Leo man loves me but is giving up because of distance?

We both love each other but we are not a couple due to the fact that we dont live in the same country.

Im Sag and the sex is great too. He told me he had the best sex ever with me. He left last week and back on his country. Even when he was here, he has been telling me to look for someone worthwhile as LDR is something he cant start. When I told him I might have a date with another guy, he told me he's a bit jealous but is happy for me.

He said so many things that tells me he's decided not to pursue anything further, so my question is, do Leos really mean what they say? shouldnt I hope anymore? we still talk everyday..he's been updating me with the things going on with him and all.

I kind of want to try to be in LDR with him but I dont know how. Should I pull back and make him want me?

Posted by TheLibraMudra
I know you're looking for answers from Leos but....

Honestly, if he's telling you not to bank on any LDR stuff, I'd listen to that. Especially if he's saying things like "look for someone else" and is alright with you being with other people.

I've been in a LDR with a Leo for 2 years. Separated by water and countries. It has been so hard. In fact, I don't know how many times I've cried, wanting to give up lol. Pulling my bratty break up crap and all. Pushing him away. The poor thing has experienced what a hot ass mess I can be.

But he has been determined to make it work from the start. It is always "how are ya feelin today? How can I help you? What can I do for you? You don't believe me? Here, let me show you. Talk to me. You have to talk this out with me. I am always here. Can't you just keep skype on while we sleep with me?" He has saved and Sacrificed so much. Spoiled me from another country. Seriously cherished my presence even from so far away. Everyday.

When a Leo wants to make something work and believes its worth it, he is unstoppable. I can say that goes for anyone of any sign but something about these guys... It's done with great power lol

He's the first Leo that i've met and he's such a great person. Comparing him to the other guys I've dated/known, man, he's all I ever wanted.. I tried to move on but its not as easy as it seems. He told me he still wants to keep talking to me even if he's back on his country and that I mean a lot to him.. but what's stopping him is maybe the physical aspect. He's never been in a LDR before.. Im still hoping that a miracle will happen and he would want me even if its LDR, but at the same time, i have to move on...

Posted by anashin
We both love each other but we are not a couple due to the fact that we dont live in the same country.

Im Sag and the sex is great too. He told me he had the best sex ever with me. He left last week and back on his country. Even when he was here, he has been telling me to look for someone worthwhile as LDR is something he cant start. When I told him I might have a date with another guy, he told me he's a bit jealous but is happy for me.

He said so many things that tells me he's decided not to pursue anything further, so my question is, do Leos really mean what they say? shouldnt I hope anymore? we still talk everyday..he's been updating me with the things going on with him and all.

I kind of want to try to be in LDR with him but I dont know how. Should I pull back and make him want me?

I get how you feel, Sag and Leos just have some sort of magnetic pull towards each other. My Sag ex cheated on me with countless women, I left him and am now still his best friend. We speak every single day even though we're now both seeing other people.

All that said, this still isn't feasible. Leos are not the "absence make the heart grow stronger" type. Unless you are already in a stable long term relationship with them, and by that I mean maybe a year in at least.

We're physical beings and need to always be reassured, even when we don't show the need to. Deep down inside every lion is a whole lot of insecurities. He may start seeing somebody else back home when he wants attention and you're not around. I say nip it in the bud. I'm so sorry, love. May you soon find true happiness xoxo

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Posted by anashin
We both love each other but we are not a couple due to the fact that we dont live in the same country.

Im Sag and the sex is great too. He told me he had the best sex ever with me. He left last week and back on his country. Even when he was here, he has been telling me to look for someone worthwhile as LDR is something he cant start. When I told him I might have a date with another guy, he told me he's a bit jealous but is happy for me.

He said so many things that tells me he's decided not to pursue anything further, so my question is, do Leos really mean what they say? shouldnt I hope anymore? we still talk everyday..he's been updating me with the things going on with him and all.

I kind of want to try to be in LDR with him but I dont know how. Should I pull back and make him want me?

I get how you feel, Sag and Leos just have some sort of magnetic pull towards each other. My Sag ex cheated on me with countless women, I left him and am now still his best friend. We speak every single day even though we're now both seeing other people.

