! It's surprising to me when I look back at to back it because I'm always the one who's so easy going and loves to have fun. But after this scorpio, I was done playing games and wanted something real for once and thought I could find it in him.... Obviously not. But I seem to find myself moving forward without him now. I've got a lot on my plate so... I don't know that I care if he comes back (the blessings of being a Sag I guess), but I do think we had something unique and I do hope he comes back to me at some point.
Posted by Freetobe007Posted by aquarius_beautyPosted by SagakhuriPosted by aquarius_beauty
People on here told me my Leo wouldn't come back. He came back like a couple months later telling me he still had feelings and I was the best thing that ever happened to him but we'd known each other for a while.
As for what Ssuperman said, I agree. Nobody wants to feel pressured to begin a relationship. You guys hardly know each other and you already laid it out with demands. You should have waited until you guys at least dated a few times.
He can come back but only time and space will tell.
Basically. Leo's tend to get enthusiastic and throw out romantic ideas but they're just lovely ideas unless clear, unquestionable actions are being taken. Until he's actually putting that plan into action, just take it as him being cutesy.click to expand
The more I research, the more I find out and see him for what it was. I just find it humorous that as a Sag that ( talk of marriage) didn't scare me off, but me speaking of something with commitment (which should scare me off) is something that made him run the other way instead of me.
Posted by Freetobe007Are you sure you didn't just feel the need to reiterate to yourself that you would not allow yourself to fall back down the slippery slope that Scorp got you stuck on? I ask because just over a month is barely enough time to decide if you even want his experience to be more than just fun. For all you know, he may not even be as vastly compatible with you as you hope or think right now. There could be some non-astrological factors that make you only want a momentary, fun fling and "the talk" may not even be necessary with this guy.I know, the more I think about it, the more I wan to kick myself!! But as said before I'm not gonna be sorry for being honest. I do think it was me making sure I don't fall prey to the same game as the scorp. I know that a month isn't enough and I did tell him that I agreed we don't know each other that well and were still getting to know each other that I may feel this way. It was all a bug blunder of too much alcohol during thanksgiving dinner as holding these insecurities inside.
I'm pretty sure he'll come back 🙂 Leos and Sags have a powerful, magnetic connection. Once a Leo has started the romantic attachment process, we typically don't unhook ourselves so uneasily. *Side note: Once a Leo has started the detachment process, we typically don't hook ourselves back so easily so don't ever screw him over, betray him, or give him a legitimate reason
Posted by aquarius_beautyOh snap this is true. I always tend to get ahead of myself. I make all these future plans of having a big house with white picket fences and I can see our three adorable kids running around the lawn. And then when the relationship starts, I begin to question myself. Also, I'm not sure what flipped your Leo's switch but usually if I saw that to someone, it's because I was never serious with them to begin with.Posted by SagakhuriIDK if this is true for Leos, because my Leo is very different (thanks to his Scorpio moon), but I've read that Leos tend to get ahead of themselves. They're romantics at heart so they get all worked up about marriage, kids, and what not. But that doesn't mean his 100% serious about it. Only his actions will show you now if he truly meant what he said. Besides I think there's a double standard here. It's ok for men to do it to you but you can't pressure them. Let them take the lead, it will save you a lot of hurt in the end.Posted by aquarius_beautyI know I laid it on way too fast and way too thick. But when we've even spoken about MARRIAGE! (Which he brought up and seems like we're on the same level about that as well) we've spoken about all sorts of things with about one another, he's opened up to me about issues at home and all that. Though I agree that there's still so much we need to know about one another and I told him that as well.
People on here told me my Leo wouldn't come back. He came back like a couple months later telling me he still had feelings and I was the best thing that ever happened to him but we'd known each other for a while.
As for what Ssuperman said, I agree. Nobody wants to feel pressured to begin a relationship. You guys hardly know each other and you already laid it out with demands. You should have waited until you guys at least dated a few times.
He can come back but only time and space will tell.
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Also, I never return after saying something like that to somebody. But having said all this, Sag-Leo have an undeniable magnetic pull so I'm not sure what might happen with your Leo.
I don't think you should chase. Maybe just drop a "hey how're you doing" text after a month and see if he responds. If he gives you simple replies, he's just being polite. But if he steers the conversation into wanting to make plans to meet, then you have a good chance of resuming your thing. Good luck!
Just take it easy, he is probably just going through unsure phase where he him self put the cart before the horse in his mind and is trying to figure shit out in his head.
Just do this reach out to him in a more laid back way that doesn't present any pressure and be friends.
Don't mention anything about relationships and say you wana catch up for lunch and make it casual.
But when's the last time you texted, called or seen him
Just do this reach out to him in a more laid back way that doesn't present any pressure and be friends.
Don't mention anything about relationships and say you wana catch up for lunch and make it casual.
But when's the last time you texted, called or seen him
Posted by MishmorecookieI wonder if this magnetic pull between Leo/Sag also plays itself out with Venus in Leo/Venus in Sag?Posted by aquarius_beautyOh snap this is true. I always tend to get ahead of myself. I make all these future plans of having a big house with white picket fences and I can see our three adorable kids running around the lawn. And then when the relationship starts, I begin to question myself. Also, I'm not sure what flipped your Leo's switch but usually if I saw that to someone, it's because I was never serious with them to begin with.Posted by SagakhuriIDK if this is true for Leos, because my Leo is very different (thanks to his Scorpio moon), but I've read that Leos tend to get ahead of themselves. They're romantics at heart so they get all worked up about marriage, kids, and what not. But that doesn't mean his 100% serious about it. Only his actions will show you now if he truly meant what he said. Besides I think there's a double standard here. It's ok for men to do it to you but you can't pressure them. Let them take the lead, it will save you a lot of hurt in the end.Posted by aquarius_beautyI know I laid it on way too fast and way too thick. But when we've even spoken about MARRIAGE! (Which he brought up and seems like we're on the same level about that as well) we've spoken about all sorts of things with about one another, he's opened up to me about issues at home and all that. Though I agree that there's still so much we need to know about one another and I told him that as well.
People on here told me my Leo wouldn't come back. He came back like a couple months later telling me he still had feelings and I was the best thing that ever happened to him but we'd known each other for a while.
As for what Ssuperman said, I agree. Nobody wants to feel pressured to begin a relationship. You guys hardly know each other and you already laid it out with demands. You should have waited until you guys at least dated a few times.
He can come back but only time and space will tell.
Also, I never return after saying something like that to somebody. But having said all this, Sag-Leo have an undeniable magnetic pull so I'm not sure what might happen with your Leo.
I don't think you should chase. Maybe just drop a "hey how're you doing" text after a month and see if he responds. If he gives you simple replies, he's just being polite. But if he steers the conversation into wanting to make plans to meet, then you have a good chance of resuming your thing. Good luck!
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Obviously im Sorry I laid it on too thick, but I'm not gonna be sorry for being honest in what I want from him. And for me it was a discussion to be had not, "we don't see eye to eye with one another, I can't have that. I'm bailing out of your life."
Any thoughts? Think he will come back at some point or has he run off for good?