@cap..
16 Years
"So I don't know if i should cut cords with him and avoid being hurt since he'll be starting a new life or should I make a move. Keep in touch let him get to know me and me get to know more about him while he's still here?"
Why cut cords until he hasnt done anything mean . If you are not sure then don't make any move but why not stay in touch and spend time together.
If you're asking if you should pursue him
the answer is No.
I agree with Montgomery that ideally you should not pursue him.
I am old school too . Now thinking about my husbands experience... i have noticed he never had a long relationship with those who made the first move . Could be a coincidence .
Okay, I can speak from my perspective. I'm a Leo and I do not like to waste my time on social medias,therefor sometimes I might miss some updates from my friends for example like on instragram etc. But I do keep an eye on my phone constantly in case if someone call me.
The other thing, I think he is just being with you and trying to get over his shit because he is apparently still hurt. I suggest you to be there for him even tho he doesnt call back , sooner or later if he have liked u a little bit, he will realize u are there for him and he will come back for u
Posted by cap..
I agree with Montgomery that ideally you should not pursue him.I am old school too . Now thinking about my husbands experience... i have noticed he never had a long relationship with those who made the first move . Could be a coincidence .
For me I need to truly know a person first. Rushed relationships never work because I won't have the time to like them as a person and a best friend first, therefor I'll never develop actual respect, trust, and love for that person.
But also remember that he might still be -hurt- and therefor he might be still sitting and thinking on it because I know shit happened for a couple of years ago to me and I still sit and think about it. I would say, try to reach him 1-2 times more and if nothing happens, then just cut him off like dont contact him. Eventually, if he did like u... he will then contact u when he feel ready for it or something or he will just forget u.
remember, a sad leo would appreciate u if u are there for him when he is down at his lowest
Personally, I find rebounding after a bad relationship extremely difficult. We're talking months, if not years...
This being said, if he's moving to another country, what's the point of putting in too much energy?
Just keep in touch randomly, as you would for a friend. That's very important to someone who has been very hurt. They want to know that you really like them as a person and not only as a love-prospect.
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I am married to a leo and i know they are very very bad with phones , messages , social media , followups