All that said, this still isn't feasible. Leos are not the "absence make the heart grow stronger" type. Unless you are already in a stable long term relationship with them, and by that I mean maybe a year in at least.

We're physical beings and need to always be reassured, even when we don't show the need to. Deep down inside every lion is a whole lot of insecurities. He may start seeing somebody else back home when he wants attention and you're not around. I say nip it in the bud. I'm so sorry, love. May you soon find true happiness xoxo

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True. The chemistry is just so good that we always want to be around each other. sigh..

So how best should I move on without hurting him? The only thing I can think of is to ignore him completely and not to talk to him.

Posted by TheLibraMudra

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Posted by TheLibraMudra
I know you're looking for answers from Leos but....

Honestly, if he's telling you not to bank on any LDR stuff, I'd listen to that. Especially if he's saying things like "look for someone else" and is alright with you being with other people.

I've been in a LDR with a Leo for 2 years. Separated by water and countries. It has been so hard. In fact, I don't know how many times I've cried, wanting to give up lol. Pulling my bratty break up crap and all. Pushing him away. The poor thing has experienced what a hot ass mess I can be.

But he has been determined to make it work from the start. It is always "how are ya feelin today? How can I help you? What can I do for you? You don't believe me? Here, let me show you. Talk to me. You have to talk this out with me. I am always here. Can't you just keep skype on while we sleep with me?" He has saved and Sacrificed so much. Spoiled me from another country. Seriously cherished my presence even from so far away. Everyday.

When a Leo wants to make something work and believes its worth it, he is unstoppable. I can say that goes for anyone of any sign but something about these guys... It's done with great power lol

He's the first Leo that i've met and he's such a great person. Comparing him to the other guys I've dated/known, man, he's all I ever wanted.. I tried to move on but its not as easy as it seems. He told me he still wants to keep talking to me even if he's back on his country and that I mean a lot to him.. but what's stopping him is maybe the physical aspect. He's never been in a LDR before.. Im still hoping that a miracle will happen and he would want me even if its LDR, but at the same time, i have to move on...

What countries are ya in? I mean you could still keep talking, of course. But don't hold any expectations over him because of your feelings...

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Im in MEA and he's in Aus. Yes, we can keep talking but maybe i need to tone down for a while and when im ready, I can be a friend to him 100%

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Posted by anashin
We both love each other but we are not a couple due to the fact that we dont live in the same country.

Im Sag and the sex is great too. He told me he had the best sex ever with me. He left last week and back on his country. Even when he was here, he has been telling me to look for someone worthwhile as LDR is something he cant start. When I told him I might have a date with another guy, he told me he's a bit jealous but is happy for me.

He said so many things that tells me he's decided not to pursue anything further, so my question is, do Leos really mean what they say? shouldnt I hope anymore? we still talk everyday..he's been updating me with the things going on with him and all.

I kind of want to try to be in LDR with him but I dont know how. Should I pull back and make him want me?

I get how you feel, Sag and Leos just have some sort of magnetic pull towards each other. My Sag ex cheated on me with countless women, I left him and am now still his best friend. We speak every single day even though we're now both seeing other people.

All that said, this still isn't feasible. Leos are not the "absence make the heart grow stronger" type. Unless you are already in a stable long term relationship with them, and by that I mean maybe a year in at least.

We're physical beings and need to always be reassured, even when we don't show the need to. Deep down inside every lion is a whole lot of insecurities. He may start seeing somebody else back home when he wants attention and you're not around. I say nip it in the bud. I'm so sorry, love. May you soon find true happiness xoxo

True. The chemistry is just so good that we always want to be around each other. sigh..

So how best should I move on without hurting him? The only thing I can think of is to ignore him completely and not to talk to him.

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Just tell him you can't be around him knowing you still have strong feelings for him. He did ask you to move on, so give him that. If he comes back, do your best to avoid, for your own sanity.

Posted by TheLibraMudra
I know you're looking for answers from Leos but....

Honestly, if he's telling you not to bank on any LDR stuff, I'd listen to that. Especially if he's saying things like "look for someone else" and is alright with you being with other people.

