Leo Man Left - Advice Please

I was with a leo for 9 years. We were living together and I had a difficult year last year. Lost my job. We lost our apartment. And then my boyfriend decided the stress was too much and he left. He called me one day out of the blue and said he didn't love me anymore.
I later found out he was with someone else already. It has been 4 months.
I am finding it really difficult to forget him.
He blocked me from all contact - Facebook, phone, whatsapp etc.
Recently his new girlfriend tried adding me on Facebook, tried calling me and even stalked my other social profiles - which are now all private.

My question is - why would she be so aggressive in her stalking?
Is this typical behavior for a Leo and is there anything I can do to get him back? What makes a Leo forgive?
Thanks & please only constructive feedback as it's not an easy period for me.

Aww Im really sorry about all this.

From my experience Leos are really stubborn and get mad quick. Usually their pride gets in the way of reaching out so anytime one of my Leo friends are mad I just try to be as open and honest with them as I can. They are quick to anger but don’t hold grudges for long, they are really understanding and forgiving if they care about the person. But once their ego has been hurt than it’s hard for them so they throw a tantrum

As far as the girl, maybe he told her about you and wanted to see what you’re about. Some girls are really curious about their man previous relationships, especially a 9 year one

Thanks so much for the response iroxane...
I think it's a pretty bold move for her to add me on Facebook and then even try calling me. I didn't answer.
But my question is - are his feelings for me really over or is there a chance he will regret leaving and this girl is just a rebound?
He has broken all ties with me. And I am wondering if there is anything I can do to get him back...

i think that all leos and all men generally come back someday... you are together 9 years.. except if he'll find the girl of his dream (nah he won't, he will come back..) but it takes time..


First of all don't intiate contact at least for 3-4 months (cause you were together so many years)... find yourself, go out with your friends, sign up at yoga classes or whatever makes you happy.

Also if you leave this time pass without contact/ the mad feelings will fade away.

After this time intiate contact by clever way... a text that you ask his help for example (no i miss you etc), (you can search on google what kind of msgs).

It worked for me... but the sad truth is that it will never be perfect again...rarely the 2nd chance works..... But i can't say much for your situation cause 9 years are long time. For sure he won't forget you.. The only thing i'm sure is to give him time and find yourself. 🙂

I have already gone about 3 months no contact and then she started writing me out of the blue.
Is it a bad idea to send him a sincere letter and try to rekindle some feeling from him? Or some sort of gesture?

Im still Stuck on he left you after losing your job and apartment. Two timing douche he is and you worried about taking him back or how to get him..

The year was very stressful and I went away for awhile. We were both fighting a lot because of the situation and he said I "left him alone for too long". What I don't get is why he has completely blocked me from everything and how he could have jumped into another relationship so quickly...

Me
Sun Scorpio
Moon Leo
Venus Scorpio

Him
Sun Leo
Moon Leo
Venus Virgo

i don't think that will work by letter. I think that the feelings for leos can reborn slowly after contact.... but leos can say better.


We don't know how he feels about the other girl...so.. it's difficult to say... I think you should move on. But I know how difficult is... I'm fighting the same situation (i dont know if he has another girl right now...) and it's only the 1/9 of the time you spent together.

I have also a leo good friend, and I can never never understand them.....they have their own logic about things.

Just move on.... It breaks your hurt really bad but if you try to get him back you just make the time of the break longer...

If you really want to do sth...send him a text on his phone for sth he forgot.. but not emotional one, be kind and cool. or appear somewhere you know that he'll come...just be as pretty as you can.

I'm confused as to why you are asking if LEOs forgive?!

When the going got tough he abandoned you, but not before lying and cheating on you for 4 months.

He should be begging for YOUR forgiveness. And you should spit in his eye.

You guys are really helpful and sweet.
The new girl is a Sagittarius not a Scorpio.

I know it's silly to want his forgiveness but I wasnt myself this year and treated him quite badly. A relationship failure always takes 2...

Posted by Li1199
You guys are really helpful and sweet.
The new girl is a Sagittarius not a Scorpio.

I know it's silly to want his forgiveness but I wasnt myself this year and treated him quite badly. A relationship failure always takes 2...

Okay I get that shit we all been through shit and taking back an ex or just going through some type of bullshit like this and that and still try to work it out .

But I been through that they will not change their behavior since they have been like that for along time before getting together. So you wish and hope to express it and see where it goes. But it's gets harder when it is one sided and no longer able to compromise the damage is done.

It's not going to change and let someone else deal with it and go do for yourself now.

Start right now and be independent for you and no one else. Go get a job, save, get your own place and be careful out there. Leave him he doesn't care he will probably do it to others too.

Posted by Li1199
You guys are really helpful and sweet.
The new girl is a Sagittarius not a Scorpio.

I know it's silly to want his forgiveness but I wasnt myself this year and treated him quite badly. A relationship failure always takes 2...

Yes, it takes two, but still though. He traded nine good years for one bad year. Doesn't that speak volumes to you?

I'm a Scorpio and have not been obsessive at all. Of course when the break up first happened, I tried to contact him and 'win him back' but for about a week.

I have never ever 'stalked' either of them and had no idea what this girl looked like till she tried to add me on Facebook.

Scorpios can indeed be obsessive but usually they are with themselves not with others. This I can 100% vouch for.