I've been in a LDR with a Leo for 2 years. Separated by water and countries. It has been so hard. In fact, I don't know how many times I've cried, wanting to give up lol. Pulling my bratty break up crap and all. Pushing him away. The poor thing has experienced what a hot ass mess I can be.

But he has been determined to make it work from the start. It is always "how are ya feelin today? How can I help you? What can I do for you? You don't believe me? Here, let me show you. Talk to me. You have to talk this out with me. I am always here. Can't you just keep skype on while we sleep with me?" He has saved and Sacrificed so much. Spoiled me from another country. Seriously cherished my presence even from so far away. Everyday.

When a Leo wants to make something work and believes its worth it, he is unstoppable. I can say that goes for anyone of any sign but something about these guys... It's done with great power lol

I would like to give an update.

We are a couple now. When I was breaking it off with him he didnt agree and instead he asked me to be his girlfriend. He said our relationship wont be easy but he wants to make it work.

The stronger the feelings the more it's hard to over look any manipulative jealousy tactics. But he told you it's okay to find someone who makes you happy and it's a natural break up.

Things of being friends are good until they get into a relationship with someone else and they have those I only talk to one person at a time morals. And means being friends more away and focusing on the current.

Good luck and make it work just don't get screwed. Be on guard and communicate.

And then what? how long before getting together and being a couple together, moving to another country or something like that since yall together now. Now you have some thinking to do, how long you go on about this, do something.

Posted by anashin
We both love each other but we are not a couple due to the fact that we dont live in the same country.

Im Sag and the sex is great too. He told me he had the best sex ever with me. He left last week and back on his country. Even when he was here, he has been telling me to look for someone worthwhile as LDR is something he cant start. When I told him I might have a date with another guy, he told me he's a bit jealous but is happy for me.

He said so many things that tells me he's decided not to pursue anything further, so my question is, do Leos really mean what they say? shouldnt I hope anymore? we still talk everyday..he's been updating me with the things going on with him and all.

I kind of want to try to be in LDR with him but I dont know how. Should I pull back and make him want me?

I am currently in a relationship with a Leo and he lives 2,000 miles away. When we started the ldr, he knew he'd be back in my city within 3 years, but he just got an offer for a major career boost for another 4-5 years. So, he's thinking we shouldn't try to continue a ldr, but not definitely ending it. Ugh. Plus it's Mercury retrograde.

Hope it works out, if he mentions you dating others, maybe you should and keep in touch? I kind of did this with my Leo over the years bc he's not been able to settle into a relationship. It makes him a bit jealous too? he locked me down this time after mentioning all my dates he saw me on FB. Worth a try?

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Posted by anashin
We both love each other but we are not a couple due to the fact that we dont live in the same country.

Im Sag and the sex is great too. He told me he had the best sex ever with me. He left last week and back on his country. Even when he was here, he has been telling me to look for someone worthwhile as LDR is something he cant start. When I told him I might have a date with another guy, he told me he's a bit jealous but is happy for me.

He said so many things that tells me he's decided not to pursue anything further, so my question is, do Leos really mean what they say? shouldnt I hope anymore? we still talk everyday..he's been updating me with the things going on with him and all.

I kind of want to try to be in LDR with him but I dont know how. Should I pull back and make him want me?

I am currently in a relationship with a Leo and he lives 2,000 miles away. When we started the ldr, he knew he'd be back in my city within 3 years, but he just got an offer for a major career boost for another 4-5 years. So, he's thinking we shouldn't try to continue a ldr, but not definitely ending it. Ugh. Plus it's Mercury retrograde.

Hope it works out, if he mentions you dating others, maybe you should and keep in touch? I kind of did this with my Leo over the years bc he's not been able to settle into a relationship. It makes him a bit jealous too? he locked me down this time after mentioning all my dates he saw me on FB. Worth a try?

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Ohh. so he allowed you to date others and then got jealous?? This is my vibe from my leo too. He doesnt admit it but he gets jealous!

No, we didn't date others while we were in a relationship. Before we were in a relationship, I dated others on and off for years and that's why he locked me down in a relationship this year?

When they say you should date others, I would. Actually, I am a Pisces, I say SEE YA! If a man ever said that to me. They would never see me again.